What Is The Proper Discount on a 4 hour Booking?
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STN,
I believe Merlot's comments have added value to the thread. The question I posed does assume that one has met the lady who is being contemplated for a 4 hour dinner meeting, and that chemistry has been pre-determined to exist. As I already noted, I had a 5 hour dinner date in 2007 with a lady I had not met, which was a mistake. I have done a few 3/4 hour dates with ladies I have met, I am guessing about 5 in the past 10 years.
I think the value one places on non-sexual social time is subjective. Merlot probably attaches more minimal value to it than I do, without throwing a number out there.
I believe Merlot's comments have added value to the thread. The question I posed does assume that one has met the lady who is being contemplated for a 4 hour dinner meeting, and that chemistry has been pre-determined to exist. As I already noted, I had a 5 hour dinner date in 2007 with a lady I had not met, which was a mistake. I have done a few 3/4 hour dates with ladies I have met, I am guessing about 5 in the past 10 years.
I think the value one places on non-sexual social time is subjective. Merlot probably attaches more minimal value to it than I do, without throwing a number out there.
L
Lily from Montreal
The longest I agree to meet for a first date is 2hrs...
To meet for longer I need to be sure the chemistry is there and not only the physical one...
I have my favorite of favorites that I see for all day long,once the meeting included lunch ,afternoon ,plus dinner to a quite late hour ,but he is special... loll and yes we didn't take the clock in the equation...
To meet for longer I need to be sure the chemistry is there and not only the physical one...
I have my favorite of favorites that I see for all day long,once the meeting included lunch ,afternoon ,plus dinner to a quite late hour ,but he is special... loll and yes we didn't take the clock in the equation...
EB, If a person knows who he is going with and the SP knows the person ( as you said it assumes one has met the lady ) the comment Rod made has no bearing on the topic.
And to add, since I know no females in Quebec who are single and speak English ( tried the POF thing, really sucked ) and refuse to pay an escort $180.00 an hour to have dinner which would cost between $250 & $400 it would be nice to find an indy which would do an option like this at a reduced rate. The indy I knew years ago was lady Ino who offered these services ( free time during dinner ) it was nice, I met a stripper who offered me a package of 5 hrs for 600 tried that a few of times but GFE was not there. May see Sidney and try to convert her, really want to go to Club et Chasse Pieche ( something like that ) but hate to dine alone.
Hello Guys,
Yeah, my last post was not well written in parts STN. It's been edited.
In the so-called real world I would value non-sexual social time more than sex. After all, if one is serious about finding an SO you've got to connect with that person on a much deeper level other than sexually to make it work. But it does happen that when this is achieved the sex is also much better. So it's a win-win. In this world there is also plenty of time to do that.
With escorts I do like to have a "connection". But the level of that connection is difficult to control and getting too emotionally involved in a by-the-hour relationship is too complicating in a business-based relationship like this hobby. To answer EB, I value the non-sexual very highly normally, but I think it's too risky to do so with escorts so I emphasize the SEX! Ahhhhh, such is the burden.
Okay seriously, it's just wiser. So take the risk, the amount of time restricted by whatever the client can afford (in 95% of cases), and I prefer to have 50% or better of the time being physical. But that is always up to her. I have never given a lady yet an ultimatum that it's time to..."put out or get out". I might...after I decided not to put up with something like that HDH debacle I described elsewhere. But that has not happened again. Is it wiser choices ...luck ....charm ...hmmmm, definitely CHARM.
On point, and with all of the above..."value" is going to be subjective. Attitude and personality factors with either client or escort are unpredictable. But rate scales can be a steady indicator of a positive attitude through a sensible business position.
Cheers,
Merlot
Let me chime in:
I've had dinner with sps a couple of dozen times over the years. I haven't paid anything for the 'dinner' part, but i did pay for her dinner & drinks. Actually, there were several occasions where the girl either paid for my dinner or our drinks. There were also occasions when our entire 'date' did not include any 'intimacy', if you know what i mean. However, when it did include intimacy, the time spent in the bedroom 'for intimacy' was considered a business transaction.
