The "Real Girlfriend Experience"

[malboro_man]

5. If the issues are significant, try to be a friend in addition to just being a boyfriend or client. If she need help, and is willing to get it, be supportive, if she’s not ready, be patient or make a choice about what is best for you in that moment... cuz you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to get help.

That's really a good advice...thank you...

 

[Holdmedown]

For the last 2+ years, I took a SP off the market. I suspect that she still sees people on the side.

Btw... just curious... when you say you took her off the market do you mean you are taking care of her financially?
If so, you have every right to know if she is seeing clients/others on the side... off the market should mean off the market... and if it’s a real relationship... that would be the equivalent of cheating.

 

[jalimon]

Holdmedown the concept of cheating has radically change for the young generation. Sex and relationship are different thing.

 

[malboro_man]

Btw... just curious... when you say you took her off the market do you mean you are taking care of her financially?
If so, you have every right to know if she is seeing clients/others on the side... off the market should mean off the market... and if it’s a real relationship... that would be the equivalent of cheating.

Yup, I did support her financially....I've been making quite a bit of money in the last 5 years...I basically gave her my take home pay. So yes I've taking care of her financially. She claims she's not seeing any clients (not believe). I know she has tons of guy friends. If nothing goes on between them, they must be gay. But she does have some gay guy friends. I can't watch her 24/7. Doing so makes her want to "cheat" more.

Anyways, starting this year, things are falling apart. I've not been giving her as much money. It looks like I'll end it. I am not sure if I want to pay for her rent until COVID-19 goes away. She's not taking care of my sexual needs, so it's hard to justify taking care of her financial needs. She doesn't make an effort anymore since early this year. With COVID-19, she's just too depressed. I am getting any. Better to save up while I still have a good job than to pay someone to be sexually frustrated.

 

[Numerati]

The more this thread goes...

Uhhhhhh....

WHHHAAAAT.....????!!!!????

 

[Gen. Grubozaboyschikov]

It is not one reason, but many reasons why the hobby is dying. I heard a statistic about ski hills, they are losing 30% of old clients per year and only getting 15% first time clients that spend about half as much as old clients. In reality they are only getting 25% the amount of money as they were getting before. It does not take long before the client base is eroded to nothing. The under 35 year olds are getting their jollies free, and they do not feel like going to a massage place to pay for it from a babushka.