Yes it's true I am paternalistic.
I wouldn't want my daughters to show their faces, if they worked in this field.
Your pornstar is not a good example.
Almost all pornstars show their faces.
I am very aware that the majority are educated, and that they must have thought about it a long time before making their decisions.
I sure hope that if your daughters ever choose to be sex workers, you would try making their job safer by advocating for decriminalization instead of advocating hiding their chosen profession. And also question yourself as to why you are comfortable hiring providers yet still think this job is something to be ashamed of.