I get what you're saying, and yeah, the GFE Attitude and Service separation makes some sense. I do think those are two different things though it may still be difficult for new hobbyists to understand between the two if there is no clear glossary to refer to.
I know that's what we're trying to establish, but I guess the attitude part is still on the fence for me. I'm still pretty new to the hobby, but GFE service has some intimacy to it and by nature, there may be some emotional closeness, at least more so than staying away from her Y, no kissing and CBJ. Sure, SPs can mimick a GFE attitude while not providing the expected services, which causes a lot of the confusion, but I think it would be more to the point to simply say GFE = GFE services.
I mean, here's an example. I have female friends that I can talk about almost anything. One friend has very similar interests and I love talking to her. As great a time we have platonically (if that is a word), sex is out of the question. Now, take my far fetched example and put it on a SP with GFE attitude and non-GFE services. Ok, that didn't really make sense.
What I am saying is while I have a GFE attitude with my friend, there isn't any GFE services, hence not a GFE, um, experience. Sure, I'm shallow, but any girlfriend I have I will expect sex, so I guess I relate my "normal" world to the hobby, and hence my expectations.