The Bitching thread
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I mean during your 6h dates I assume you guys talk and discuss.
You mentioned the BJ event which is like 30 minutes top.
No discussions during your session/day?
At this point I might propose a sugar deal at the frequency you see her to be honest. Maybe it would work better.
What this sounds like the overnight that she did prior to seeing you had some sort of emotional impact on her. If and when you been with someone for a long period of time you can see the change and shift of someone’s energy. When you saw her did you sense that something was a bit off?
Best I can say is this encounter will surely change your perception of her. Don’t know what you plan to do but looks like this journey for you with her has reached its finish line.
I am in a big convention hotel right now that has about 150+ rooms.
After the convention on Saturday, where it had hundreds of people, somehow the entire hotel is completely empty by Sunday morning.. The parking lot went from 100+ cars to just me.
And as such, I am sticking out like a sore thumb. I have SPs coming in and out of my room and all the employees know exactly what I'm doing.... they even know my name when I take the elevator and when I pass by.
This is insane. It's the middle of August, why in the world is this hotel empty
After the convention on Saturday, where it had hundreds of people, somehow the entire hotel is completely empty by Sunday morning.. The parking lot went from 100+ cars to just me.
And as such, I am sticking out like a sore thumb. I have SPs coming in and out of my room and all the employees know exactly what I'm doing.... they even know my name when I take the elevator and when I pass by.
This is insane. It's the middle of August, why in the world is this hotel empty
There's not a dollar amount that can replace communication. Something was up with your session, either with you or her, and the only solution is to talk about it. Doesn't have to be a shameful convo just a "hey, I noticed this, what's up and what can we do to avoid this?"
Neither of you are detectives so just talk it out.
I wouldn't see her again.
Everyone suggesting talking to her, the whole reason to pay a premium is so you can skip the nonsense.
FIY most incalls have washing machines. I sometimes wash my dress and lingerie in between calls. It doesn't mean the clothes are unclean. You're assuming a lot. I've seen incall roommates do the same, wash their clothes before another client arrives later. If you have an overnight right before there's no point in bringing a ton of outfits.
You're saying "she seemed disgusted so I stopped her" and now this turns into "she almost vomited on me". Those are not the same things. You saw that she wasn't feeling well and -you- stopped her from continuing the service and jerked yourself off.
Being a regular and booking someone for several hours many times a month you should have built enough trust with this person that you can discuss it with her, in my humble opinion. Otherwise.. why book someone that often and for that long?
"I saw in her eye" and "she works too much" are very much interpretations.. it seems like you filled in the blanks.
Sure as indies we don't tend to do a lot of volume in the same day but sometimes we go several days and sometimes a whole week or longer without bookings. We can't control when the bookings will come. Sometimes I have 0 bookings for 3 days, then I have a single booking on 2 different days and then 3 bookings in a row the next day. This is freelance work.
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Yeah there is nothing to talk about. This is not a relationship. Pay to play is one sided to the extreme. Not my place to say not to see her again. I can say that the perceptions and dynamics are surely going to change. dominou, hope you have other SPs in your roster.
That's the reason for you. I'm not trying to stick my dick into an unwilling hole, that is the opposite of what I want. Just because you paid doesn't guarantee that she enjoys everything you do. Being indifferent to what's going on with them isn't something I can do.
The math doesn't even make sense either. If I'm having great sex with someone, multiple times a week for weeks and I have one weird incident, it makes no sense to throw all that away bc of one bad session. You're taking a bigger chance with some rando than the person you KNOW you've had long-lasting chemistry with.
However you position it, not trying to resolve or move past it is, well... it's a decision alright.
Today another incident with two dudes getting their gym memberships revoked because of extracurricular activities in the steam room lol.
People stealing the Le Labo soap and shampoo. Don’t these people realize these products are made in lower quality formulation?
People stealing the Le Labo soap and shampoo. Don’t these people realize these products are made in lower quality formulation?
Unwilling? Then reject the client. No harm, no foul, try again another day. And I love the mental acrobatics to spin rejecting bad service to rape, and yes, you are positioning the argument that way. This is a service. You can be friendly, you can care, but at the end of the day, this is SP-client, be professional.
Resolving or moving past it is certainly your choice. Not saying that's not a viable option. I certainly have looked past some bad encounters and tried again. If you feel it is worth it, go for it. But for $3000, well... it's a decision alright
They need to keep their activities at gay gyms. I have a ton of gay friends and apparently, from what I hear, gay gym locker rooms are basically a brothel.
Any gym with steam rooms is ripe for nonsense. The more upscale the gym the more freaky deaky because of better amenities. Just funny seeing the argument taking place so openly involving management.
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We have to first look at the math here. $3,000 a pop. This is surely not pocket change. Three times a month since February. That is a total of $72,000. This is excluding lunch and other expenses.
Also the frequency. Seeing her three times a month for eight months. This has become quasi-relationship with a level of comfort developed over time and deterioration of the best foot forward SP/Client dynamic. Something is going to slip. Took 24 meetings to finally happen. In many instances would happen much sooner. Within the third or fourth encounter especially with dinner or lunch involved. She lets down her guard.
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