SPs & BBFS, HIV outbreak in Montréal.

[MCTJ]

I generally don’t carry condom and so when we are having sex and it’s time for penetration I let them know I cannot do it because I have no condom but they insist it’s okay with out a condom
Surprisingly it’s the older women
The one that are okay with me BB are usually on BC or had a hysterectomy They are not worried about STd as much They are worried about pregnancy They are not escorts and dont sleep with many men and assume I don’t sleep around either
The ones who are not on BC are more likely to want a condom or have me pull out before cumming but still allow BB at the heat of the moment.
Again these are civies not escorts
I would not have BB with escorts

Don't take it personal as I'm using your experience and that of the women you're meeting, which are certainly typical of many others. And that's exactly why our rates of STI are increasing. The hookup culture, marginalization of condom use driven by porn, and a lack of education about STIs.

Personally I'm careful. I know I'll never get HIV and I won't involuntarily impregnate another woman. I'm behaving like a responsible human being.

 

[Valentina]

The hookup culture,

I fully agree 100%

marginalization of condom use driven by porn,

I halfway agree 50%

and a lack of education about STIs.

FUCKING AGREE 103940404900%

Personally I'm careful. I know I'll never get HIV and I won't involuntarily impregnate another woman. I'm behaving like a responsible human being.

attaboy

 

[MCTJ]

FUCKING AGREE 103940404900%

Re: lack of education about STIs
1-800-PUBLIC-HEALTH
Hi, I'd like to report a multi-year increase in STIs. Where is your public health awareness campaign? Where are your ads? You seemed so good at it during the pandemic.

 

[Valentina]

Re: lack of education about STIs
1-800-PUBLIC-HEALTH
Hi, I'd like to report a multi-year increase in STIs. Where is your public health awareness campaign? Where are your ads? You seemed so good at it during the pandemic.

For real thooooo. Tabarnak.
But. No thank you to pandemics. Especially peepee pandemics.

 

[MCTJ]

For real thooooo. Tabarnak.
But. No thank you to pandemics. Especially peepee pandemics.

I think we need a department of PUBIC health

 

[Valentina]

I think we need a department of PUBIC health

Yes. I’ll be HEAD supervisor in that department.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Agree with what’s been discuss in the thread. No BBFS with clients I generally like condom all the time no matter with who I have sex with
I have BB with non escorts but it’s usually them that insist on no condom
So for question for SPs When you go vanilla dating are you okay with BB?

I'd only do it if I was in a monogamous relationship with someone and trusted them 100%. Outside of this, I don't do hook ups, and I only have sex with someone I have serious feelings for and I know is trustworthy, condom or not. I don't do short term relationships and multiple partners.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Don't take it personal as I'm using your experience and that of the women you're meeting, which are certainly typical of many others. And that's exactly why our rates of STI are increasing. The hookup culture, marginalization of condom use driven by porn, and a lack of education about STIs.

Personally I'm careful. I know I'll never get HIV and I won't involuntarily impregnate another woman. I'm behaving like a responsible human being.

That's exactly it.. A lot of people don't use condoms with random hookups or people they just met and don't trust, and when I was way younger, far before being a SP really often when I started dating someone who was a man, he would pressure not to use one and I'd find out he was also having sex with other girls. A lot of people are liars and manipulators.