I am curious about the best gift to give a SP.
I would love to hear from other Merbs and SPs on the topic.
I would love to hear from other Merbs and SPs on the topic.
What are the best gifts to give a SP?
- Thread starter Mandouke
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Respect. This goes for everything, boundaries, rates, restrictions, and of course their privacy.
And of course, you can go the old fashion way, flowers, chocolates, food and not to forget, jewelry.
And of course, you can go the old fashion way, flowers, chocolates, food and not to forget, jewelry.
Money will always be the best gift you can give a SP.
Second would be something on their wishlist.
Don’t gift them something that YOU think they would like unless you know them VERY well.
Second would be something on their wishlist.
Don’t gift them something that YOU think they would like unless you know them VERY well.
Of course I wouldn’t guess but being careful about what she likes help a lot.
I never met Julia but she told once she was a foodie type. I would go for some treat.
I barely known my new favorite and I nailed with her birthday gift. She loves outdoor activities so I found something really special to wear. Luckily, colors were matching one of her kit. She took it out to show me as she was so happy.
I sometimes handcraft cards with some poetry or I sometimes draw funny pics. A classic one I do during Easter, I draw myself cracking to get out of an egg with the mention: « Je craque pour toi! ». As you did some efforts in order to please, it is always appreciated.
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Lube,( a friends suggestion
) condoms, instructional manual and guide, strap-on, butt plug, nipple clamps, first edition of Kamasutra on how to please your woman(of course read by you first), and of course whip cream.
Did i leave anything out? I am sure someone(LC or JS) can come up with some more interesting items.
) condoms, instructional manual and guide, strap-on, butt plug, nipple clamps, first edition of Kamasutra on how to please your woman(of course read by you first), and of course whip cream.Did i leave anything out? I am sure someone(LC or JS) can come up with some more interesting items.
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I would personally absolutely dislike receiving sex toys or lube. Especially lube, not all lube is good for my kitty.
I don’t like chocolate and I receive a lot of that too.
Flowers aren’t always practical, especially on a tour or if the SP came on a bike.
A few people have read my website and surprise me with things I like, it’s even more surprising because im thinking Someone actually read my website
I don’t like chocolate and I receive a lot of that too.
Flowers aren’t always practical, especially on a tour or if the SP came on a bike.
A few people have read my website and surprise me with things I like, it’s even more surprising because im thinking Someone actually read my website
@Mandouke, you can gift her this table so she can expand her client base and fulfill your fantasies.
I agree, but its better to have it and not need it.
I have a sweet tooth, so the chocolates are for me.
I understand, but i am a romantic and i like to present them, you can always leave them for the chamber-maids.
As much as i love surprises, i also would like to know who i am encountering, and if i want to have this encounter, reading is very important for these occasions.
Thank you LC for your candor.
Who does that milking table belong to?
Is there a provider I should know about Thane?
That would be a very generous gift, with many dividends of course!
It looks like the headrest is at the wrong end of the table. My dick would be where my tits are on that table.
LMAO, this is what you got from this picture? I just think the picture was stretched out. Or its for aliens(from out space), where their anatomy is a little off.
Now that i look at it again, the tip of my hammer would still make it there. lol.
These are gifts TO her, but FOR you. These are no real gifts.Lube,( a friends suggestion
I disagree. What's the point of having a lube that you don't like and won't use? Waste of money. Lube and condoms aren't a gift. I'd be so disappointed if someone said they have a gift for me and the gift was lube and condoms haha
I understand, but i am a romantic and i like to present them, you can always leave them for the chamber-maids.
The maids probably also think it's not practical. Flowers look beautiful but let's be real, not practical at all. At one point (around V day lol) I had so many flowers I needed 3 big vases and it looked a little ridiculous on my kitchen island hahahah. I love flowers but in practice they're not the best gift.
(And "I understand but I like xyz" brings us back to the fact that a gift isn't a gift if it's given to please you more than the person receiving it haha)
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Bodick you nailed it. Snacks are definitely up there in my list of favorite gifts.
Snacks, anything from my throne wishlist or website gift list, anything for my dog, money, anything handmade and/or personal specific to my personality, art, and gift cards are my favorite gifts.
Well i stand by my first post and that is to respect the ladies at all costs. And the second post was meant more to be amusing and bring a little levity to the thread.
And if you think about it, bringing certain items to an encounter should not always be meant as a gift but a considerate gesture. Gifts are not always necessary but consideration should be.
And if you think about it, bringing certain items to an encounter should not always be meant as a gift but a considerate gesture. Gifts are not always necessary but consideration should be.
Respect isn't a gift. It's (should be) common courtesy. Just my 2 cents.
One time I gave my favorite SP a perfume she always wanted, winter boots and a north face hoodie.
She loved it so much!
She loved it so much!
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For my longer bookings I always bring a white wine and a speaker. That’s the default during the day. At night I like to bring a bottle of vodka + wine + food we both enjoy. This is for the 5h bookings or plus.
Now gift, I bring souvenirs from my travel, shot glasses lol , a bracelet, and for birthdays I tooked the time to paint a frame because I can be an artist lol . The gesture is more important I believe as it comes with the heart
My regulars are the luckily girls in the industry.! Respected, on time, I smell good and feed them lol sometimes at restaurants. And I don’t try to have 5 times sex , probably one time or 2. Just because I can afford this sort of style.
In general my personality and booking style suits with the independents but it’s a shame I only deal with agencies so far as I think independents could suits me better ..
Now gift, I bring souvenirs from my travel, shot glasses lol , a bracelet, and for birthdays I tooked the time to paint a frame because I can be an artist lol . The gesture is more important I believe as it comes with the heart
My regulars are the luckily girls in the industry.! Respected, on time, I smell good and feed them lol sometimes at restaurants. And I don’t try to have 5 times sex , probably one time or 2. Just because I can afford this sort of style.
In general my personality and booking style suits with the independents but it’s a shame I only deal with agencies so far as I think independents could suits me better ..
For my ATF sp I always bring her a little gift of assorted HASH and a few joints and we enjoy the next couple of hours in intimate heat, I usually last about 45 min.slowly banging her, I think she has a tantric pussy, I sometimes fist her she loves it, I never get tired of her I've been seeing her about 8 years, she does not take new clients anymore.
Good that you mention it because just by reading your post, I know some men would have asked for her contact info
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