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Time Management Question for SPs

Gungrir

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Hi SPs of Merb.cc

I have a question about the time paid to spend with the service provider. Is it from the agreed time (For example, you booked an appointment for 5:30pm, therefore the timer starts right away?) From the moment you greet the client? or From the moment you send the text that says you can come? Also, I take a longtime to cum so i usually book an hour but i notice that a lot of escorts even tho they agreed for an hour session starts to pressure me into finishing quicker. Even tho, I still have like 15-20 minutes. Some escorts told me that they don't like getting it for an hour long. Does this mean that if i book for an hour that I am not supposed to expect a minimum of 45-50 minutes of sex?
 

talkinghead

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Your questions may be for SPs but the answers are not a trade secret. The time starts at the greeting. Every other question you ask is YMMV. It sounds like you've seen "a lot of escorts" so you must know that by now. It sounds like you might benefit from booking longer sessions. You absolutely cannot consistently expect "45-50 minutes of sex" for a one-hour session. (Also, this topic was recently covered in another thread.)
 

Kinky Cinderella

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This is a very personal question and you will most probably get as many different POV as the number of answers posted in your thread...

Asking it to the ones you could be interested of seeing would be the best way for you in order to avoid disappointment .
 

Sol Tee Nutz

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Just my opinion but if someone can have for 50 min it should be accepted, I am sure most escorts get plenty of short sex sessions with plenty of chatting and cuddling so take the good with the bad.
I think the short sessions outweigh the long sessions by a lot.
 

luvdozer

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If it is incall and you are on time, your hour starts when you arrive and ends when you leave. It includes the time you take to shower when u arrive and if you wish to shower before you leave. If you are late, you should immediately if d out from the booker and or the girl if you can still have the full hour or if that creates a problem for their schedule. Your fee doesn't change if you are late. Be respectful of other people's time.

If it is an outcall, the hour starts when she arrives regardless of whether she is on time or late. It includes time for her to shower and adjust makeup before she leaves. Don't be a jerk about that. She showed up at your door nice and fresh, so allow her to leave the same way.

If you really are getting pressure to finish even though there is plenty of time left (including her shower in an outcall) then you need to consider making some different choices:

1) pick some different girls and/or different agencies and see if maybe you have just picked bad providers
2) start the sex a little sooner to give yourself time. I like to have some conversatuon, but if 30 minutes goes by before any clothing comes off, I might have trouble
3) book a 90 minute session so you can have both foreplay and sex at the pace you are comfortable with

Most of all, don't be that guy who tries to have 59 minutes of pounding in order to feel like he got his money's worth. This isn't an all you can eat buffet type of hobby. Focus on having the best possible orgasm with a great girl. If that happens at minute 40, so what? Spend some time cuddling and talking. When you see her again she is going to want to top her performance from he time before.
 

jalimon

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The best one out there do exactly like STN wrote. They give a little push to the end of the hour sometimes when needed. I know, I have been one of them ;)

Cheers
 

Halloween Mike

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If you are late, you should immediately if d out from the booker and or the girl if you can still have the full hour or if that creates a problem for their schedule. Your fee doesn't change if you are late. Be respectful of other people's time.

If it is an outcall, the hour starts when she arrives regardless of whether she is on time or late. It includes time for her to shower and adjust makeup before she leaves. Don't be a jerk about that. She showed up at your door nice and fresh, so allow her to leave the same way.

Yes its a good thing to ask if you will be able to have all your time i supose but i would disagree on the fact that if your late you should take the time lost on you. I may not be an incall guy but as an outcall guy SPs being late is a "normal thing". 15 mins or less and i don't even "care" personally. As in it won't affect my review or whatever. I find this "normality" I also have read plenty of stories of guys going to incalls and having to wait in the parking place or in the lobby for the SP to be ready. So i think if an SP can make a client wait, a client can make an SP wait a bit as well. Im not talking 45 mins here but 10-15 mins. Sometimes traffic and such especially in MTL can be a bitch.

Personally i try to always be on time for everything in life, but it did happen (rarely) something occured and i was a bit late. One time i was going to a friend's place in laval and the taxi driver literraly just took the wrong road. He didn't charge me for his fuck up but it did meant i arrived late at my friend's place (i missed 2 fights on the card cause of this lol) I know some peoples would argue that the SP have to follow a schedule for her day and you don't, but something can happen out of your control. Anyway i guess one more reason why i prefer to joyces of outcall... less stress.

As for the time at the end, its usually 10 mins max. But a good SP won't stress if you have not cum and its 55min in the meeting when you finally does it. Its more about if your cuddling and chilling in bed, by the 10m left mark she will most likely get up to prepare herself. But its important to note there is agencies who promise you the full 60 mins with you as part of there "promotion". They even precise shower time etc is after your 60mins.

One thing i would agree with peoples is that expect 59 mins of sex is a bit extreme, and yes she could very well get tired of doing something at some point. I am a slow cummer as well double with a loud mouth lol. Can't really book 30 min as i would fear not having enough time. But even in those cases i usually have come by the 45m mark if the encounter goes the way i hope.

For me an ideal meeting is

1) She arrive
2) Chat for 5-6 min
3) 4-5 Mins max of preparation in bathroom (fresh up etc)
4) Sex start at 10m in, 15 at mox
5) 30-35 mins of good sex
6) 5-10 mins of post sex talk
7) Shower time for her

But its dangerous sometimes, when you have too much chemistry with a girl and talking seem fun, it happened to me to realize in shock that shit 20 mins have already pass and saying "i like to talk to you but we gotta start now..." LOL

And to finish i would say if providers pressure you to finish with 20 mins left on the clock its because there 1 SOG type of girls from backpage or such, just wanting to make you cum as fast as possible so they can send you off the fastest. A good provider in a good agency/indy will not pressure you and when your done will stay to cuddle/chat anyway.
 

Gungrir

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Sometimes, there are no reviews and i have to give it a try myself. The ones trying to cheat time ( some may disagree with that expression) are mostly the young ones or the newbies. I had a friend who was a provider and she would usually try to finish her one hour session in 15 minutes or less to have a free 45 minutes. I told her in business it's cheaper to keep your clients than it is to acquire new ones. Like some of the backpage providers she offered a bad customer service to the point that she had to lower her price and change cities to find new clients because she burned through some of mtl's hobbyists. I find that the most successful providers rarely need to advertise because they already have a solid reputation and returning customers.

Anyways, my point is if a client books an hour of the provider's time. It should be normal for him to expect close to 50 minutes assuming that he doesn't take more than 5 minutes to shower and dress.
PS: Something that i did find interesting in asian agencies. They are very service focused. To the point that the provider showers with you at the beginning and ending of the session. I'm not expecting that from any providers but it is kinda nice.
 

Sol Tee Nutz

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The way you phrase it the long is bad and the short is good...I beg to differ. I remember some very short session where I spent more time going and back then the actual meeting,very disappointing

My statement was towards the SP's that want to talk for 15 min, have the client shower, sex for 15 min, cuddle and then shower.
For the SP's that enjoy the work and prefer a full sex session... Good for you and the client.
 

Rosie Sparkles

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Depends on the mood tbh! Sometimes the session will last a lil longer because we had a lot to negociate before going into action or/and someone needs aftercare. And sometimes the time starts right away when the client enter the room because he french kiss me and touch me before even taking his shower (so I start the hour right away). So yeah, it depends! But obviously I will never kick someone out or stop a session before the time the person pay for just because! Maybe it's the difference between high volume agencies/girls and agencies/girls with more spaced bookings. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 
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