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hob12

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I think its normal that you were annoyed. It's a human reaction and you just drove across an international border for this. That's why I feel so lucky as a local when such things happen.

But there isn't really a point to be served by telling her that you were indeed disappointed. She says she is in no condition to provide the service? Well that's it.

I don't know if those sentences are verbatim what she typed but she seems also quite dramatical. Maybe in the end you dodged a bullet.
 

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Let's also tell things the way they are: I may be wrong, but there are a lot more late cancellations in this business than in any other business I know of.
 
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hob12

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I've been hobbying for a year and had quite a few encounters since.

I only cancelled once and I got cancelled maybe 3 times total.

Purely anecdotical, but its not that bad really.

I do only deal with agencies (and then, mostly one) so far.
 

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It's always, to say the least, "entertaining" to see how some can't read simple phrases. She was not SICK, she had an ACCIDENT and hurt herself, period. Be it true or not is beside the point.

Oh my I got my car wet ,,, my shoes got dirty ,,, I missed my Mickey Mouse movie ,,, I traveled so long and bad conditions. Seriously!

So much drama for a missed rendez-vous. Where's your plan B, your resilience or at the very least your maturity?

Think about it 2 seconds, all this frustration can be "healed" by whipping out junior and wanking off a quick rub and tug.

Thar ya go sport, out cums tha frustration juice. Prablum sawlved.

Shit happens. If such a small thing rattles your nerves you're going to find life extremely challenging, good luck.
 
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Fradi

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It's always, to say the least, "entertaining" to see how some can't read simple phrases. She was not SICK, she had an ACCIDENT and hurt herself, period. Be it true or not is beside the point.

Oh my I got my car wet ,,, my shoes got dirty ,,, I missed my Mickey Mouse movie ,,, I traveled so long and bad conditions. Seriously!

So much drama for a missed rendez-vous. Where's your plan B, your resilience or at the very least your maturity?

Think about it 2 seconds, all this frustration can be "healed" by whipping out junior and wanking off a quick rub and tug.

Thar ya go sport, out cums tha frustration juice. Prablum sawlved.

Shit happens. If such a small thing rattles your nerves you're going to find life extremely challenging, good luck.
I am glad you have such an amazing relationship with your limbs in case of emergency situations
Do you have a favourite?
 
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I am glad you have such an amazing relationship with your limbs in case of emergency situations
Do you have a favourite?
I often find great satisfaction in blowing my nose.
 

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Good example of why I never book indies. When you book with an agency, you can almost always get a backup girl if something goes wrong. Sometimes the backup girl turns out to be great.
 

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Good example of why I never book indies. When you book with an agency, you can almost always get a backup girl if something goes wrong. Sometimes the backup girl turns out to be great.
If you are local it is not a problem even if something happens you can reschedule for another day especially when you know the lady well and you are retired with no work schedule.
 

Gazoo64

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Same for me. I started seeing Indy’s lately, and I haven’t had a cancellation yet.
I’m a local with a flexible schedule, so if ever there is a cancellation, we’ll just reschedule for another day!
 
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This thread- in particular, the scheduling aspect of things- reminds me of the single craziest thing I ever did in this hobby, this back on a Saturday in January of 2014. Specifically January 18, 2014- I only remember the date because of a basketball game played on that date.

At the time, Good Girls was still in business, and they had a downtown incall. They had a girl working whom I had met at the Good Girls party that happened in October 2013. I really wanted to see her. I do not think she was particularly reliable, and her rep on service was not great, but she was super hot and I wanted to meet her. James, now King of Euphoria the past 9 years, was still a booker at GG at the time, and Mike was still the man in charge of GG.

That one day, I drove 6 plus hours from Connecticut to Montreal, saw the girl, drove 6 hours back to Connecticut, and caught the second half of the UConn basketball game that night (that UConn team won the 4th of their 6th national championships that year). It was objectively insane, because a lot of things had to go right, not the least of which was the weather, which is sometimes unpredictable especially going through the Vermont mountains.

