We can do better as men.

[Lolipopesun]

It ain’t that deep fam… at the end of the day it’s a service. If I pay for a service I need to be entertained. The customer is king.

My biggest pet peeve is when things are taken for granted. It’s not because there’s some pussy that ‘oh wow she’s an eternal goddess I need to worship’. Some of y’all borderline sound like any pussy is the highest silk from the Andalusian spiritual mountain

Just basic decency, respect as a human is good. It’s like I go to the restaurant I’m polite and nice with my waitress but I’m a customer and expect to be serviced properly

 

[DouMan]

It ain’t that deep fam… at the end of the day it’s a service. If I pay for a service I need to be entertained. The customer is king.

My biggest pet peeve is when things are taken for granted. It’s not because there’s some pussy that ‘oh wow she’s an eternal goddess I need to worship’. Some of y’all borderline sound like any pussy is the highest silk from the Andalusian spiritual mountain

Just basic decency, respect as a human is good. It’s like I go to the restaurant I’m polite and nice with my waitress but I’m a customer and expect to be serviced properly

The customer is king einnn, depends. The customer must at least know if what he expects is on the menu beforehand.

Riding on your analogy if we go to a restaurant and expect scallops, we must at the very least verify if they serve them. If not, no need to criticize the establishment since it's our bad, not theirs.

 

[Petit prince]

To be a top-tier or elite client in this industry, follow these guidelines:


1. Book early: Schedule your appointment 24 to 48 hours in advance.


2. Arrive prepared: Be clean, freshly showered, and have payment ready.


3. Be punctual: Show up on time for your appointment.


4. Engage in conversation: Take at least 5 minutes to chat and build rapport.


5. Shower if requested: Even if you showered an hour ago, take another quick shower (longer than a minute) to ensure freshness. A rushed shower can be a turn-off.


6. Bring thoughtful extras: Items like wine or a portable speaker can enhance the experience.


7. Keep emotions in check: Avoid developing romantic feelings.


8. Focus on the moment: Don’t discuss other clients; enjoy your time together.


9. Communicate boundaries: Clearly discuss what’s acceptable and what’s not.


10. Respect privacy: Don’t ask for personal contact information.


11. Seek feedback for first bookings: Ask for advice on how to make future visits more comfortable for both parties.


12. Respect time limits: Leave on time and avoid rushing in the last 5 minutes.


13. Avoid referencing review boards: Don’t mention platforms like MERB or discuss unrelated topics; stay present.


14. Focus on your experience: Don’t prioritize her pleasure over yours. Respect her boundaries while enjoying your time.


15. Be discreet when leaving: Don’t linger outside or use your phone near the door—it’s awkward and obvious.


For longer bookings: Consider going to a restaurant or bringing food. Everyone loves food, but check if she has dietary preferences (e.g., watching carbs).


By following these tips, you’ll be a respectful and memorable client. Providers will enjoy their work more, and you’ll foster mutual respect, understanding that this is their profession.

 

[urquell]

To be a top-tier or elite client in this industry

I should have known better than to have been drinking ginger ale when reading the board, because it all came spewing out of my nose when I read this.

Let's try to summarize this into something more manageable for the average (or even elite!) client.

1) Discuss your expectations beforehand, use courtesy and common sense always.
2) bring a fat wallet.

That should pretty much do it.

 

[luxurystacy]

To be a top-tier or elite client in this industry, follow these guidelines:


1. Book early: Schedule your appointment 24 to 48 hours in advance.


2. Arrive prepared: Be clean, freshly showered, and have payment ready.


3. Be punctual: Show up on time for your appointment.


4. Engage in conversation: Take at least 5 minutes to chat and build rapport.


5. Shower if requested: Even if you showered an hour ago, take another quick shower (longer than a minute) to ensure freshness. A rushed shower can be a turn-off.


6. Bring thoughtful extras: Items like wine or a portable speaker can enhance the experience.


7. Keep emotions in check: Avoid developing romantic feelings.


8. Focus on the moment: Don’t discuss other clients; enjoy your time together.


9. Communicate boundaries: Clearly discuss what’s acceptable and what’s not.


10. Respect privacy: Don’t ask for personal contact information.


11. Seek feedback for first bookings: Ask for advice on how to make future visits more comfortable for both parties.


12. Respect time limits: Leave on time and avoid rushing in the last 5 minutes.


13. Avoid referencing review boards: Don’t mention platforms like MERB or discuss unrelated topics; stay present.


14. Focus on your experience: Don’t prioritize her pleasure over yours. Respect her boundaries while enjoying your time.


15. Be discreet when leaving: Don’t linger outside or use your phone near the door—it’s awkward and obvious.


For longer bookings: Consider going to a restaurant or bringing food. Everyone loves food, but check if she has dietary preferences (e.g., watching carbs).


