Unhappy members

[Obvio-0bvio]

I have written both good and bad reviews of my experiences to date. The vast majority of my experiences have been good ones, there have been a handful of poor ones.

I understand that not all experiences will be good experiences and, the criteria I use to judge a bad experience are some simple metrics. The first and most important is hygiene. If an SP, does not have good hygiene it is apparent to me immediately and I will pay and leave. This has happened to me once with a highly regarded and well-reviewed SP. I have never booked with her again.

Secondly, I do not care for SPs who openly smoke, vape, drink or use drugs. I do not do any of these things. I understand that these are choices that individuals make regarding doing them, however, I usually make it clear that I am not and would appreciate the same before a visit. I am not trying to influence an SP not to do these things, only that they inform me if they do, so I can decide whether to see them or pass.

Finally, if I am paying for a certain amount of time I expect to receive that time, I find that SPs can be pushy and attempt to finish very quickly. I am grateful to Merb members who provided feedback good and bad on Merb. It helps me to make informed decisions moving forward. Thank you all.

I appreciate your perspective. There are a few key points that I would like to highlight. The way a customer interacts with a service provider can significantly influence the overall experience and potentially lead to negative feedback. If a customer lacks understanding of how to engage with service providers, it can result in a disappointing encounter for both parties. Negative reviews are sometimes a result of a customer's poor approach, causing anxiety for the service provider. It is worth noting that some of my most positive experiences have been with service providers who have received negative reviews. It is important not to overlook the potential of a great service provider just because a member may not know how to effectively engage with them. If your intention is to base your decision on a review, I recommend ensuring that the reviewer is credible, knowledgeable and respectful when interacting with service providers.

 

[LC18]

Some of you seem to think that you’re making a wise financial decision by booking people at $100 from LL but often come back here and complain that this or that wasn’t working, that the place was gross, that a man was in the bathroom. Some of you book multiple people at low rates and never seem satisfied when you could book 3 reputable and well reviewed SPs for the same amount you’ve spent. In the long run, you’ll spend $1,000 on a few very disappointing dates while you could have just booked 3 good dates. Maybe that’s why so many people seem like they’re complaining all the time

 

[LC18]

bet you those 100$ bookings don.t have the time to make endless posts here
reninds m of the guy around he corner italian resturant charging 30$ for a place of spaghetti
saying pay more is better...... is not always the case..
you can get lowsy sevice attitude and poor hygene from an expensive escort
some so depoarate for money will have sex on their period using a surgical sponge as not not lose a cent

It looks like you didn’t understand my post so let’s try again.

I am not saying that paying more guarantees you to have a good experience. I said that if you spend $1,000 on trying to find gems on LL instead of using merb and meeting SPs that are well reviewed, it might not be the good deal you think it is. Emphasis on the reputable and well reviewed it means a lot more than the rate. You could have someone at a lower rate with outstanding reviews and someone with almost unaffordable rates with poor reviews.

 

[Lexus3]

Some of you seem to think that you’re making a wise financial decision by booking people at $100 from LL but often come back here and complain that this or that wasn’t working, that the place was gross, that a man was in the bathroom. Some of you book multiple people at low rates and never seem satisfied when you could book 3 reputable and well reviewed SPs for the same amount you’ve spent. In the long run, you’ll spend $1,000 on a few very disappointing dates while you could have just booked 3 good dates. Maybe that’s why so many people seem like they’re complaining all the time

Over time, personal experience has taught me the same thing.
In my opinion, the logic works with agencies as well and my reason for avoiding MAE for example, except when I know the provider visiting, like K these days and I have confirmation that it is not the usual misrepresentation.

 

[Jordd]

SP's are different "experiences" they are more expensive. So why see multiple different girls, never liking them, losing money, and doing it all again. When you can stop seeing multiple SPs (when they know the outcome will be mostly negative) and focus on the few SPs they actually like (if they find them).

Makes sense. I think they’re keeping the good reviews to themselves. Or as was said, many of us are inclined to report negative experiences rather than positive ones.
Personally, I don’t feel I have much to add when someone has pages of positive reviews.

 

[Jordd]

All that said, there are members who mostly visit providers with existing reviews and then always end up having negative experiences to report about. As others have already mentioned, they are most likely the problem themselves, not the SPs that they're seeing.

Great reviews also set high expectations. So, are you are likely to be disappointed in most cases.

 

[Jordd]

This does happen all the time though and the rare and hidden gems are frequently shared. Just not necessarily always in public but often only between groups of people who know and trust each other with certain information. At least for a while.

As for the reasons, there are multiple. In my experience, once these gems become more publicly and widely known, there is an unfortunate tendency for the weirdos and freaks to start flocking to them, which then creates a risk of the girl disappearing entirely if she can't handle dealing with that. Then everybody loses.

With negative experiences on the other hand, there isn't really any downside of posting them right away and warning people to stay away from danger, scams, etc. Some membes seem to prioritize posting these negative experiences publicly, which can give the impression that they're overly negative people a.k.a. "unhappy members" although they might not necessarily be.

