The advantage of money

[Catalina Rose]

Doc, as you have discussed the factor of jealousy which can lead to hate and resentment, its true that in that case it would not be healthy to have a relationship with an sp. Every guy I have met,I told them that I was an escort and have been rather surprised that some guys think its`cool` thank-you mtv, 50 cent and much music videos. Escorting is not cool ( well it kinda is but thats only allowed from my perspective) However, not when in a relationship, but what can I expect from guys my age? They love the idea of getting sex for free while others pay and so I have to quickly kick them to the curb in my stilettos (pointy boots are best for this )

And Madame beautydigger money has never been an answer to deppression, in this case you need a good SSRI like prozac ( which thank you due to the governement probably does not cost a lot.. viva la medicare system and thereapy which leads to the self realization that you have always been worth more then anyone could ever afford and you already are everything you have always wanted to become, life is simply about removing the barriers that have been denying your original nature. Life is all about growing into our greatest selves and remembering the truth about who we fundamentally are, and that has nothing to do with money. (my personal opinion here)

I have never seeked a man for money (dates these days are now comprised of a movie..during the matinee time when its cheaper, dinner is St.hubert) Only really young woman seek men for money until they quickly (or slowly) learn that money has no value, spirituality is priceless and respect for ones self or others means the most. The sp industry is one of supply and demand, the demand will always be there, the supply of young girls will always be there and that is why trust is so important with your partner... and to trust yourself in choosing the right partner because the temptation of young hotties is always going to be in the background.

Also someone else mentioned that escorting is temoporary while the girl is considered pretty, I have seen a few examples of older escorts who no longer have the beauty only youth can bring, which tells me that personality MUST factor in somewhere which is a comforting thought..

 

[EagerBeaver]

I have seen a few examples of older escorts who no longer have the beauty only youth can bring, which tells me that personality MUST factor in somewhere which is a comforting thought..

Most of the older escorts who are popular are popular due to excellent and liberal service as opposed to looks. There are a few exceptions of women who look good into their late 30 or even early 40s, but I have only seen a few women in that age group whom I was interested in paying to have sex with me.

Personality comes in to play in the form of experience and knowing what buttons to push and how to seduce a man. There was a very popular older (30 plus) escort, now retired, who basically was a showgirl - she put on a show, and most guys liked it and loved her.

I prefer younger escorts, but there`s only a few who really know how to use their eyes. Some younger escorts tell me they feel weird about making eye contact during . There was one younger escort I saw who really knew how to use her eyes to seduce, but the second time I saw her she stopped doing it, thinking that I was a repeat and therefore the effort was not required. This is what separates the older escorts - they know how to do it every time, like second nature. And it`s also partly because women, after they turn 30, don`t have the same degree of self esteem/self confidence issues, are more comfortable with their bodies and with men and sex, and resultantly it is easier for them to be comfortable and uninhibited.

 

[beautydigger]

And Madame beautydigger
Life is all about growing into our greatest selves and remembering the truth about who we fundamentally are

Señor Rose, as much as every woman wishes she were a man, it is out of reach forever.

 

[Regular Guy]

Further...........

Only really young woman seek men for money until they quickly (or slowly) learn that money has no value, spirituality is priceless and respect for ones self or others means the most.

To a great extent I believe that you are right. In relationships the chemistry must be there. But not all follow that rule. And where money is concerned both young and older women seek men for money. The younger ones are simply more starry-eyed about it. It is all about motive. Many are looking for someone to look after them, some just for a better life style and some because they judge it to be a yardstick for the successful male. The philosophy of those who marry only for money is: "Money may not buy happiness, but at least you can suffer in comfort!" Good relationships are built on both compatibility and security. My grandfather had a saying:"When the money's gone, love flies out the window!" A lot of truth in that..

Also someone else mentioned that escorting is temporary while the girl is considered pretty, I have seen a few examples of older escorts who no longer have the beauty only youth can bring, which tells me that personality MUST factor in somewhere which is a comforting thought..