By following these tips, you’ll be a respectful and memorable client. Providers will enjoy their work more, and you’ll foster mutual respect, understanding that this is their profession.

I want to like this 100 times ! Thank you. If you want a A1 SP (hygiene, look and service), be a A1 client. Im not difficult. Take a shower and brush your teeth before I arrive, be respectful and respect boundaries. Have a clean towel for me to shower at the end too.I like drinks (especially wine haha) too but it's not required. Thats it. Im gonna be really happy

 

[Mailloche]

I should have known better than to have been drinking ginger ale when reading the board, because it all came spewing out of my nose when I read this.

Let's try to summarize this into something more manageable for the average (or even elite!) client.

1) Discuss your expectations beforehand, use courtesy and common sense always.
2) bring a fat wallet.

That should pretty much do it.

It's like any business, if i check the restaurant menu and don't like it i go to the next one. There is 1000 restaurants easy access in 5 min. My time is precious her time is get in do your things get out life is simple. If we pay for pussies is because we don't want to deal with probably 3/4 of that list.

 

[Lolipopesun]

It's like any business, if i check the restaurant menu and don't like it i go to the next one. There is 1000 restaurants easy access in 5 min. My time is precious her time is get in do your things get out life is simple. If we pay for pussies is because we don't want to deal with probably 3/4 of that list.

Well said!

 

[terrybogard88]

Remember money can get her in. But money wont make that time together great. Something more complicated than cash WILL make that time great. to keep that Restaurant example, even if a restaurant checks all your preferences, something above cash will make the experience great over there, starting with how you behave as a Client. It s not rules to emprison us or to make things difficults. I see it as just some friendly tips to make stuff GREAT and fucking crazy awesome

 

[Mailloche]

Well said!

I'd like to add, i'm not paying in exchange for sex, i'm paying to make the girl leave after sex. Simple as that.

 

[hob12]

I'd like to add, i'm not paying in exchange for sex, i'm paying to make the girl leave after sex. Simple as that.

So you're saying you don't do incalls?

 

[philonius]

Sps as they read this thread:

Went from "here's some basic common courtesy you should provide to a human being" to "I pay for the vagina, not the flesh bag it's attached to" real quick. Oof.

 

[LeDodo]

Sps as they read this thread:
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Went from "here's some basic common courtesy you should provide to a human being" to "I pay for the vagina, not the flesh bag it's attached to" real quick. Oof.

@Jebmtl has left the chat

 

[Jebmtl]

@Jebmtl has left the chat

I’m still here patiently listening to what everyone opinions and comments

 

[maymay]

I will agree that some men are idiots, having me a few really amazing SP bonding with them and they told me there horror stories, like some men who slap them in the face.... honest to god what women actually like to be slapped in the face, or they are frustarted and are mean to the SP etc.

Will the SP provide you with a better service if you are nice, probably, but you will still get bad encounters with SP who are stoned, under the infulence, rush the service, are very mechanical etc.

But in the end being mean brings nothing good.

 

[Mailloche]

I been reading your posts. I really want my woman to be happy with their work. If women are contacting me it’s because they feel free to express themselves and trust me. They confess their darkest secrets/moments freely. So you can imagine the relationship I have with women not to brag but I’m kind and gentle and my experiences are intense passionate and pleasurable. I have sex for long sessions so it can be done and my women enjoy the session. I’ve been told many times when they are with me they’re not working. They don’t watch the clock. I’m having a lot of fun. I’ve been told that I should be a porn actor or male escort for women. Not interested. But I treat them with the highest respect. But this behaviour of a small group of men has to stop. They are fucking it up for everyone. I have 2 women that are serious thinking of leaving business. I love these women we have experienced amazing times together. I’m sure many of you have been with women that you want to see as much as possible and then imagine one day they are gone wouldn’t that suck? I’m not shaming anyone but think of your actions there’s no girl that can do anal for 45 minutes or bj for one hour but if she knows you, how you are inside and out. You be surprised what she will give you freely. I’ll share an example when women find out that I’m coming for an appointment. I get flowers, dessert and gifts from them. They open the door smiling and jumping for joy. Jumping on me hugging and kissing me as I walk in. Wouldn’t you want to be treated like a king. Maybe I’m different. Maybe it’s all the bad clients that make my experiences better. At the moment I feel I need to be papa bear and protect my cubs.

