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Yeah you read that wrong. Some dude said: you either straight, gay or bi. And I said I thought that lacked nuances and was rigid. I don’t know how someone can read my original post and conclude that I’m calling heteros weak minded.
Really not interested in nuances or dicks.
Don’t quite get why a bunch of guys think it is so cool for a guy to suck dick on an escort review board but hey their life their choice.
 
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Lol
I'm sorry but I can't help but think this is silly.
It's a weird hill to die on
I am not dying on any hill.
There happens to be many men that don’t consider it their life dream to suck dick.

Like I said I don’t really care what anybody does with their life they only have one and they can live it anyway they want, but just like they have an opinion so do I.
Just my weird nuance.
 

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I am not dying on any hill.
There happens to be many men that don’t consider it their life dream to suck dick.

Like I said I don’t really care what anybody does with their life they only have one and they can live it anyway they want, but just like they have an opinion so do I.
Just my weird nuance.
It's not an opinion it's a personal experience.. if someone wants to confess in the confessional thread that he enjoyed sucking dick and talk about how he relates to sexual orientation it's his personal experience he's sharing, you can't really disagree with it lol he's not trying to convince you that you or anyone should do it or question their orientation.

You can say is "can't relate". No one is upset that you don't want to suck dick or that you're not interested in it..

I don't like double penetration but a lot of people talked about it here, I didn't feel threatened by it and go off on them.. I don't feel pressured to do anal sex because someone else here likes it

Maybe I don't understand your tone. I'm trying to lighten things up and not cause a fight. If you book a duo with Julia and you will not have to suck a dick lol but I know I'm not your type and that's ok
 
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I think on the contrary it's quite cool that someone was willing to admit something that might get him hateful comments.. gay or bi or bi curieux ppl aren't trying to convert anyone

A judgement : I think gay stuff is gross and being straight is superior, I am angry that someone confessed to having tried sucking dick!

An experience and preference : I am not interested in sucking dick and I prefer doing sexy things with Julia who doesn't have a dick but hey, you do you! :)
 
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It's not an opinion it's a preference of personal experience.. if someone wants to confess in the confessional thread that he enjoyed sucking dick it's his personal experience he's sharing, you can't really disagree with it lol he's not trying to convince you that you or anyone should do it.

You can say is "can't relate". No one is upset that you don't want to suck dick or that you're not interested in it..

I don't like double penetration but a lot of people talked about it here, I didn't feel threatened by it and go off on them.. I don't feel pressured to do anal sex because someone else here likes it

Maybe I don't understand your tone. (I'm trying to lighten things up and not cause a fight)
I am not trying to have a fight with you either Luna.
I don’t really care one way or another if a guy likes to suck dick either which is what I said.

What I am saying is that I find it strange that so many guys think it is so cool on an escort review board.
I would think most of us come here for pussy and women and which ones to choose so that we have a nice time.

What I didn’t like is the comments about narrow mindedness basically when someone didn’t agree with him.
I would never have bothered to post had he not answered with that long paragraph.
 
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I am not trying to have a fight with you either Luna.
I don’t really care one way or another if a guy likes to suck dick either which is what I said.

What I am saying is that I find it strange that so many guys think it is so cool on an escort review board.
I would think most of us come here for pussy and women and which ones to choose so that we have a nice time.

What I didn’t like is the comments about narrow mindedness basically when someone didn’t agree with him.
I would never have bothered to post had he not answered with that long paragraph.
this is a confessional thread tho, so about taboo or ''weird'' or ''unusual'' or ''embarrassing'' things, and once again i dont think it's about agreeing or disagreeing, it's about people listening to his personal experience and the fact that someone classified it a certain way and invalidated his experience instead of just moving on to something else.

i'll go back to my example, i really don't like anal sex, but i'm not going to go ahead and tell women here who like it that it's strange of them to enjoy it and that they should only like vaginal sex.. it's a thread called ''the confessional''. men talking about sucking dicks aren't going to take over the board dont worry lol this was quite an anomaly around here.

it sparked an interesting conversation in my opinion, which you don't have to participate in if it makes you uncomfortable.. (which is also what i'm doing at the moment, ignoring threads and conversations that make me feel weird for my own sake. clearly that topic makes you uncomfortable. just like some other topics here make me feel bad so i'm trying to not respond to these threads)
 
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I think on the contrary it's quite cool that someone was willing to admit something that might get him hateful comments.. gay or bi or bi curieux ppl aren't trying to convert anyone

A judgement : I think gay stuff is gross and being straight is superior, I am angry that someone confessed to having tried sucking dick!

