Unbridled passion. If the first thing that pops into my mind when I wake is the girl I saw the night before and I can`t help but smile....that`s a good sign.
If I`m smiling a week later when I think of our time together that`s an even better sign.
I feel indebted to Cloudy lately, so I quote him. (Indebted to others too.)
What did the OP ask? Our little jewel, our gift? Her title asked about expectations, but then she said:
"what are you hoping to get out of the experience?"
So, my answer:
Expectations -- I try to have none.
But then if I have read what some of you have written, it is hard (sorry...not really a pun) to have low expectations (again, not trying to be punny).
But the immediacy and spontaneity of life are often spoiled by expectations.
So, low expectations....
Hopes? Well, in some sense I always have high hopes. In some ways, my hopes are higher than could ever happen. Mostly a good thing, --- now, with many years, I have become used to it.
Somewhere in between???
In some sense, I want to enjoy my time.
How do I enjoy my time?
One is I love women, at least as a rule. And a charming and/or beautiful woman....is there anything better in life? (Well, bacon, as one beautiful woman said after hearing me exclaim: is there anything was better than sex!)
Everything about woman.
Well, woman and men complain....so, there are some women who complain endlessly....not so much of that (I almost never get that).
Beauty, charm, taste, wit, compassion, humor, insight, wisdom. Yes!
Sex...but sex starts early and ends late. That is, in the simplest case, not just intercourse. Eye contact, flirting, that she wants to play with me, kissing... and lots of words for all the things after the orgasm. All of it!
Passion.
To hear her moan.
Her honesty, genuineness.
To turn her on so much, that despite my imperfections, she wants me or loves me.
The best I guess would be: For her to want me in every way. (Asking rather a lot... women are accepting and grateful and appreciate a real man... If I competed (and it really is not (and is) a competition. But mostly not)...I would not win against the best in each category. Handsome, money, brains, charm....)
To see and love the woman as she really is. Most are quite lovable. Adorable. Maybe as much because of their imperfections.
And many women love being loved. They are most satisfied and grateful. And they give back.
I use the word love.... it is a catch-all for so many things. To some of you, love means one must get married. Or it is reserved for loving your children or your parents. So many types of love, to me.
Friendship, caring, concern, passion, desire....all are colors of love.
To touch hands, look each other in the eye, to wink, to have a deep kiss, and to have some fun... To dive into her. And to cuddle and say thank-you afterward.
I hope, along the way, she looks at me with that startled look of "what have you done to me". And equally, I hope she wants from me and I give her, that startled look of "what have you done to me!".
So many gifts to give (I mean now especially those not commonly thought of as sexual). I accept them all. I value them all. I try to give them all.
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Let me be honest. Usually I have a good time. Sometimes a fantastic time. Sometimes I feel... interesting but, no, the chemistry was not right. Very rarely, I wish I could leave early.
But, all in all, high chances, of at least a good time. And, I think, even for her.
The women in Montreal are fantastic. You guys are blessed and sometimes you give it fair recognition! In general, what wonderful women!!!
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To Mlle Bijou: Did that help answer your question?