Shameless plug for my thread "Current gems" which wasn’t very popular! Hahaha

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/current-gems.229023/

 

[Jordd]

that a man was in the bathroom.

Hahaha

Some of you seem to think that you’re making a wise financial decision by booking people at $100 from LL but often come back here and complain that this or that wasn’t working, that the place was gross, that a man was in the bathroom. Some of you book multiple people at low rates and never seem satisfied when you could book 3 reputable and well reviewed SPs for the same amount you’ve spent. In the long run, you’ll spend $1,000 on a few very disappointing dates while you could have just booked 3 good dates. Maybe that’s why so many people seem like they’re complaining all the time

I would complain too if I had 10 bad $100 encounters!! Wouldn’t feel too happy with me-self!

 

[LC18]

your argument although could be considered sound sounds like more of a self promotion
Emphasis on the reputable and well reviewed it means a lot more than the rate.
love your argument your trying to subliminally justify your rate to us...
good luck with that
4x 100 or 1x 450 ill take the 4x 100

You yet again missed the point. It’s not just about the rate but about the quality.

I said men prefer meeting ladies for $100 a pop, then they get disappointed that they received poor services, they’ll repeat 3 other times and be disappointed 3 other times. This whole time they could have booker someone for $300 with great reviews and be happy. Sometimes trying to save money doesn’t work and that’s ok.

It’s an exemple. I am sure you could find someone around $150 with amazing reviews. Then it would be totally justified to go and see her rather than someone who is charging $1,000 with no reviews, no recommendations from other pooners.

 

[LC18]

you just cant accept $100/hr has gems has great service some can be much superior to those who charge higher rates

Because you left this part out:

I am sure you could find someone around $150 with amazing reviews. Then it would be totally justified to go and see her rather than someone who is charging $1,000 with no reviews, no recommendations from other pooners.

 

[LC18]

But also, not everyone wants to see 4-5 men a day. So they just set higher rates so they don’t have to.

It doesn’t mean they give better services than those who charge less.

No one is stopping you from seeing women that charge less, all I’m saying is don’t be surprised when they appear to be tired or not truly enjoying it (like I’ve seen in many reviews.)

 

[LC18]

@Oberstdorf very sorry for derailing your thread.

All I was trying to say is that many men that seem to complain a lot see SPs with no reviews and that haven’t been recommended by peers. They go because the price is low and they want to find a gem. It’s normal, it’s human nature.

They would probably have better experiences and leave more positive reviews if they went to see companions that have good reviews about them. Whether they charge $5 or one million dollars.

On that note, I’ll unwatch this thread. Very good question though, sorry to have derailed.

 

[Oberstdorf]

something some minds cant comprahend!

Somethings most minds can't comprehend are definitely your posts.

Enough of your bullshit. What you are talking about has nothing to do with my question. If you want to argue about this start another thread.

 

[bodick7]

Be happy guys
I don’t want to write Michael Buffer’s catchphrase again. Ha!Ha!

 

[Oberstdorf]

your right i noticed that as well!
sometimes its the poster
sometimes its bad luck
paying a high priced escort is no guarantee of satisfaction
jsut like seeing a unknown is nto a guarnatee of misery
even thought glowing reviews
part of the reason is i know for a fact many guys inflate a review in hope of favours from the escort
otherwise called shilling.a few even had the nerve to pm me saind ya i buy her gifts and do posts for her when tis slow in return for discounts etc

Thank you. This was an answer that I was looking for. It's not that hard

 

[Oberstdorf]

1) "People are so unhappy why do they bother seeing SPs". "Maybe THEY ARE THE PROBLEM" is a complaint. If you're going to say it, just own it...

2) Refer to #1. Also, people who write negative complaints get many PMs. In fact, I've had agencies ask me to remove my negative reviews in the past.

3) Point still stands

Ok fine I meant "maybe they are the problem?"
Happy?

 

[AirBo]

Personally, I never book an SP when I'm in a crappy mood

 

[Thor Jr]

Not me, when I'm having a bad day, i know a couple of ladies who will make me forget all about the bad in life.

And of course, golf, a cold beer and making money always seems to help things along.

 

[Toto beefcake]

Not me, when I'm having a bad day, i know a couple of ladies who will make me forget all about the bad in life.

And of course, golf, a cold beer and making money always seems to help things along.

Golf a hobby i intend to take up down the line

 

[LC18]

Personally, I never book an SP when I'm in a crappy mood

Not me, when I'm having a bad day, i know a couple of ladies who will make me forget all about the bad in life.

And of course, golf, a cold beer and making money always seems to help things along.

I can see both sides.

It’s fun when you’re in a bad mood and you get to see someone that makes you forget about the dark cloud and leaves you with a smile. When your mood is so bad that you get upset with the smallest thing and you could yell at a fly if she was too close to you, it might be better to stay home and not see anyone.