An experience and preference : I am not interested in sucking dick and I prefer doing sexy things with Julia who doesn't have a dick but hey, you do you! :)
Again you are making a judgement call when you know nothing about me you have no idea what I think about gay men or how I react to them whether or not I have some in the family or have gay friends.

I am not angry that he confessed why would I be it makes no difference to me one way or another.

You are correct that Julia doesn’t have a dick and that I think she is amazing
 

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Again you are making a judgement call when you know nothing about me you have no idea what I think about gay men or how I react to them whether or not I have some in the family or have gay friends.

I am not angry that he confessed why would I be it makes no difference to me one way or another.

You are correct that Julia doesn’t have a dick and that I think she is amazing
No, I'm not assuming you don't like gay men.. and the guy who was talking wasn't gay, anyways. None of this makes any difference and we can move on to something else. Julia doesn't have a dick and is amazing and beautiful, indeed.
 

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this is a confessional thread tho, so about taboo or ''weird'' or ''unusual'' or ''embarrassing'' things, and once again i dont think it's about agreeing or disagreeing, it's about people listening to his personal experience and the fact that someone classified it a certain way and invalidated his experience instead of just moving on to something else.

i'll go back to my example, i really don't like anal sex, but i'm not going to go ahead and tell women here who like it that it's strange of them to enjoy it and that they should only like vaginal sex.. it's a thread called ''the confessional''. men talking about sucking dicks aren't going to take over the board dont worry lol this was quite an anomaly around here.

it sparked an interesting conversation in my opinion, which you don't have to participate in if it makes you uncomfortable.. (which is also what i'm doing at the moment, ignoring threads and conversations that make me feel weird for my own sake. clearly that topic makes you uncomfortable. just like some other topics here make me feel bad so i'm trying to not respond to these threads)
Again you are making an assumption.
Gay sex doesn’t make me uncomfortable at all, I am simply not gay but I have nothing against whatever two consenting adults do.

What I do have a problem with is when someone disagrees with him then a whole paragraph of narrow mindedness comments follow.

This is what ticked me off not his confession

“If simplicity comforts you, and you chose to ignore the complexities of life and the grey areas because they are uncomfortable or perplexing or stressful or challenging of you preconceptions, that’s totally fine and you are free to believe it.

I think these kind of simplistic takes lack nuances and intellectual accuity. They describe incomplete realities and only serve to cuddle insecure or weak minds into intellectual safe spaces. Clearly the experiences I and other described here are reflecting that sexual attraction is an ambiguous subject matter. Locking those nuanced ambiguities into rigid and stricly limited categories seem intellectually lazy to me.

The sky is blue is a simple reality.
Behind that statement of reality lies many complicated things that does not necessarely, but could, contradict the original statement. Shades of blue, changing of the sky’s color during different periods or events, biological composition of the human eye and the subjective nature of the concept « sky ».

I think a smart person’s first reflex should always be to have the intellectual humility to confer that perhaps his conception of the world is an incomplete one, and that behind simple realities must, or at least could, lie complex nuances that he might not fully grasp in the moment.”

You like sucking dick and want to confess go right ahead, but don’t make yourself out to be intellectually superior to someone who doesn’t share your passion for sucking dicks.
 
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You like sucking dick and want to confess go right ahead, but don’t make yourself out to be intellectually superior to someone who doesn’t share your passion for sucking dicks.
Don't wanna go in circles but i thnk you misunderstood the poster. It wasn't about sucking dicks or not, it was about recognising that there's more than just strictly straight gay bi, that there are grey areas. Like I'm straight but I like sucking on woman's strapons so that's a nuance.
 

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Don't wanna go in circles but i thnk you misunderstood the poster. It wasn't about sucking dicks or not, it was about recognising that there's more than just strictly straight gay bi, that there are grey areas. Like I'm straight but I like sucking on woman's strapons so that's a nuance.
I guess male sperm must be some kind of super brain food that enlightens people that suck dicks to all this knowledge.
Who would have guessed.
 

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Good idea, let's do that. No more MERB, we're now DSMD (Dick Sucking Montreal Dudes), who's with me!!
I'm in! I'm gonna review you guys.
 

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Just to get back on topic:

I ate an entire row of Oreos last night.
I splurge onto those
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They are the thin version (crunchy) with chocolate and black sesame filling!
 
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