One time, one of Mtl's top sps told me she was somewhat jealous that i had went out for brunch earlier that day with her sister & her best friend (who was also her boss). She told me that she wouldn't mind us getting together for dinner the next time we hooked up (for an encounter). I told her 'no problem' and i'm sure we'd have a great time. Two days later, i contacted her friend (her boss) and told her the young lady had suggested we put time aside for 'dinner' prior to a scheduled encounter. She got back to me and told me she had made a 4-hr 'dinner date' booking. She added she'd also be joining us since she enjoyed spending time with the both of us. She said she'd leave us alone after dinner in order for us to go back to my room for the 'fun' part. I didn't really know how to react & thanked her.
However, the next day, i called her and told her my plans had changed and i no longer had 4 hours of free time on the day of the 'date'. This wasn't true, of course. But i didn't feel right having to pay for 4 hours when i'd only be able to partake in 'intimacy' for about 2 hours. I have no problem paying for sex or services, but i have no interest in paying to watch someone having a great dinner in front of me. I find that paying for that dinner (and drinks) is plenty enough. So i told the girl's boss that i'd see the girl for 'intimacy' for two hours, but to cancel the dinner plans.
When the girl showed up the next day, she expressed her disappointment at the fact i had cancelled our dinner plans. I was truthful to her and explained my reasons. I had never paid anyone to watch having dinner in the past & i wasn't going to start now. I told her that next time, if she wanted, we could do the dinner thing on the side....that i was always willing & available to go out for dinner with a beautiful young woman.
This probably doesn't answer the thread starter's questions, but i felt adding my two cents (and experiences) might be of interest to those looking for ideas.
I've had dinner with sps a couple of dozen times over the years. I haven't paid anything for the 'dinner' part, but i did pay for her dinner & drinks. Actually, there were several occasions where the girl either paid for my dinner or our drinks. There were also occasions when our entire 'date' did not include any 'intimacy', if you know what i mean. However, when it did include intimacy, the time spent in the bedroom 'for intimacy' was considered a business transaction.
One time, one of Mtl's top sps told me she was somewhat jealous that i had went out for brunch earlier that day with her sister & her best friend (who was also her boss). She told me that she wouldn't mind us getting together for dinner the next time we hooked up (for an encounter). I told her 'no problem' and i'm sure we'd have a great time. Two days later, i contacted her friend (her boss) and told her the young lady had suggested we put time aside for 'dinner' prior to a scheduled encounter. She got back to me and told me she had made a 4-hr 'dinner date' booking. She added she'd also be joining us since she enjoyed spending time with the both of us. She said she'd leave us alone after dinner in order for us to go back to my room for the 'fun' part. I didn't really know how to react & thanked her.
However, the next day, i called her and told her my plans had changed and i no longer had 4 hours of free time on the day of the 'date'. This wasn't true, of course. But i didn't feel right having to pay for 4 hours when i'd only be able to partake in 'intimacy' for about 2 hours. I have no problem paying for sex or services, but i have no interest in paying to watch someone having a great dinner in front of me. I find that paying for that dinner (and drinks) is plenty enough. So i told the girl's boss that i'd see the girl for 'intimacy' for two hours, but to cancel the dinner plans.
When the girl showed up the next day, she expressed her disappointment at the fact i had cancelled our dinner plans. I was truthful to her and explained my reasons. I had never paid anyone to watch having dinner in the past & i wasn't going to start now. I told her that next time, if she wanted, we could do the dinner thing on the side....that i was always willing & available to go out for dinner with a beautiful young woman.
This probably doesn't answer the thread starter's questions, but i felt adding my two cents (and experiences) might be of interest to those looking for ideas.
Agree with Merlot an SO has to be a best friend also in the real and world sex is second. And to have a 4 - 6 hr dinner with someone that will total over $1000.00 you have to know that person to make it worthwhile, it would really suck to meet someone for a dinner and half way through the meal think what am I doing here. With the first SP I met we clicked well in conversation and sex was good ( she retired ) and with the stripper conversation was good ( she was funny ) but the lack of any GFE did not work for me, both I met a couple if times before the dinner. There is a girl in Calgary who advertises as a dinner date, single mom who does not get out much and the only cost is the dinner, never took her up on it as it is my home town and know lots of people. Lots of single males in Montreal staying at hotels who would like to see a business like that, do not need the sex ( nice if available ) with someone who is capable to have a good conversation and have some fun.
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