I am not a DATY guy so i can't really know. But otherwise yes some SPs are better than others. I had some that made me think (at least in the spur of the moment) that she was in love with me and gave her soul and body to me (im exagerating a bit, but you get what i mean). Like she was really into me. Of course once the meeting is over i get back to reality. But those sessions are the best. If im booking for GFE this is the type of stuff i like the most. I am not a fan of the overly vocal stuff tough, like fake pornstar yelling. Its not gonna "take me out of it" but i just don't care. If its an outcall in an hotel room i would even say it annoy me because especially where i used to receive, that place didn't had the best sound isolation. Im not saying i don't like a PSE type of session, but im strickly talking the screaming that would be over the top.
As for SPs not being into it, well i mentioned this a few times (but it stuck in my mind i guess), one time an SP who was physically very attractive was cowgirl on top of me and i could see her looking at the ceiling, chewing her gum, and she litterally looked like she was phased out of it, like she was thinking what she was gonna make for dinner that day. Almost a "starfish" kinda situation but with her on top. It was not enough to make me go out of it, but obviously it was not in my top meetings. In those situations i just tell myself "dude you still banging a hot chick, a type of chick you tought you would never be able to bang when you were 20, just enjoy".
Whats gonna make me go out of it (or ill have issues getting hard and such) is more a matter of "behaviors" outside of the sex itself. I mean if she look bored or not into me while we do it, i get it, im not an attractive guy, maybe she ain't super suited to do this job but needed the money, and im not gonna hold it too much against her. Some SPs are better actors than others, some may be more into the job and don't care for physical appearance, but not everyone is the same. What do take me out of it is the rest. Like if she is rude, or if she is on drug and overly "speeded", or drunk and too "gorlo" as we say in Quebecois... or something like that. Or if there is an issue like not wanting to provide GFE when GFE is suppose to be provided. Granted i am a "play safe" client in general so its a rare occurence but sometimes you know its that time where i am to go in Montreal and some super hot new girl pop in an agency and her pics are just too wow so i don't have time to wait for reviews or whatever and i just do a TOFTT. This could happen.
So yeah its a lot depending on the situation. But overall like i said above ... When i was 20 years old (or heck even a teenager) i didn't knew this world existed. I knew prostitution did exist but all i knew was that shady stuff you see in movies or the street walker side Basically i didn't expect to enter this business as a client, as a small town guy who at the time barely ever got to Montreal. I had been a few times with school or familly but by myself it took around like 2007 or so before i attended my first concert in a big city. I was then 22. Add a few more years til i discovered Merb (and the rest is history) but yeah basically in latte 2006/early 2007, i was playing Xbox 360 morning to evening, and thats all i knew. I had already resigned myself to stay single all my life, not have kids, and just fap to porn (that was around the time Brazzers started or got more mainstream and porn became very accessible).
20 years later well... most of that is still true (lol) but at least i can look back and say i had sex with around 100 super hot women and did the vast majority of my fantasies. Cim, COF, SW, Greek, and even a few more kinky ones i didn't expect. Its not too bad in retrospec. Obviously if you took me back to my early 20s today, obviously i would do A LOT of things differently. But thats life... you only have one, can't rewind and can't respawn... Im at least at peace with myself.
Dang sorry i got a bit overboard on the self reflecting bit here but heck i still think its tied to the subject. Aka im just happy to look back and know i was with all these hot women. So if a few looked bored or out of it. Whatever
