Trouble putting it in - penetration

[mrmystery]

Wondering if any guys experience this?

It's very hard to penetrate the girl, even if dick is somewhat hard (not rock rock hard) . It's like it's rejecting it...Happens quite often.

I believe I am average size.

Is it because of the girl, not turned on, dry and pussy muscle is clenched closed?
Or is it me?

 

[TheJames101]

Is this happening with every girl you see, or just one?

 

[Mandouke]

I would tend to think it is because you are not 100% hard. I have never had that problem.

 

[themonk83]

Not enough lube?

 

[Nachoy]

I like to hear an SP opinion
Can a pussy muscle be clenched hard enough to prevent penetration?

 

[kalena11]

I like to hear an SP opinion
Can a pussy muscle be clenched hard enough to prevent penetration?

How old are you?

 

[mrmystery]

Mul

Is this happening with every girl you see, or just one?

Multiple

 

[Nachoy]

How old are you?

It’s irrelevant to the topic
Do you have an answer wise guy?

Why Does age matter?
I could be a 40 yo virgin

 

[Rebaynia]

Wondering if any guys experience this?

yes. If it isn'thard enough. This is what happens.

It's very hard to penetrate the girl, even if dick is somewhat hard (not rock rock hard) . It's like it's rejecting it...Happens quite often.

I believe I am average size.

Is it because of the girl, not turned on, dry and pussy muscle is clenched closed?
Or is it me?

If it is not hard enough a kitty can prevent penetration.

It isn't because a woman is turned on or not. I tend to think it can get tighter sometimes when excited. And isn't about lube or wetness. Though lube can help.

It needs to be able to stand on it's own to push past the entryway, otherwise it is turned away.

 

[MCTJ]

Mul

Multiple

This suggests that your erection which is not "rock hard" as you say, is not hard enough for penetration. I'll let others suggest potential solutions.

 

[Jordd]

yes. If it isn'thard enough. This is what happens.

If it is not hard enough a kitty can prevent penetration.

It isn't because a woman is turned on or not. I tend to think it can get tighter sometimes when excited. And isn't about lube or wetness. Though lube can help.

It needs to be able to stand on it's own to push past the entryway, otherwise it is turned away.

Kitty no like softy

 

[PSEfreak]

Definitely not hard enough.
Lube might help but getting johnny standing firmly at attention is your first priority

 

[hob12]

Cialis

 

[2fast2slow]

give up porn and dont masturbate for a week, ill guarantee youll be up for the task (pardon the assumptions about you )

 

[Halloween Mike]

Only times this happened for me was when i was on a semi for whatever reasons. Like once i had already cum early, so plenty of time left, i managed to get decently hard with oral but it wasn't as easy to do the normal penetration. Another time the girl altough pretty was a huge turn off (in term of attitude) and it was harder to keep the erection. Had to stimulate myself mentally lol.

 

[joeca]

most guys on this board have more trouble keeping it out than putting it in!

 

[Albacor]

I like to hear an SP opinion
Can a pussy muscle be clenched hard enough to prevent penetration?

If i waa you, i would bring an oyster knife to open it !

 

[Julia Sky]

I tend to think it can get tighter sometimes when excited.

Mmh, science says otherwise. The vagina expands when we are excited, typically! Sure it contracts during pleasure/orgasm but muscle contraction =/= being tighter.

To answer OP's question, it likely is due to a lack of hardness although vaginismus is also a possibility but I would think an escort with vaginismus would take some time off until the issue is resolved unless she can't afford to

 

[sam311]

Mul

Multiple

probably not hard enough, although with semi hard penis you should be able, if enough lube. Try this.
when semi hard, grab tight the base of your penis and ask SP to guide it in.