I would have to add passion to my list. Passion as an all-inclusive concept of good (sexual) attitude and being a considerate lover and of course passionate passion as in interest being the most important. And I think that would be the end of my list for now!
C.
I don't like shaved balls.. Well, never experienced in real life but anyway. I love men to be really hairy (that's part of the looks criteria) and not trimmed. Only the face should be shaved for my taste.
As for the passion I actually think you can't measure it easily. It's either there or not. If the man is excited and his heart is beating fast that's what I'm looking for. If he is semi excited? Hmm.. like semi erection? Nah..
*wondering how many people are now looking for chest wigs*
I agree about the passion - if your "dance partner" doesn't make you feel and act like the luckiest person on the planet, then why the heck are you there??
Go full-bore or not at all...