Voluntary Sexual or Intimacy Bonuses, Perks, and/or Freebies.
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Freezin, I agree with you, there must be a lot of people who are A+ clients and who do not get any extras. I got some extras (phone #, going out to a club etc), but just because I wanted that and had such goal. But, then at some point I used to call escorts because I wanted to forget one girl and instead of calling her over an over, I preferred to call escorts instead to release the pressure 
Calling once in a couple of weeks without a positive outcome I consider as calling over and over Well, at that point none of escorts interested me personally and I never had any extras at all. The only extraordinary thing at that time I remember was that I had invitation to go together to Dominican republic, but I wasn't interested. That was from a 250$ escort. When I started to feel better months later, I decided to get in touch with that girl, but it was just too late that girl wasn't single anymore by that time and she wasn't interested. Still we went out with her a couple of times (for free of course, and she paid drinks
I'm personally after facial beauty, beautiful eyes etc... and that girl that cracked my heart had some of the most beautiful eyes (for example, adriana lima has beautiful face and eyes). I read merb searching for 10+ looking SP (face and body), and tried them and every time I was WTF ppl talk about... that SP is very pretty girl, she could have been one of the most beautiful girls in her high school class only, but she almost certainly won't be in the top 10 girls on a single night in opera club/koko/mumba or some other place that attract lots of young chicks. So, when I was out on a search to find some really good looking girl I simply never had any interest in any extras and I never got anything.
Basically, I think ppl that just pay for service and don't try to get extras simply don't get them
Calling once in a couple of weeks without a positive outcome I consider as calling over and over Well, at that point none of escorts interested me personally and I never had any extras at all. The only extraordinary thing at that time I remember was that I had invitation to go together to Dominican republic, but I wasn't interested. That was from a 250$ escort. When I started to feel better months later, I decided to get in touch with that girl, but it was just too late that girl wasn't single anymore by that time and she wasn't interested. Still we went out with her a couple of times (for free of course, and she paid drinks I'm personally after facial beauty, beautiful eyes etc... and that girl that cracked my heart had some of the most beautiful eyes (for example, adriana lima has beautiful face and eyes). I read merb searching for 10+ looking SP (face and body), and tried them and every time I was WTF ppl talk about... that SP is very pretty girl, she could have been one of the most beautiful girls in her high school class only, but she almost certainly won't be in the top 10 girls on a single night in opera club/koko/mumba or some other place that attract lots of young chicks. So, when I was out on a search to find some really good looking girl I simply never had any interest in any extras and I never got anything.
Basically, I think ppl that just pay for service and don't try to get extras simply don't get them
At that time, based on the reviews there was basically one girl that most likely would reach my expectations; but I've never had the chance to meet her. Most of the polls of that time indicated that she was best looking overall. I'm talking about Karyna from eleganza. Once, way before I started to go out with that girl that I fell in love with, when one my friend met her (she worked in a club/restaurant as a waitress), he said something like: "Wow, she really looks like a strawberry and everything around looks like trash" (that was a shitty club full of kids). And that had happened like 2-3 years before I first went for a date with her. Most of the SPs that get 9-10 for looks would never grab much attention in public place if dressed casually. (Did you see girls from, for example, Solid Gold leaving to home? Most of them aren't noticeable in the crowd at all!)
Second example that I think have similar analogy: after driving a car for 5 years, once I totaled it and had to ride metro for a while. It kind of felt awkward, uncomfortable. It was like I lost a leg and wasn't mobile anymore (very often I take rides on weekends to NY, toronto, ottawa, beaches with friends etc). Taxi+metro just cannot replace it anymore and you don't care if they can get you extras (either if the cab driver will drive you for free or if the metro train will have a couch with a tv inside).
