Hi all. I hope you’re well! 
I want to start off by saying that I’m not in the business of ousting people or tarnishing reputations, however this matter is of great importance since it affects my business.
Lately, I have been hearing horror stories through word of mouth that some SPs are allowing BBFS on the DL (oftentimes at some MPs / some agencies).
It’s concerning because this is risky business we are all partaking in, in the first place. As much as we all love BBBJ, it’s risky. BBFS should be off the table … or whatever surface lol.
I am aware that merb users send / receive messages amongst one another talking about this specifically and warn others to avoid X SP.
However, there are some users who actually encourage others to go see X SP at whatever place that offer BBFS on the DL.
Us Indys / other SPs who don’t agree with these malpractices actually care about our wellbeing and give a shit. These are serious allegations that are spreading, and the whole community needs to be aware and safe. Again, I don’t have names but I know many places turn the other cheek and go on about their business.
When learning about this information… feelings of concern, infuriation and insult arise. It’s insulting because I take great care of myself and want to minimize risks - while some careless SP out there may end up spreading shit onto clients which in turn can get back to me or other SPs.
A vicious cycle commences. Then no one knows where it comes from. Then everyone starts blaming / tearing the other’s reputation. It might seem stupid but this shit can go very far.
If you’re an SP who allows BBFS : you should leave the industry immediately. This industry is already over-saturated with women who don’t even like being an SP and offer a subpar service. If you need to lower your standards to get more clientele or get more money by practicing this type of unsafe sex, you need to GTFO and leave it to the professionals. Some of you are mothers also…
On the flip side, if you’re a client who engages in this type of malpractice : please reconsider and also get checked. Frequently. I’ve seen astounding shit in my 2 years ONLY of being an SP, such as; requests from married men with a child on the way whom ask for BBFS) … please go get your dick, balls and head checked.
Unless you’re fully panel tested at 450 bucks a pop and get results in under 24Hrs and (you / all parties involved) don’t engage with others before finding out your results… please understand that our health is primordial. Yours too. Your wife’s health as well lol.
The most common symptom of having an STD is no symptom at all. Some STDs take months to appear / someone can be a carrier of an STD.
Being “cLeAn” is taking a shower and not smelling from your orifices. It doesn’t equate to testing negative or taking a guess that someone is in the clear.
Please be aware
Please get tested
and please for the love of Christ, don’t condone or encourage unsafe penetration.
Take care
and Merry Christmas ya filthy animals
- Valentina xx
I want to start off by saying that I’m not in the business of ousting people or tarnishing reputations, however this matter is of great importance since it affects my business.
Lately, I have been hearing horror stories through word of mouth that some SPs are allowing BBFS on the DL (oftentimes at some MPs / some agencies).
It’s concerning because this is risky business we are all partaking in, in the first place. As much as we all love BBBJ, it’s risky. BBFS should be off the table … or whatever surface lol.
I am aware that merb users send / receive messages amongst one another talking about this specifically and warn others to avoid X SP.
However, there are some users who actually encourage others to go see X SP at whatever place that offer BBFS on the DL.
Us Indys / other SPs who don’t agree with these malpractices actually care about our wellbeing and give a shit. These are serious allegations that are spreading, and the whole community needs to be aware and safe. Again, I don’t have names but I know many places turn the other cheek and go on about their business.
When learning about this information… feelings of concern, infuriation and insult arise. It’s insulting because I take great care of myself and want to minimize risks - while some careless SP out there may end up spreading shit onto clients which in turn can get back to me or other SPs.
A vicious cycle commences. Then no one knows where it comes from. Then everyone starts blaming / tearing the other’s reputation. It might seem stupid but this shit can go very far.
If you’re an SP who allows BBFS : you should leave the industry immediately. This industry is already over-saturated with women who don’t even like being an SP and offer a subpar service. If you need to lower your standards to get more clientele or get more money by practicing this type of unsafe sex, you need to GTFO and leave it to the professionals. Some of you are mothers also…
On the flip side, if you’re a client who engages in this type of malpractice : please reconsider and also get checked. Frequently. I’ve seen astounding shit in my 2 years ONLY of being an SP, such as; requests from married men with a child on the way whom ask for BBFS) … please go get your dick, balls and head checked.
Unless you’re fully panel tested at 450 bucks a pop and get results in under 24Hrs and (you / all parties involved) don’t engage with others before finding out your results… please understand that our health is primordial. Yours too. Your wife’s health as well lol.
The most common symptom of having an STD is no symptom at all. Some STDs take months to appear / someone can be a carrier of an STD.
Being “cLeAn” is taking a shower and not smelling from your orifices. It doesn’t equate to testing negative or taking a guess that someone is in the clear.
Please be aware
Please get tested
and please for the love of Christ, don’t condone or encourage unsafe penetration.
Take care
and Merry Christmas ya filthy animals
- Valentina xx
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