The love and hate relationship between providers and regular clients

[AirBo]

Let's face it... most of us who like to repeat truly engage in a love and hate relationship.

I'm not sure exactly how to start this discussion so I'll start with this:

- I adore my ATF but I hate the fact that she sees me mostly (only?) for the money (duh lol)​

- My ATF loves when she sees me but hates the fact that I may see other girls (might not be true with my current ATF but all others were like that)​

- I love when my ATF texts me out of the blue and gives me some attention but I hate the fact that she knows she's got me by the balls and she's doing this mostly to make me spend more money on her​

- My ATF loves the naughty side of me but hates if I become sentimental (perfectly normal btw!)​

I could go on and on...

And I'd love to read the POV of providers...

Thoughts?

 

[Mefy]

A really gorgeous "regular" SP just text me recently and said :

Her : "Hey babe! I'm back from vacation."

Me : "Welcome back to Montreal! It's getting cold here... I hope you had a good time"

Her : Thank you babe!

End of story.

Love? Relationship? Friendship? Money?

Ain't wasting my time with a regular SP.

1 or maybe 2 visit max rule still apply.

 

[AirBo]

A really gorgeous "regular" SP just text me recently and said :

Her : "Hey babe! I'm back from vacation."

Me : "Welcome back to Montreal! It's getting cold here... I hope you had a good time"

Her : Thank you babe!

End of story.

Love? Relationship? Friendship? Money?

Ain't wasting my time with a regular SP.

1 or maybe 2 visit max rule still apply.

You are very right to do so, sir

 

[AirBo]

BTW I'm sick today with a bad fever... hence some of my contributions might sound more philosophical than usual lol

 

[Mefy]

BTW I'm sick today with a bad fever... hence some of my contributions might sound more philosophical than usual lol

Sex Fever! When the ‘Big O’ Makes You Sick =)​

 

[Toto beefcake]

Let's face it... most of us who like to repeat truly engage in a love and hate relationship.

I'm not sure exactly how to start this discussion so I'll start with this:

- I adore my ATF but I hate the fact that she sees me mostly (only?) for the money (duh lol)​

- My ATF loves when she sees me but hates the fact that I may see other girls (might not be true with my current ATF but all others were like that)​

- I love when my ATF texts me out of the blue and gives me some attention but I hate the fact that she knows she's got me by the balls and she's doing this mostly to make me spend more money on her​

- My ATF loves the naughty side of me but hates if I become sentimental (perfectly normal btw!)​

I could go on and on...

And I'd love to read the POV of providers...

Thoughts?

Lol thats their game. Part of their job is to seduce. Im not saying they dont “enjoy” or feel comfortable. Just the end of the day it is what it is You know how many sps have their regulars or even others by the nuts lol. The slightest text message and people start getting butterflies hahaha.

If you can parlay it i guess into a friendship then why not. Like i believe fradi has . Possibly others. Just be aware that which i know you are by the way , theres always some transaction involved. But the smaller head seems to always prevail rather than the big head hahahaha

 

[Toto beefcake]

A really gorgeous "regular" SP just text me recently and said :

Her : "Hey babe! I'm back from vacation."

Me : "Welcome back to Montreal! It's getting cold here... I hope you had a good time"

Her : Thank you babe!

End of story.

Love? Relationship? Friendship? Money?

Ain't wasting my time with a regular SP.

1 or maybe 2 visit max rule still apply.

Personally I hate the babe talk. just say my name . Unless your actually my gf dont call me babe lol.

 

[AirBo]

Lol thats their game. Part of their job is to seduce. Im not saying they dont “enjoy” or feel comfortable. Just the end of the day it is what it is You know how many sps have their regulars or even others by the nuts lol. The slightest text message and people start getting butterflies hahaha.

If you can parlay it i guess into a friendship then why not. Like i believe fradi has . Possibly others. Just be aware that which i know you are by the way , theres always some transaction involved. But the smaller head seems to always prevail rather than the big head hahahaha

Don't worry about me I know the game and I love to play! I'm just trying to provide some wisdom to whoever may need it

 

[Toto beefcake]

Don't worry about me I know the game and I love to play! I'm just trying to provide some wisdom to whoever may need it

Ohhh i aint worried. Just observant

 

[AirBo]

I hate the babe talk

I don't repeat with "babes" lol then you really are just a number

 

[Fradi]

Actually the only thing that gets to me sometimes with my ATF is when she encourages me to see other SP.
She says you need to explore different things see some new people, she is not jealous or afraid of losing me, she knows how I feel about her and we have been friends for a long time now but don’t seem to have a problem separating the two relationships.
Yes it is a paid transaction but I don’t have any issue with that I love spending time with her and money is supposed to be spent to make you happy and improve your life.
I don’t think there is any kind of hate between us certainly not on my part, I adore her, I think she is not only gorgeous but a kind and thoughtful young lady and I am lucky to have her in my life and will always be grateful that I picked her out of so many in Montreal.
I am perfectly happy with the arrangement we have she is an amazing friend and a gorgeous and kind companion what more could I ask for.
I am not sure if not paying her would be better because then we might take each other for granted expect more from each other our respective families might not like each other etc…. I like the way things are we know what to expect from each other we know not to cross the others boundary and we always look forward to seeing each other.

 

[Fradi]

I don't repeat with "babes" lol then you really are just a number

Anyone that keeps calling me babe or hun is a total turn off and an automatic future pass.
I have a name , use it.

 

[AirBo]

the only thing that gets to me sometimes with my ATF is when she encourages me to see other SP

She's actually caring for you. You're lucky to have her

I am perfectly happy with the arrangement we have

Many of us are

 

[Mefy]

Anyone that keeps calling me babe or hun is a total turn off and an automatic future pass.
I have a name , use it.

100% agreed.

 

[bodick7]

Anyone that keeps calling me babe or hun is a total turn off and an automatic future pass.
I have a name , use it.

It could be worst. There's a latina who called me papi once... doesn't sound too good in french...

 

[Anong]

Unless your actually my gf dont call me babe lol.

Girlfriend or Fuck friend, do not like to be called babe!

 

[Anong]

who called me papi once... doesn't sound too good in french

In Hindi Papi means "Sinner"?

 

[Anong]

My ATF loves when she sees me but hates the fact that I may see other girls

So she is only seeing you!!!?

 

[AirBo]

So she is only seeing you!!!?

No... and that's the point!

It's always "funny" when an SP gets jealous. But it's human

 

[Toto beefcake]

No... and that's the point!

It's always "funny" when an SP gets jealous. But it's human

Is your atf an agency girl?