Traveliing with a working girl...

[freezin]

what you need is a mistress and not an escort. Mistresses want to travel and are fun........ Great in bed, .............., well read and was super discreet. ............ it was companionship and sex.
franky

Excellent point franky, I will admit that does sound ideal.

I have stopped inviting female acquaintances on my trips because as wonderful as it can be to have the company, my interest in the affair is limited to the occasional trips and secret intimate encounters.
Many woman I know get insulted at the idea, that I want romantic trips abroad and an occasional secret rendezvous without the intent to merge the rest of our lives.
Initially, that was what got me to start thinking about spending time companions in the first place.

So can a single guy obtain a mistresses, who is willing to remain only a mistress. Or do I have to pretend that I have a wife and kids to justify that the
limitations that I want on the relationship.

 

[itravelcanada]

I love traveling with my favourite friends. Generally I have rules because of the extra cost and they are:

1. Has to be someone I have seen and not a reference. The women I have taken on trips I have seen outside the club for dinner or something else. They may be good in the MP or in your hotel room but out socially in public is a whole new ball game.

2. Has life experience. For me, nothing worse than to spend time with someone who only reads magazines and plays videogames as their main past times outside of the Club. Who knows, this type of person may suite you. I enjoy women who like myself who have traveled, older than 25, and extroverted.

3. Set rates for the trip before you leave and by email so you both know what is expected. Make sure they agree to the amount too. I have provided travel rate for weekend or five day trip, cover air and hotel (all but one trips had separate room because I like my own room), and daily expenses (ie trip expenses at an all inclusive resort are not the same as daily expenses at in Vegas or San Fran). Depending on trip and social meetings, I have also provided a cloth budget for a couple of events.

I have now taken a few women on short trips and worth it.

There are similar posts on the sister sites like Perb and Terb too.

 

[Philip J. Fry]

It works both ways, its all about identity. When you travel through customs or go to a hotel you reveal your identity to each other. There may be photos of the sights and each other. There may even be some sneaky checking into papers in luggage while you are out of the room. The bottom line is, the shit can hit the fan. During or after the trip, or much later. All you need is someone showing up with photos and documents. ( like plane tickets and hotel bill - yes they can call and get duplicates ) I would not do it.

 

[KylieD]

Yes, shit absolutely can hit the fan which is why it's super important to have some sort of comfortability with the person before going away with them. There's less likelihood of no-shows and trouble happening if you have some sort of relationship (even if it was as simple as meeting once before). At least you have a good idea of what you're going to get. If the girl is being paid her rate to be there, why would she screw around and be troublesome? If she's any sort of professional, she'll act accordingly. She's not going to risk a terrible review, her reputation, etc. I can see how there may be trouble if it's just a free trip. If that's the case, why ask a professional and why not take a girl you're seeing or interested in instead? A working girl is paid to play. A girl who's not in the business is a better bet.

 

[duetoday]

And considering all that happens nowadays and who these girls are in general,i would not cross the border with one...

 

[KylieD]

And you wouldn't. She would book her ticket under her own name with the deposit and meet you there. Simple. If you don't trust the person, you don't travel with (and by 'with', I mean to the same place as you, wether it be physically with you or meet you there) them. Again, if you do your homework and pick a girl who's reputable, then "who these girls are in general" won't come up because they'll be professionals and, again, act accordingly.

 

[Zatara]

I know of one case where the guy went to Las Vegas with a working girl, he agreed to pay all expenses and a cash bonus. She blew her cash bonus in the first hours after arrival and demanded more. He refused and kicked her out of the room. The cops were called and things got messy. She agreed to leave if she got all her stuff (luggage) , a ticket back home and a going away fee. That is all in the first few hours of the trip.