When you have such expectations and don't care much you just don't get any extras... but when you joke, make overall encounter as a memorable experience there is a very good chance that you will get extras without even asking for them. When on 2nd or 3rd encounter a girls literally screams and jumps on you when she sees you again, that's I think is the the best bonus for me, the rest you can always buy
Second example that I think have similar analogy: after driving a car for 5 years, once I totaled it and had to ride metro for a while. It kind of felt awkward, uncomfortable. It was like I lost a leg and wasn't mobile anymore (very often I take rides on weekends to NY, toronto, ottawa, beaches with friends etc). Taxi+metro just cannot replace it anymore and you don't care if they can get you extras (either if the cab driver will drive you for free or if the metro train will have a couch with a tv inside).
When you have such expectations and don't care much you just don't get any extras... but when you joke, make overall encounter as a memorable experience there is a very good chance that you will get extras without even asking for them. When on 2nd or 3rd encounter a girls literally screams and jumps on you when she sees you again, that's I think is the the best bonus for me, the rest you can always buy
If you are talking extra time, cim or greek (more rarely) as being extras I would say you are wrong, it happens frequently. Particularly with HDH indy's. In the old days it happened a lot with most of the FKS girls.
Now granted extra time wasn't all marathon fuckfests and was more often than not discussions about some topic of monumental importance at the time while you finished the bottle(s) of wine. Listening to music and sipping wine naked with a beautiful girl may not be everyone's definition of an extra but it sure beats watching Sports Centre after a Leafs game.
Tough to tell what is an "extra" from a menu standpoint as it is difficult to tell what is "normal" once you get beyond the standard gfe.
This is probably true. A 7 in stockings and heals could be a 9 easy.
The rest you can buy anyway...Ahhh this is so true. I think this is the "take home" here. We are all paying. So what if you have to pay a little more. You still get it.
Hello all,
Got back from Montreal recently and had three meetings. The first with a familiar lady. No intimacy bonuses, perks, and/or freebies here, unless you consider the craziest non-stop sex at least 80% of the time a bonus. The next lady: a total sex bomb with an incredibly playful personality, smoldering beauty, and a fantasy goddess body. More PSE than GFE, but no real intimacy bonuses, perks, and/or freebies here. The last lady: sweet, charming, darling, awesome. Ahhhhh, no hints specifically...but...there was something in the intimacy bonuses, perks, and/or freebies categories offered. I was only at a 3-star hotel, just had a nice bottle of wine, and I did not make any special offer or ask for anything more than expected. Yet, there it is. If I could vote again I wouldn't add anything new. Just noting getting extras doesn't really take much more than approaching the meeting with common sense in behavior and hygiene.
Of course, of you want to impress the ladies with extravagance you a really just paying for more than expected anyway.
Cheers,
Merlot
Got back from Montreal recently and had three meetings. The first with a familiar lady. No intimacy bonuses, perks, and/or freebies here, unless you consider the craziest non-stop sex at least 80% of the time a bonus. The next lady: a total sex bomb with an incredibly playful personality, smoldering beauty, and a fantasy goddess body. More PSE than GFE, but no real intimacy bonuses, perks, and/or freebies here. The last lady: sweet, charming, darling, awesome. Ahhhhh, no hints specifically...but...there was something in the intimacy bonuses, perks, and/or freebies categories offered. I was only at a 3-star hotel, just had a nice bottle of wine, and I did not make any special offer or ask for anything more than expected. Yet, there it is. If I could vote again I wouldn't add anything new. Just noting getting extras doesn't really take much more than approaching the meeting with common sense in behavior and hygiene.
Of course, of you want to impress the ladies with extravagance you a really just paying for more than expected anyway.
Cheers,
Merlot
Very intersting poll, too bad I just noticed it today. What makes me scared is the number of people who have been offered/ obtained BBFS... Have these 15 people all OBTAINED and participated in the BBFS?
Now, as these numbers resemble previous polls' numers, I can't help to think: we have these threads were people are all offended at the thought of a client trying/ asking for BBFS, but here we have 15 people being offered or obtaining BBFS with an escort... I don't know what to think...
Now, as these numbers resemble previous polls' numers, I can't help to think: we have these threads were people are all offended at the thought of a client trying/ asking for BBFS, but here we have 15 people being offered or obtaining BBFS with an escort...
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