Labels are not just labels. They describe a biological reality. It is really not that complicated.
I think the grey zone is between attraction to a biological type vs sexual act preference/curiosity.
If simplicity comforts you, and you chose to ignore the complexities of life and the grey areas because they are uncomfortable or perplexing or stressful or challenging of you preconceptions, that’s totally fine and you are free to believe it.
Agreed. I don't have any attraction towards guys (even objectively hot dudes do nothing for me) but find a lot of trans women beautiful. Doesn't even have to do with their "passability" either, some are very masc. Not sure why my brain is wired that way but I don't worry about it. I have been fortunately blessed with a high disregard for other people's opinions and don't have many internalized social stigmas so it's never occurred to me to think it weird. I just go towards what I enjoy and sucking dick can be really enjoyable.
Let me fix that link for you:Merriam-Webster: America's Most Trusted Dictionary
Find definitions for over 300,000 words from the most authoritative English dictionary. Continuously updated with new words and meanings.www.merriam-webster.com
Completely agree with that, we'll have a lot of interesting conversations once our schedule finally alignThat's actually not accurate lol a lot of people do gay shit or ''try'' but aren't actually gay, or not fully at least. There are so many girls who will kiss girls when they're drunk at parties, but they won't actually have sex with a woman or date a woman. I've seen men do the same thing. I dated a guy who would kiss guys at parties but he was really not interested in sex with men, he told me the experience he had of a man sucking his dick wasn't pleasant for him, but he still identifies as ''queer''. He was really milking it to appeal to girls lol which is ironic, but it works. A lot of women like men who are a little bit gay or feminine.
Even when it comes to clients, I've had a lot of men confide that they were excited by sucking dick or having their dick sucked, but they didn't like anal sex and only were interested in men for brief encounters. Others have told me they have sex with men sometimes but they're not interested in them romantically.
Sexuality is really complex. It truly is a spectrum. A lot of people are bisexual but prefer a certain gender, or it fluctuates and changes over time. Societal pressures also kinda dictate who we prefer. It's much easier to be in a heterosexual relationship in a way, because we know the ''script'' for it, socially. When I started dating women for real, I had to learn a new way to relate to another person in a romantic relationship.I didn't feel comfortable dating women until my mid 20's.. I had a lot of internalized homophobia to work on.
That being said I'm not a huge fan of somebody pressuring someone into doing gay stuff and ''trying to turn someone gay'', it doesn't sound consensual. I would never pressure a woman to do anything with me. Even when it comes to duos, I am really uncomfortable accepting one with somebody who I suspect isn't bisexual.
I think labels can be useful sometimes.. instead of the word label I'd use the word ''identity''. but I get the sentiment
You understand the irony of you publishing a dictionnary as some sort of argument supporting your limited world view (I imagine you try to imply that the concepts you brought up are clearly defined there) when this very dictionnary contains dozens of words describing a vast spectrum of sexual orientation.Merriam-Webster: America's Most Trusted Dictionary
Find definitions for over 300,000 words from the most authoritative English dictionary. Continuously updated with new words and meanings.
Yeah, I will too eventually, if only for the experience. I've done a couple MTFs and they've been some of the hottest encounters I've ever had.
That makes more sense.
I had a session like that, with a couple. They were bisexual men. It was really sweet!