My schedule on January 18, 2014 was like this:

5:00 a.m. - wake up in CT
5:15 am- on the road
11:30 am- arrive in Montreal and park in a lot I think on St. Laurent- (my cousin had told me exactly where to park, although he did not know why I needed to or when)
12:00 noon lunch at a sports bar near GG incall- I recall the waitress was totally smoking hot- was an English speaking girl
12:45 I arrive at incall, I think appointment was at that time
1:45 pm leave incall
2:15 p.m. on the road back to CT
8:00 p.m. Game time UConn-Louisville in Storrs, CT (I figured out the date by looking at UConn's 2013-2014 schedule)
8:45 pm arrive home to watch end of 1st half of game
9 to 10 pm - watch second half of UConn game, which ends in a loss to Louisville, defending 2013 national champion
April 2014 - UConn wins national championship

What stands out in my mind from that day are 3 things, (1) the hot waitress at the sports bar, who I had a nice chat with, and later regretted not even trying to get her number, or coming back there to see her; (2) the incall date, which was a dud, the girl was very hot but a dud on service; (3) the disappointing nature of the UConn loss, as it was a big game, they were at home, they had already beaten the #1 team in the nation (Florida) at home, and hopes were high, but they laid an egg that night, something they rarely ever do in Storrs.

In looking back at my 15 or 16 years of actively seeing escorts in Montreal, from 2002 to 2017, that was the peak of the craziness. It's something I never did before or since, and looking back at it now, it was really nuts. Crazy. Insane. Stupid. Just a huge, unwarranted risk. I would have been better off staying home. But I lived to tell about it.
 
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like others have pointed out in this thread, the excuse for cancelling is not important, there is nothing you can do about it but move on.

i am surprised one would put all their hopes in one provider and drive 4 hrs (2hrs each way plus a border crossing, dont beleive 1.5 hrs from NH) without booking a hotel for a night and having a plan b, c, d and e...

@CenterofNH there are tons of massage parlours in town where you can walk in without appointment. No risk of last minute disappointment there. And wiith your USD you can sample multiple places relatively cheaply with 30 min appts.
 

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i am surprised one would put all their hopes in one provider and drive 4 hrs (2hrs each way plus a border crossing, dont beleive 1.5 hrs from NH) without booking a hotel for a night and having a plan b, c, d and e...
Exactly, the lack of plans b, c, and d are stunning- and the annoyance should be with himself for not making them. Stuff always happens and appointments can get cancelled. Lack of planning always means you are left holding your dick.....
 

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These last couple of posts sum things up pretty well, imo. No way would I travel that far, have a border crossing and not be booked into a hotel and somewhat prepared (at least mentally). Too many things can happen from both sides that are out of our control.
I do think the conversation and exchange did get a little overly dramatic but I'm not in these people's shoes at the moment. Emotions maybe a little on edge from both sides. I would likely be miffed too but would just chalk it up to bad luck or whatever, say goodbye and move on. I doubt that I would spend much time thinking about it. As someone mentioned, cancelling last minute due to unforeseen circumstance is different than ghosting. I'm not defending either side as I am not all knowing. Just thinking it's sometimes better to not be too emotional, despite what others do. Difficult to do at times, I understand that.
 

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I understand why you felt so upset after having travelled this far and I'm sorry this happened!

However, providers are human beings, sometimes we get sick, sometimes we get hurt, sometimes bad things happen and the appointment has to be cancelled.. I've only had to cancel appointments a few times, it hasn't happened since last winter.. and when it did, it was because I was really sick or an emergency situation left me with no choice. I made sure to cancel the day before or hours in advance at least. Nobody wants to cancel, we know it reflects on our reputation as a provider and most of us want our clients to be pleased. If a person can't receive you in optimal conditions, your time with them won't be as enjoyable as it could be.
 

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There is nothing wrong with expressing you are disappointed things didn't work out, and you were looking forward to seeing her. In her pain she may have interpreted it as offensive, from expieriences in the past.
I have seen others express disappointment in worse ways, and with worse words used. Your words didn't seem guilting to me, and found her reaction rather defensive. My guess it had been a bad day for her over all, and pain brought out her worst. Her reaction seems she may likely have been disappointed things didn't work out too, as she wouldn't have bit back at the thought you won't try to see her again.
As others suggested maybe having a plan b might be an option, but I would suggest being sure the plan b is one that you prepare after the cancelation if you go threw it again. Tou don't want to be the one canceling on someone else if plan a does work out.
 

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God damn it.

I've been complaining for a year about this sort of stuff happening.

It just happened again. This is the 5th time this past year. I got to Montreal this afternoon for a 6PM 3 hour appointment and she suddenly stopped responding (regular, multiple repeats, this is her 2nd time doing this)
 

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God damn it.

I've been complaining for a year about this sort of stuff happening.

It just happened again. This is the 5th time this past year. I got to Montreal this afternoon for a 6PM 3 hour appointment and she suddenly stopped responding (regular, multiple repeats, this is her 2nd time doing this)

Can I ask why you’re driving to another city, sometimes very far from your home, without a back up plan?

I wouldn’t even plan a date in a coffee shop without a back up plan in case it’s too packed.
 
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