Yeah they just want your money... Don't create yourself a rainbow world here, it's a business and business is all about money. If the money was not in the equation sp's won't exist. Sp's are like the sales rep trying to sell you something and make you want to come back, this is marketing and part of selling something. They study their costumers and adapt to each one, they will tell them what they want to ear and they will do what they dream about. If one guy like certains things they will give it to them, some guys need to talk they will talk. All they want is make you feel good and important in exchange of money. It is a fantasy business. Until your sp introduce you to their mom and dad you still doing business nothing else. The sales rep might do little extras like bring you to lunch but probably after buying ALOT from him. Just think about it. Btw money and power don't rule the world, pussies does if you control pussies you control the world.

 

[Rebaynia]

If this is shown to be a nasty sort of business dealing with nasty sorts of people, then you won't attract the new younger and fresh providers you want. You will only continue to chase away the ones that remain, while the new younger ones choose to stay safely out of reach and on a screen instead of as a live option.

Making the business a less scary and distasteful option from such dehumanizing manners and thoughts.

We aren't forced into this, we choose it, just as we can choose not to be part of it. People with views like the OP have a point. I will choose a single hour with one of my favorites than ever accept a 3 hr with someone who I don't like or want to spend time with. I often refuse people I would not be compatible with. It isn't just about money. We look to make our work something that can keep us going. And shitty encounters only lead to burnout and another SP who disappeares from the scene.

Poor behavior by either men or women, SPs or clients, there are consequences. One of those consequences is the SP you want to see avoiding you, because they didn't like you. Just as your reaction is to not call an SP back you did not enjoy either.

You don't have to be a white knight, or go above and beyond, we are not your wife who gets mad at you for forgetting your anniversary again. But common courtesy, and kindness goes a long way to making the difference between getting to see someone you like again, or not.

We also very much do appreciate the lovlies who do enjoy sharing their desire to display a little extra something, whatever that may be, that brings a smile to the SPs they choose to share much of their intimate time with.
Yes money is involved, but our interactions are not just money. There are different kinds of relationships that form within the framework of SW.

 

[jeffmathers]

I want to like this 100 times ! Thank you. If you want a A1 SP (hygiene, look and service), be a A1 client. Im not difficult. Take a shower and brush your teeth before I arrive, be respectful and respect boundaries. Have a clean towel for me to shower at the end too.I like drinks (especially wine haha) too but it's not required. Thats it. Im gonna be really happy

What sort of social dates would you like?

 

[Enjoying life]

I want to like this 100 times ! Thank you. If you want a A1 SP (hygiene, look and service), be a A1 client. Im not difficult. Take a shower and brush your teeth before I arrive, be respectful and respect boundaries. Have a clean towel for me to shower at the end too.I like drinks (especially wine haha) too but it's not required. Thats it. Im gonna be really happy

You are too easy to please Stacy! A client should give his best which I do! I’ll teach you even some guitar chords as well! When I get a chance!

 

[luxurystacy]

Yeah they just want your money... Don't create yourself a rainbow world here, it's a business and business is all about money. If the money was not in the equation sp's won't exist. Sp's are like the sales rep trying to sell you something and make you want to come back, this is marketing and part of selling something. They study their costumers and adapt to each one, they will tell them what they want to ear and they will do what they dream about. If one guy like certains things they will give it to them, some guys need to talk they will talk. All they want is make you feel good and important in exchange of money. It is a fantasy business. Until your sp introduce you to their mom and dad you still doing business nothing else. The sales rep might do little extras like bring you to lunch but probably after buying ALOT from him. Just think about it. Btw money and power don't rule the world, pussies does if you control pussies you control the world.

I dreaming about the day when clients will stop talking for us like they are the providers. Yes it's a job, a service that you pay money for. However, like Rebaynia says, it totally not all about the money. I refuse to repeat with some clients. Not necessarily because they disrespected me or else; it can be because I just didnt like them and their opinions. Ive been offer multiple time BIG BIG amount of money to do certain things : anal, rimming, pee stuff etc. I could have just done these (even only 1 time) to make a lot of money but I didnt. So no, I won't necessarily do what they dream about just for money.

Im not gonna tell them everything they want to hear and be fake either. My regular and long-term clients are not on merb but if some of my clients are here, they will confirm this about me 100%.

Also, I became friends (yes friends for real) with some of them over the years. We know everything about each other. I care for them deeply. Im still in contact with a client/friend who move away (other continent) 2 years ago. I will probably never see him ever again but we still give each other updates about our lifes.

 

[luxurystacy]

What sort of social dates would you like?

If it's the first time meeting, restaurant I like good food and wine and its great to get to know someone! If we get along well Im up too a bunch of things : Bowling,mini-putt.wine tasting,ice skating, karting,shopping,arcades,spa and weekend trips/travelling.