Traveliing with a working girl...

[dmanmtl]

I have a bunch of business travel planned in Q1-2011 (London, Hk, NY, SFO) and would really like to find a girl to accompany me on one of these trips.

I have posted about this before and received some good advice, but I am wondering if anyone has any recent new experience with this.

Obviously I would not be ready to pay some hourly rate for the girls company but I would pickup all the expenses (4-5 star hotels etc) and provide some extra remuneration (pocket money) - I usually work 8 or 9 hours a day when I am in other cities so the girl would have the day to herself, I would only expect company during the evenings.

Basically, I am looking for a girl who likes to travel, is interested in seeing different cities and is easy to be around. I have actually mentioned the idea to a couple of my favorite massage girls and they seemed very keen...but who knows what would happen when the formal offer is made. My other big fear is that I make all the arrangements and the girl is a no-show.

Any advice, comments etc would be appreciated. Also Girls: any advice from you would also be more than welcome!

D

 

[howielong]

I agree with Blues, the effort required to concentrate on business or just travel, if something goes wrong, would be enormous. Considering the number of Eastern European women available in the UK, as well as English and Scottish lasses, you may want to consider spending time with them. I have had the opportunity to spend time with Sable4u.co.uk (stacked brunette) and Pamela bustypamela.com (stacked light brunette) and had memorable encounters with each. Good Luck.

 

[hungry101]

Interesting thought. Since I travel quite a bit on biz I would love to do this. Problem is work days become 18 hour days (when you include business dinners and travel) and I can not shake co-workers and hosts from the local country I visit. Also, I am going in and out of so many countries the visas would be a pain and the and airfare would kill me. This would be imposible.

The best thing I did was take the advice of a SR memeber on this site and join the International Sex Guide. This way I can taste the local fare, when I have time. It is like a MERB for the rest of the world.

Hint: If you ever want a long term date, plan a travelers hiatus somewhere in Thailand. 100 USD a night is a lot to spend on a girl. You get her home (and bribe your way into the hotel) and you can't get her to leave. She likes the breakfast and living in luxury and you have made a girlfriend for the trip! For something like 100$

 

[Guido]

"I don't bring my own sand to the beach". IMHO the whole beauty of travel is to sample and try new experiences with the local beauties. Getting too close to a working girl can lead to possible problems that I would want to avoid.

 

[czar]

"I don't bring my own sand to the beach". IMHO the whole beauty of travel is to sample and try new experiences with the local beauties. Getting too close to a working girl can lead to possible problems that I would want to avoid.

Yeah...what happens if you get fed up with her or vis versa? Or if just doesn't work out? Do you dump her? I think it would be too much like traveling with my wife!

I'm with the others...just like sampling local foods, beers and wines...sample what the locals have to offer. That's what I enjoy about travelling.

Czar

 

[Guido]

Yeah...what happens if you get fed up with her or vis versa? Or if just doesn't work out? Do you dump her? I think it would be too much like traveling with my wife!

I'm with the others...just like sampling local foods, beers and wines...sample what the locals have to offer. That's what I enjoy about travelling.

Czar

You've lost me here . Are you agreeing not to bring the working girl with you (as I suggest) or do you have some kind of hidden meaning that I am not getting?

 

[metoo4]

You have to know the girl you will travel with extremely well. Practical reasons, not just for fun.

Each time you cross a border with her will be risky. Look at USA where prostitution is illegal. You and her can get barred from entering or worst, get arrested on the spot if the custom agents suspect something. She will likely not open her real life to you. If you are grilled by custom agents, you will have absolutely no answers.
The girl might be carrying illegal things. If you are together, you might not be guilty but you will be more suspect. Check it out for your next trip after that, it might be hard to go back to that country.
The girl can decide not to carry illegal things and put them in your luggage instead. Now you are in big trouble. A joint get you death at some places.
My way of seeing it, you do not want to cross any border with the girl. You better travel separate.

When they travel somewhere that require a passport and flying, some girl demands the money to book their own flight accommodations and demands an open return ticket. That way, they do not need to give the customer their real name and they can come back early if things do not go well. Some girls will also demand to have a separate hotel room. All for safety and ensure they will not become a slave to the customer.

 

[czar]

You've lost me here . Are you agreeing not to bring the working girl with you (as I suggest) or do you have some kind of hidden meaning that I am not getting?

Hmmmm....Seemed pretty clear to me...but... I agree with you and the others...when traveling sample the local fare...don't bring a girl.

Czar.

