The "Real Girlfriend Experience"

[malboro_man]

For the last 2+ years, I took a SP off the market. I suspect that she still sees people on the side.

The reason why I am doing this is because I wanted the "real girlfriend experience". I know
alot about the SP's personal life and vice versa, and the sex is what you get from a real
girlfirend. But getting that "real girlfriend experience" comes at a price. The SP in question
has many psychological issues. I cannot count how many times she gets me excited, totally hard,
then she curls up in a ball totally naked, getting very depressed for no reason, and left me hanging
or the number of last minute flaking incidents (some of which were legit but most were
questionable).

The equivalent for me is to show her stacks of 100 dollar bills and then take it back from her.

SP in question is older than prime and got into the industry late in life. She is a university
dropout. Work experience consists mainly of entry level jobs, waitressing and quite flaky
for her age. I can't imagine her even being marginally getting by in a regular job or SPing.

I did get the "real girlfriend experience" but it comes with a cost (monetary and the downside
of a "real girlfriend experience").

I am thinking of dropping her pretty soon. I feel sad for her because she has no marketable skillsets
in the real world and SPing is not a career track option.

 

[TigerWould]

The only real GFE experience I’ve gotten isn’t from hobbling. The SPs that offer GFE should actually advertise fake GFE. Because let’s face it, it’s all fake. They fake enjoyment they fake liking you they fake orgasms and the list goes on. With my experience I can’t be fooled anymore. The only time I’ve really enjoyed hobbling has been with sugar babies or actually real girls I’ve picked up. Yes, SB are in it for the money but when you actually have sex with them, you aren’t the 17th guy that week so they’re more real and do it with more real feelings.

 

[malboro_man]

Even SBs may bang others on the side but may be not as high volume as SPs.

 

[jalimon]

Even SBs may bang others on the side but may be not as high volume as SPs.

Some great SP are lower volume then SB.... All that matters is chemistry... nothing else.

 

[hungry101]

Marlboro Man...I was wondering what happened to you. Welcome back.

No, I very much prefer the fake girl friend experience like I have with Montreal SPs.

It's like being a parent vs being a grandpa. Grandpa is way better. You get to dote over them and play with them and spoil them and then when they shit their pants you give them to their parents and they have to change the diaper and you don't have to awaken at 4am to feed them either. That problem goes home with them and I can't breast feed. SP's are like this too. Dote over them, play with them, pay them and part happily till next play time.

 

[Fradi]

The only real GFE experience I’ve gotten isn’t from hobbling. The SPs that offer GFE should actually advertise fake GFE. Because let’s face it, it’s all fake. They fake enjoyment they fake liking you they fake orgasms and the list goes on. With my experience I can’t be fooled anymore..

Perhaps I am one of the ones that can be fooled or likes to be fooled lol.
In all seriousness the one I see regularly is gorgeous, smart, has got her shit together, could easily get along without escorting, she has a career outside of the sex world.
She has treated me from the first day I met her better than any girlfriend, she is kind, compassionate and yes it is a $$ arrangement, but I would say probably the best money I have ever spent.
Seeing her is like being with a true friend with amazing benefits.
This lady really has no equal where I am concerned.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Real Girlfriend Experience.. You want to put that where and for me to do what.... Fuck you.

 

[malboro_man]

Marlboro Man...I was wondering what happened to you. Welcome back.

No, I very much prefer the fake girl friend experience like I have with Montreal SPs.

You made a good analogy.

I've been seeing only one escort for 3.5 years....that's the reason I've not been hobbying.
I've been tempted to going back to "fake" GFE but I get to do "what cannot be named"
so I have been staying away from other SPs.

The percentage of good times is becoming less and less with SP in question. I do really miss
those times, especially coming here reading the reviews and being blue balled.

 

[malboro_man]

Seeing her is like being with a true friend with amazing benefits.
This lady really has no equal where I am concerned.

Indeed you are lucky.

 

[malboro_man]

Fuck you.

You have to pay for it...I doubt you can afford.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

^^^^^^^ ????????

 

[Numerati]

I am thinking of dropping her pretty soon. I feel sad for her because she has no marketable skillsets
in the real world and SPing is not a career track option.

You have hit your ultimate with this woman from it sounds like. Consider yourself “lucky” for meeting her in this fashion as opposed to having her into your life for “free.” The money kept things some what civilized yet it can only lasts so long. She is going to show her true colors sooner or later. Just be glad you two are not an actual couple. Imagine the kinds of shit storms you will have to really deal with. Don’t feel bad or sad for this woman. You dodged a bullet.

 

[hungry101]

This has been a good case study. It sounds like she may have some mental health issues. SSRI's might help? As a friend of mine who is a nurse recently told me that women on SSRIs is the new normal. Every woman I know is on them and some of the men. Better living through chemistry I guess?

 

[malboro_man]

You have hit your ultimate with this woman from it sounds like. ........ She is going to show her true colors sooner or later.

Yup, we definitely hit the ultimate as far as SPs/hobbyists go. I already know her pretty well, so yes, I have seen her true colors.

 

[malboro_man]

This has been a good case study. It sounds like she may have some mental health issues. SSRI's might help? As a friend of mine who is a nurse recently told me that women on SSRIs is the new normal. Every woman I know is on them and some of the men. Better living through chemistry I guess?

That's a good suggestion although she is a big pothead already. That stuff is supposed to make you feel good already.

 

[Numerati]

marlboro_man,

A pothead to boot? I think I have heard enough. LOL. Hope you made your clean break already. Time to ghost. No need to explain because she is not your actual girlfriend. You had your fun and most likely extracted whatever you wanted from this quasi-“relationship”.

Good about this hobby is you can make your clean break if and when it cals for it and no guilt involved. Just be glad this was pay to play and you still have your sanity intact.

As the title of your thread, you got the real girlfriend experience for sure.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

That's a good suggestion although she is a big pothead already. That stuff is supposed to make you feel good already.

You need to add a milkshake and a peach pie to make you feel really good.

 

[F117]

Perhaps I am one of the ones that can be fooled or likes to be fooled lol.
In all seriousness the one I see regularly is gorgeous, smart, has got her shit together, could easily get along without escorting, she has a career outside of the sex world.
She has treated me from the first day I met her better than any girlfriend, she is kind, compassionate and yes it is a $$ arrangement, but I would say probably the best money I have ever spent.
Seeing her is like being with a true friend with amazing benefits.
This lady really has no equal where I am concerned.

I'm with you... I saw a Quebec lady exclusively for 4 + years. I didn't care who she saw or what she did when I wasn't around, when I was with her I felt like I was the center of her universe. We had insane kinky sex, and then spend hours curled up in blankets in front of her fireplace. If I scheduled a multi hour mid afternoon, more likely than not I spent the night - "You aren't leaving me alone tonight, are you, mon ami?" with the cutest accent and how could I resist?

I find that there tend to be two extremes in hobbyists - those who insist that all interactions between a SP and a hobbyist are make-believe (except the donation) and hobbyists like me, in my mid 60's, been in the hobby for 20+ years, and quite frankly am turned off by anything fake. This makes my potential pool of partners very small, but I believe that it is possible to have honest, open exchange of thoughts and feelings so long as both parties know where the guard rails are before the engines are started. JMHO.

 

[malboro_man]

marlboro_man,

A pothead to boot? I think I have heard enough. LOL. Hope you made your clean break already. Time to ghost. No need to explain because she is not your actual girlfriend. You had your fun and most likely extracted whatever you wanted from this quasi-“relationship”..

She knows where I live, I can't just "ghost". Besides she's suicidal. She attempted to commit suicide once and was quite serious. I haven't seen her since Vday but definitely needs closure.

 

[Numerati]

WHAT???? No way.

Okay this is way above and beyond my pay grade. Well whatever the outcome hope you come out unscathed. As for her? This is head shaking. WTF. You definitely let her the keys to the kingdom for sure.

This is definitely "relationship" status if you let her this deep into your world.