STDs survey from hobbying

[Fradi]

I’m worried about std. I never do bbbj, daty, dato.
Even fingering, I only touch outside and I check my hand for any scratch before.

I never kissed an escort.

Yes, I would prefer not to have to do this, but I feel safer.

And it’s one thing if you gf knows you saw an escort, it’s an another thing to tell her she probably has a std!

I think it would be an instant breakup.

Honestly I don’t think seeing escorts is for you.
If you are even paranoid about kissing an escort and about telling your girlfriend, maybe best option is to stick to only your girlfriend and hope she does the same.

 

[sene5hos]

I’m worried about std. I never do bbbj, daty, dato.
Even fingering, I only touch outside and I check my hand for any scratch before.

I never kissed an escort.

Yes, I would prefer not to have to do this, but I feel safer.

And it’s one thing if you gf knows you saw an escort, it’s an another thing to tell her she probably has a std!

I think it would be an instant breakup.

For you there are a few possible options:
1) Forget the escorts.
2) Become single.
3) Stay in a relationship and if your libido is higher than your partner, your hand is your best friend.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

To me seeing SWs while in a relationship is something I will never understand, unless you are in an open relationship.

 

[TheJames101]

To me seeing SWs while in a relationship is something I will never understand, unless you are in an open relationship.

Seems to me that if you are in a relationship and if - for whatever reason - you feel the need to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere.... seeing an SW is the best way, as you are less likely to get caught (it's not an affair).

 

[Fradi]

Seems to me that if you are in a relationship and if - for whatever reason - you feel the need to seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere.... seeing an SW is the best way, as you are less likely to get caught (it's not an affair).

I don’t think it matters, you either don’t believe in cheating when you are in a relationship or you just don’t give a fuck and sex is sex when you feel like it and whoever you are attracted to at the time.
Personally I will not see anyone else when I am in a serious relationship and I certainly would end the relationship if my partner didn’t do the same.

 

[TheJames101]

I don’t think it matters, you either don’t believe in cheating when you are in a relationship or you just don’t give a fuck and sex is sex when you feel like it and whoever you are attracted to at the time.
Personally I will not see anyone else when I am in a serious relationship and I certainly would end the relationship if my partner didn’t do the same.

I wasn't talking about the moral side of it - I'm just saying it's probably the best way to discreetly seek satisfaction elsewhere.

 

[This-is-me]

To me seeing SWs while in a relationship is something I will never understand, unless you are in an open relationship.

Not sure why I would see a sw when NOT in a relationship. Tinder is there and it’s free.

But with sw you get the private aspect of it, and overall it’s quicker too.

 

[Abathur]

I’m worried about std. I never do bbbj, daty, dato.
Even fingering, I only touch outside and I check my hand for any scratch before.

I never kissed an escort.

Yes, I would prefer not to have to do this, but I feel safer.

And it’s one thing if you gf knows you saw an escort, it’s an another thing to tell her she probably has a std!

I think it would be an instant breakup.

wise

 

[Franco2332]

Yikes 25% that's pretty high, bbbj and daty is riskier than I tought... since I want less chance to catch a std I might only do cbj ans other safe alternative

 

[This-is-me]

Yikes 25% that's pretty high, bbbj and daty is riskier than I tought... since I want less chance to catch a std I might only do cbj ans other safe alternative

Not sure where you took your 25%, I guess it’s way lower than that but I don’t care, I wouldn’t take the chance anyway, so yes, always cbj and unfortunately no daty.

 

[TheJames101]

Not sure where you took your 25%, I guess it’s way lower than that but I don’t care, I wouldn’t take the chance anyway, so yes, always cbj and unfortunately no daty.

the 25% is from this thread poll.