 

[protagoras]

I spend practically my whole adult life with dancers, especially Black dancers (as a boy friend not a customer). I can report from my private experience several 'horror' stories where a trip with a SP can turn really bad. I don't want to generalize; my observation applies as well to other nationality or ethnic background on both continent, here and in South America (I'm sure that there are exceptions but as I mentioned I'm talking from my own point of view).

Here are some examples of what I mean.

1) A long time ago (1986) I went to a trip with a Jamaican dancer that was then my GF after a 6 months relationship (I met her at the former Castel Tina). She was a ganja smoker and I am not (not since 1975, to tell you the truth). Before leaving to NY on car, I asked her not to bring pot with her because I didn't want both of us to be arrested at the lines. Near Platsburgh she said proudly to me that she had pot with her (it was hidden somewhere in her hair)!!!!! I was so upset that I kicked her out of my car at the Platsburgh bus station with money to go back home. As Jason Statham says (The transporter): Never break the rules!!!!!!

2) A friend of an ex-girlfriend of mine where both dancing in a club in Montreal. The friend of my GF was a stunning 22 blonde dancer (French Canadian) and she had a regular wealthy customer who was in his young fifty. He invited her to a trip to Dominican Republic in a nice resort. When they arrived in DR, it didn't took her long before she socialized (and fall in 'love') with a younger dominican working at the hotel. She didn't even had sex with her older sugar dady and she ignored him all the trip.

3) If you have to pay for a SP to spend a vacation with you it means that she's exploiting you and she is not a GF. How can you trust a person that you barely know? Will she behave properly in public? Will she drop you? Is she reliable? Is she honest (will she go through your personal papers or other personal stuff when you re not with her? You you are at the airport and it happens that she has a criminal record, what will you do? Going to your destination alone or going back with home with her (and then loosing the whole trip)?

Money never brings love and respect. In fact most of the SP despise their customer. Why would you like to travel to a foreing country with someone you cannot trust and with which there are no personal and loving bond? As another poster said, why go to the beach with your sand. When I go to a restaurant I never bring my lunch (not even my bottle of wine...).

One of the pleasure of traveling is meeting new people and to have the feeling of being free. A couple of years ago (when I was still in a couple) I met a SP in São Paulo and we 'felt in love'. At that time, I didn't have my condo there. When she knew I was going back to Sampa, she invited me to spend my whole vacation in her place!!!!! I didn't like the idea because what was the purpose of taking a vacation and going by myself to another place without my spouse (but with her benediction!) and to repete the same pattern abroad : living with another woman. It doesn't make sense, if you travel it's because you want to have fun and be free.

 

[hungry101]

I spend practically my whole adult life with dancers, especially Black dancers (as a boy friend not a customer). I can report from my private experience several 'horror' stories where a trip with a SP can turn really bad. I don't want to generalize; my observation applies as well to other nationality or ethnic background on both continent, here and in South America (I'm sure that there are exceptions but as I mentioned I'm talking from my own point of view).

Here are some examples of what I mean.

2) A friend of an ex-girlfriend of mine where both dancing in a club in Montreal. The friend of my GF was a stunning 22 blonde dancer (French Canadian) and she had a regular wealthy customer who was in his young fifty. He invited her to a trip to Dominican Republic in a nice resort. When they arrived in DR, it didn't took her long before she socialized (and fall in 'love') with a younger dominican working at the hotel. She didn't even had sex with her older sugar dady and she ignored him all the trip.

I remember this story. I think this guy posted on MERB a few years ago. My advice to the poor guy was the following: When on vacation, bring you golf clubs and possibly a wingman and oh yes, bring a computer so you can get on the net and find out the hot spots so you can go out Mongering!

 

[CWipes]

I've done it. Don't do it.

- CWipes

 

[CS Martin]

I've done it. Don't do it.

- CWipes

I've done it. It can be done successfully EOM

 

[master_bates]

I wouldnt bring sand to the beach.....

 

[sexxxymtl]

Apparently I'm the only SP that is willing to stick my neck.. along with other things out there and give you the other side of the story...

I've traveled with clients before... Some have been wonderful, others no so...

Giving a girl reviews from another girl doesn't really mean much... I've had it and was told great but found myself in very difficult situations and pretty much learned from it...

Best way is to talk to the girl by phone and email, if it's going to be overseas... Have both of you know what you both really (easy to fake in a 3 hour call, not easy to fake when for multiple days for both sides) And see if you both can deal with each other... Plus ask questions really really blunt... Straight up what you want or even throw them a curve ball just to test the waters...