It's an encouraging sign that yes in todays modern world women are retaining their beauty to ages not seen before. There are TV commercials which show fifty year olds looking like baywatch girls but that is rare just the same. And it is a sad fact of life that age catches up to all of us and it is the smart sp who plans financially for that day.

It is interesting that when BD brought up the idea of a financial depression removing money as a factor in relationships you took it to mean psychological depression. Do you think psychological depression is an issue for many sp's?

 

[franky]

Ms. Rose
sp's work for the money, period!!!!! Where else would you personally be able to command 250 an hour? Nowhere. simply put being an sp is easier than working at McDonalds. Pay is a hell of a lot better and the circumstances can be pleasurable at times. I don't buy any other line. Yes I know you "gave it up for awhile" but obviously went back to it. We, as merbites need to keep this in mind. It is the unfortunate truth of the situation.
So why do I use escorts? simple answer: Money. I can either spend my time making money or chasing women. I choose to make money and then spend some of it renting women for companionship. It works out easier (for me atleast). Just my view, but I have a feeling it is accurate
franky

 

[Catalina Rose]

I love a good thread!

Ms. Rose
sp's work for the money, period!!!!! Where else would you personally be able to command 250 an hour? Nowhere. simply put being an sp is easier than working at McDonalds. Pay is a hell of a lot better and the circumstances can be pleasurable at times. I don't buy any other line. Yes I know you "gave it up for awhile" but obviously went back to it. We, as merbites need to keep this in mind. It is the unfortunate truth of the situation.
So why do I use escorts? simple answer: Money. I can either spend my time making money or chasing women. I choose to make money and then spend some of it renting women for companionship. It works out easier (for me atleast). Just my view, but I have a feeling it is accurate
franky

Lol. hahahahahha.... are you serious? hahah Did it just occur to you that sps work for money, LOL... I thought we were all working to repair the ozone layer...darn it!

The thread is titled the advantage of money Im guessing you did not think it was worth your time to read the entire thread because your a tad repetative while somehow coming off as rude at the same time ( but Im sure you didnt mean to sweetie!). You think being an sp is easier then working at Mcdonalds huh?... Im just not even going to comment on this. Enjoy your Mcdonalds, I wouldnt feed it to my cat.

I went back to escorting for a number of reasons, Im not stupid, my life demands a little more money then the cost of a happy meal (education is a wonderful thing.. one day I am determined that I will earn close to 250$ and not as an sp either... but being an sp will have helped me reach that level) I also truly enjoy meeting intelligent gentlemen, I find it enthralling and a wonderful learning experience. Every person is unique and I love socializing

 

[CaféLatte]

If I fall in love with a woman, it's for her, for what she is, her looks, intelligence, sense of humour, joie de vivre, honesty, character, taste, etc. and for what she brings in my life. I don't fall in love with what she does, be it her work or hobbies. That's her own personal thing and I have no business into it. We can share some hobbies and interests but it does not have to be all of them. And I certainly don't fall in love with her bank account.

 

[Special K]

Very well said Amanda and welcome to the forum!!

 

[Regular Guy]

Happiness

Increases in income just don't seem to make people happier and most negative life experiences likewise have only a small impact on long-term satisfaction. The relationship between money and happiness is small.

Happiness is a function of self esteem or the other way around depending on your point of view. And you are right. Money doesn't bring happiness. Happiness and self esteem are functions of fulfillment. Fulfillment is derived from striving and achievement and meaningful accomplishment. If the pursuits we engage in bear fruit in a meaningful way, that is to say contribute for example to the improvement of the human condition then that is a noble and worthy pursuit. As an uncle of mine used to say, "Money is just a way of keeping score." And one's fulfillment can come from doing the small and seemingly insignificant tasks well and bear their own reward. This reward is not always monetary. Sometimes it is just a smile.

I have often thought at times how this might translate in escorting. Are there moments of fulfillment? And when those stellar moments present themselves does the escort truly appreciate their value. Many encounters are straightforward hedonism. But how many of those encounters are occasions for healing. Only you sp's from your vantage point behind closed doors really know for sure. So, for now, I suppose, it is just speculation on my part.

