SP who show their face, is this possibly problematic?
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Anyone showing their face on the web is problematic. For years ladies on Model Mayhem had their images copied and shown on adult websites. What you don't know is whose face is actually being shown, anywhere. It is very easy to deny and say that one's face was copied without her permission. Happens all the time to Seeking Arrangement girls. So I would say yes and no because the image, if it is actually hers, can be copied, but at the same time it can also be denied as being copied. Plausible deniability is at 100%.
I love being able to see an SP face first though, it’s probably the most important thing for me!
There are a few girls from the agencies who have gone public with their faces so I wonder about this too.
But after so long in this hobby and getting older and having more experience with women, I'm cynically less worried because a lot of women are able to do amazing things with makeup, appear like completely different people.
At this point, I think I'm less confident about my eyes being a way to identify a person than mannerisms, the way they move, the way they talk.
But after so long in this hobby and getting older and having more experience with women, I'm cynically less worried because a lot of women are able to do amazing things with makeup, appear like completely different people.
At this point, I think I'm less confident about my eyes being a way to identify a person than mannerisms, the way they move, the way they talk.
EB I agree with you.
But tell me why are there girls here on this site showing their faces?
They are young and know social media well. So why?
They don't think about the future.
For me too I love to see the face, but I respect the girls who don't want to show it.
But here we are talking about SP.
I would also like to have the opinion of the girls on this site, I am thinking of the girls who announce themselves and who take selfies with their faces exposed.
Tons of the agencies in Europe give their regular customers a security code access to get unblurred pics of their staff on their websites. Especially the ones who cater to rich ass “whales”. The girls themselves aren’t really concerned about pics being thrown around as clientele isn’t really riff raff. There are some DDG chics @ some of these places. However your paying €500-750 and above /hour.
Problem is, as many have noted in other threads, DDG does not equal spectacular service. Best is to get info about staff from agency bookers and owners
Problem is, as many have noted in other threads, DDG does not equal spectacular service. Best is to get info about staff from agency bookers and owners
Sometimes in desperate situations, they might give up privacy in order to get more bookings. Showing their face will instantly ensure increased booking.
Personally I chose to show my face because I felt comfortable with it. Now I appreciate it even more as a stance against the stigma we face as sex workers, there is nothing to be ashamed of. But I also don't want to do anything else and my close-ones know. So I'm very ok with my face being out there, but I understand those who prefer to remain anonymous. It's a very personal choice that requires a lot of thinking, nobody takes this decision lightly.
Like others have said I prefer to see a face in the profile. I applaud the ladies that show their faces. They are probably stronger than any of us. It takes a lot of guts to make that decision and face the possible backlash in their personal lives. My guess is the people that do, like Rose, are comfortable with their decision and don't feel they have anything to hide or be ashamed of. To be honest, if you are on this site, who are any of us to judge our neighbor/coworker/acquaintance if we saw they were posting their services.
I suppose if you were running for public office or were working in a field where your employer would judge you on your past, then it could be a knock against you. But if you don't plan on doing that, than it takes a lot of strength to show your face (and also endure the critique of it).
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I suppose if you were running for public office or were working in a field where your employer would judge you on your past, then it could be a knock against you. But if you don't plan on doing that, than it takes a lot of strength to show your face (and also endure the critique of it).
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Indeed and most of us are well aware of the consequences of showing our faces (there shouldn't be, but that's another discussion entirely). I dislike the implication behind:
'' They are young and know social media well. So why?
They don't think about the future.''
It is quite patronizing to assume that providers didn't think before showing their faces. It is probably the most asked question by new providers to more experienced ones. We are well aware of the stigma we face and the implication of choosing our profession. Also, if they do choose to show their face, it is because they accept the consequences and know whether or not it will affect their future jobs (if they want to do anything else). Please give us some credit.
'' They are young and know social media well. So why?
They don't think about the future.''
It is quite patronizing to assume that providers didn't think before showing their faces. It is probably the most asked question by new providers to more experienced ones. We are well aware of the stigma we face and the implication of choosing our profession. Also, if they do choose to show their face, it is because they accept the consequences and know whether or not it will affect their future jobs (if they want to do anything else). Please give us some credit.
Sene5hos, those who chose to show their face have also thought about the future and made their decisions accordingly. It's a long process that we all go through upon entering the industry.
Why are you so concerned about this? Do you think they are too stupid to think for themselves?
There are very very few SPs who show their face. And the ones that do, they have thought it through.
There are very very few SPs who show their face. And the ones that do, they have thought it through.
I think most SP thought about it a great deal before they show their face.
Most are way smarter than people give them credit for.
I never make it a must for them to do that.
So far I have never been disappointed, most are above average looking otherwise they would have a tough time in this profession.
Most are way smarter than people give them credit for.
I never make it a must for them to do that.
So far I have never been disappointed, most are above average looking otherwise they would have a tough time in this profession.
Your post is paternalistic and judgmental (note the responses it spawned), and to some extent the thread may be as well. Did you ever hear of Belle Knox? She was Duke educated and a porn star and knew what she was doing. She just rejected people who think like you do and who embed a judgment on her actions, and that is permitted.
Yes it's true I am paternalistic.
I wouldn't want my daughters to show their faces, if they worked in this field.
Your pornstar is not a good example.
Almost all pornstars show their faces.
I am very aware that the majority are educated, and that they must have thought about it a long time before making their decisions.
I don’t think there is anything wrong with the thread it is something that I am sure we have all been curious about.
I have had this conversation with a few of my favourite SP, they were actually quite open in discussing it.
Some like Rose had thought about it a great deal before they decided to reveal their face others I know will never do that I will not get into the reasons because some of the reasons are obvious and others are private which will stay that way.
In all cases these young ladies were well aware of why they went in the direction they did.
Yes It is nice to see the face also before making a choice but so far I would say it is about half of the ones that I have seen show their face and I would say the ones that didn’t ended up looking just as gorgeous.
My ATF who in my eyes is stunning doesn’t show her face, and Katrina and Rose do who I don’t think nobody would dispute are also gorgeous so it is not such a big deal for me.
I have had this conversation with a few of my favourite SP, they were actually quite open in discussing it.
Some like Rose had thought about it a great deal before they decided to reveal their face others I know will never do that I will not get into the reasons because some of the reasons are obvious and others are private which will stay that way.
In all cases these young ladies were well aware of why they went in the direction they did.
Yes It is nice to see the face also before making a choice but so far I would say it is about half of the ones that I have seen show their face and I would say the ones that didn’t ended up looking just as gorgeous.
My ATF who in my eyes is stunning doesn’t show her face, and Katrina and Rose do who I don’t think nobody would dispute are also gorgeous so it is not such a big deal for me.
"SP who show their face, is this possibly problematic?"
Problematic for who? That is the question.
Problematic for who? That is the question.
If the girl choose to show her face by her own choice and not forced and coerced to do then no point of arguing/questioning/debating about it.
Her choice. Her life.
You like what you see? Book her.
Her choice. Her life.
You like what you see? Book her.
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