As for personal info... For me personally, I don't give any of my clients personal info or anything that anyone else can find them in any way shape or form... But I've had clients release my personal info and also googled where I live etc when they have booked my flight... To me it's obvious that it shouldn't be done, but as I said I've had it happen to me... Us girls expect to have our ID kept personal or else why would we work under different names...

For the location.... Make sure the girls understand the culture of where you bring them.. You do not want stupid problems like that... And don't be afraid of testing the girl... Better to know before your there...

Anything else you would like to know.. Send me a pm or an email or call...
In this better to be safe then sorry....
Lisa

 

[Java]

Too much liability.

There is a possibility of liability when traveling with a working girl, she can accuse you of a multitude of evils, the cost out weigh the benefits. If you are working it is best not to mix it with pleasure, at least not to the point where you have a bring along live in play thing. The cost for this convenience also outweigh the benefits, I would imagine that it would be quite expensive to do this, plus she might also expect some shopping expense. Then there is possible trouble at the border, do you really know what kind of past she has had? She could throw a taint on your name jut for being associated with her. There is also the possibility of skip out, what if she skips out on you once you land at the destination? What if she commits a crime after the skip out, you were with her when she entered the country. Getting a HD-SP at destination is still cheaper than " Bringing your own sandwich ".

 

[Zatara]

Years ago rock stars use to hump everything in site, they could get away with it then. Now a days any slight accusation will stick on you like shit on beat fur. Fo the same cost of BYO bitch. You can call them up at your convienience and have quite a few.

 

[KylieD]

I have and still do travel with clients. I've never had a problem. Do your homework, ladies and gents. Have a dinner date or overnight with the respective person beforehand to see if there's chemistry or if you mesh. Lay out all the ground rules ahead of time. Guys, check reviews to see if she's what you have in mind in terms of service. Yes, most girls book the flight under their real names with the deposit. That's normal practice. Anyone who is paranoid and worried the girl is going to screw them over should probably refrain from taking trips with companions, or do better homework before booking a lady. This isn't rocket science.

 

[hungry101]

I have and still do travel with clients. I've never had a problem. Do your homework, ladies and gents. Have a dinner date or overnight with the respective person beforehand to see if there's chemistry or if you mesh. Lay out all the ground rules ahead of time. Guys, check reviews to see if she's what you have in mind in terms of service. Yes, most girls book the flight under their real names with the deposit. That's normal practice. Anyone who is paranoid and worried the girl is going to screw them over should probably refrain from taking trips with companions, or do better homework before booking a lady. This isn't rocket science.

Yes but why would you do this? The O.P. said that he is going to NY, SFO, Hong Kong. All those places have escorts. Hell in HK I couldn't even check-in to my hotel room prior to scoping out the available escorts waiting in the lounge. They were going for 100-400$/hr (my plane ticket was over 10,000$ last trip). I thought maybe this guy was doing a swing by car through the western states or eastern states and spending the night in some rural area where esorts are not readily available. If so this would make sense...for the guy anyway. Name a tropical destination that does not have escorts available? For me it's not a destination if there are not escorts. Wait a minute! I got it! I have talked myself into falling in love with my Montreal escorts. They are so much like real girl friends. But I only see them for an hour or two at tops. The fantasy may wear off after a few hours and ruin it for me. BTW - In Thialand they want to be your wife by the end of the trip - for real.

I guess if I had a couple million in the bank I would consider this...but if I did I would probably be such a tight wad that I probably couldn't stand to spend any money at all on escorts.

 

[freezin]

Wow, a big variety of opinions here.
I travel quite extensively for work, and have often contemplated this concept.

A travel companion would be worth it to me, just to avoid the stress of trying to make the arrangements through unknown entities on the road.
And then there is the benefit, of possibly having a companion for social and tourism activities.
My business sponsors would cover reasonable cost (airfare and a 2nd hotel room) so that is not so much a concern.

With all the being said, my attempts at longer social/intimate dates in the local area have highlighted for me, how bad life can be when two incompatible people try to spend time together.
I would be too concerned about being stuck with a lady with low social skills and embarrassing public behavior.

 

[franky]

what you need is a mistress and not an escort. Mistresses want to travel and are fun to be around. I just ended my long term mistress several months ago. She was fantastic. Great in bed, had better seats than me for the opera, well read and was super discreet. It was a beneficial relationship for both because it was companionship and sex. You would be better off with one of these relationships for business travel. Just my two cents
franky