Patron:
I exactly observed in the past what you are talking, that the most you are exposed, the most you risk to have problems.
I understand the will & inner energy to want to be accepted exactly how we are, that is totally justifiable as human beings.
But I know the principle to live in peace in any kind of neighbourhoods, is to be discrete and making our business without pushing others to swallow by force our own believes & our own way to live.
To have that kind of place openly advertised will make jump of their guns some people, that's for sure.
I understand there are people who are not able to figure out that we could be happy living differently to what is their ideals of life, and they judge from their own point of view. (in fact, we all do, we have to be sincere) but related to our activities in this industry, from our own point of view from the inside, I might guess we are much more tolerant for them that they are, in the outside for us.
"Society" is not ready to accept us like we are, clients & Sp's alike, to be recognized full members of it. We are just pushed away, infantilized and deny even intelligence, free willing and being in good mental health.
*It's very strange at this second, I just had the impression that I wrote something that could have been written back then homosexuality was illegal.
No matter what the abolitionist movement will do, "we" will be always existing. So when we are in a time of repression, like any repression time, things are just going in a more undercover way.
Of course, there is some courageous or reckless people who think they will open the path. I don't know if we could think to win or lose something at the end when we attempt something, the Bedford case was full of good intentions, but leaved us with this new worst law after. And I received it as a warning: "Don't try to be more happy and have an easier life, because we will always just be complicated it more. So, shall up and don't bother us anymore"
I think the most important is to be able to do our activities, no matter the other opinions around are.
Hungry:
I understand why FKK are well hidden. But I don't know if people who expose them are not exposing FKK to eventual repression, by the way. I hope not. Some abolitionist might be "extreme abolitionist" , who knows?
And that has been proven that's even hypocrite sometimes. But hey, to keep an immaculate public image, some may not hesitate. That's the cautious side of me who's talking. Life is made of infinite possibilities. I suggest always prudence and discretion, but that's probably a trait related after experimentation from my part.
Time for coffee now. :tea: