Way of living

[Gungrir]

Thanks guys for all your answer. I will definitely take your advices and invest in myself. I crunched some numbers and realize that I spend over 2k in October and a total of 10300 this year (including the 2k from October). At this point, i need some help lol. Hopefully, I won't relapse. OVER 9000! this year and 5k last year. When I think of the possible investments or savings, it kills me lol. I will dial it down to every 2 weeks and then every month to rarely/never hopefully.

 

[hornylouis]

That's actually reasonable spending if you ask me... I pace myself to once/twice a week so I spend roughly a similar amount. As for the savings/investments argument, 10k + compound interest over 30 years might make a difference. But like a buddy told me. Investment is like a tree, it'll always grow. You just need to plant the seeds. So no point in thinking of the "what ifs". What matters is your decision to plant the seeds some day.

 

[Valcazar]

I am pretty sure JFT2 and I don't often agree on a lot, but "success with women is subjective" is something I will co-sign on.

Now, as far as the original poster - if you don't like what is going on with your sex life and women, that's still true, because your subjective view is important to you. So all power to you figuring out something that works for your peace of mind.