 

[Catalina Rose]

Hi Amanda and welcome to merb!!, I enjoyed your comments, I couldnt have said them better myself

Happiness is very important, afterall isnt that the goal in everything we do? Usually when something makes us unhappy we do our best to avoid it. All accomplishments are meaningful and an achievment is an accomplishment ( sorry regular guy, you said it well too and Im not trying to play on words here, university has made me crazy about clarification . When I think back to all the times Ive been happy, money has never factored into that moment, in highschool a friend of mine bought two dozen daisies and we stood on the street giving every person without a smile on their face one and telling them to have happy day... so its true, the smallest actions can acheive more then most people think possible.

Everything in my life is fulfilling from brushing my teeth, doing my homework, or going on a rendezvous to meet someone new and because I take joy in each task I am fulfilled. I do not think sp encounters are occasions for healing 1) not everyones hurt and 2) if you are hurt somewhere in side the only person who can heal the wound is yourself. People tend to rely too much on other people, we all have the power to find complete happiness on our own if needed.... everything else is just delightful extras... my two cents

 

[beautydigger]

Happiness is a function of self esteem or the other way around depending on your point of view.

"Happiness is an illusion; only suffering is real."
(Voltaire)

 

[Regular Guy]

"Happiness is an illusion; only suffering is real."
(Voltaire)

One antidepressant a day for two weeks should clear that up nicely

 

[Regular Guy]

All accomplishments are meaningful and an achievement is an accomplishment ( sorry regular guy, you said it well too and I'm not trying to play on words here, university has made me crazy about clarification . When I think back to all the times Ive been happy, money has never factored into that moment, in high school a friend of mine bought two dozen daisies and we stood on the street giving every person without a smile on their face one and telling them to have happy day... so its true, the smallest actions can achieve more than most people think possible.

You are a rare jewel Lexi. Handing out flowers was a very sweet gesture. And I see that we do agree that money by itself wont buy happiness.

if you are hurt somewhere in side the only person who can heal the wound is yourself. People tend to rely too much on other people,

Yes, in his book, Man's Search for Meaning Victor Frankl makes that very point. You cannot control what other people will do. You can only control how you will choose to react to it. Healing lies within yourself.

we all have the power to find complete happiness on our own if needed....

In the end I suppose true happiness is simply being at peace with one's self.

 

[z/m(Ret)]

brainy quote

The more money the more things you own that will end up owning you.

OK send me my fucking medal.

 

[joelcairo]

The more money the more things you own that will end up owning you.

OK send me my fucking medal.

Your first sentence is very true Zig.

As for your second sentence: I've heard of gymnastics medals but I didn't know they gave medals for fucking!

 

[naughtylady]

Well Ronnie that gives rise to a more interesting question: How much of this translates into sp'ing?

All of it, I believe I am fulfilling those needs in others and in my self at the same time. One of the reasons I think this can be a great job! We all need to feel desired, we all need to connect with others...

While this can be brutal work, it can also be incredibly rewarding. There have been times when I said to my self I cannot believe I am getting paid for this... thankfull more often than those times when I have said I cannot believe I am getting paid for this

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[beautydigger]

One antidepressant a day for two weeks should clear that up nicely

I prefer the more natural organic method, “Weed is all I need”.

 

[Regular Guy]

Makes sense to me!

All of it, I believe I am fulfilling those needs in others and in my self at the same time. One of the reasons I think this can be a great job! We all need to feel desired, we all need to connect with others...

While this can be brutal work, it can also be incredibly rewarding. There have been times when I said to my self I cannot believe I am getting paid for this... thankfull more often than those times when I have said I cannot believe I am getting paid for this

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

Yes Ronnie. Nice to think that every client would get exactly what is coming to him - in all senses of the word.

But all joking aside, perhaps that

fulfilling those needs in others and in my self at the same time.

and

We all need to feel desired, we all need to connect with others...

is the essence of what is the true value in any encounter - at least for those who can truly appreciate it.

 

[Regular Guy]

I prefer the more natural organic method, “Weed is all I need”.

Definitely feeling no pain there!