What is the worst experience you ever had with an sp? Where you compensated

[BookerL]

I spoke directly with the owner afterwards. And the girl confirmed what happened. No denying the stains on my bed. I checked out of the hotel early the next day, to get away from the trauma. :faint: A very forgettable experience. :nono:

Like I have said I would of compensated or at least tried to find a comfortable agreement not to loose my Patron .
I have been involve in similar scenario ,I compensated the client over a three girl deal the third one being a freebie for the client ,but all girls received their cut without reduction .
We always have to keep in mind that on calls its the girl that makes most of the money and its the booker that is caught with compensation not to loose is client ,girls come and go .

Dealing with responsible agencies as always been preferable !

Cheers




Booker

 

[envelopes]

Aside from the typical stuff with bait & switch, scammers, and robbers, at least those were girls u didn't know

Recently, I had a very bad encounter with an ATF! It was bad. Never something like this happened before.

While we're doing the action, I notice that she looks like she's about to cry. I immediately stop and ask if she is ok

She starts yelling at me that if she wasn't ok, she would say something, and doesn't need me to ask.

I said ok...... what do you want me to do?

She said "let's just continue and just stop talking to me."

Ok.... the mood is all weird now, but I try to continue. She starts crying.

I immediately stop and said "are u sure u are ok? What's wrong?"

She lost her temper. She said "I'm not your girlfriend I don't even know u, who are u to ask me about my life?". She rants for 2 minutes about how she hates being an SP but she needs to do it...

I don't even know what to say.

I just go shower and left the money on the counter.

When I came out she was just sitting on the floor with an empty stare. After a minute, She finally gets up, showers, and leaves.

I understand this job is hard and some SPs really need to get some mental health care..... Really seemed like she was struggling. I didn't wanna say that to her and get yelled at some more.

I feel bad for her...

This is probably top 3 encounters that made me feel bad about being a hobbyist

 

[Stroker7]

Aside from the typical stuff with bait & switch, scammers, and robbers, at least those were girls u didn't know

Recently, I had a very bad encounter with an ATF! It was bad. Never something like this happened before.

While we're doing the action, I notice that she looks like she's about to cry. I immediately stop and ask if she is ok

She starts yelling at me that if she wasn't ok, she would say something, and doesn't need me to ask.

I said ok...... what do you want me to do?

She said "let's just continue and just stop talking to me."

Ok.... the mood is all weird now, but I try to continue. She starts crying.

I immediately stop and said "are u sure u are ok? What's wrong?"

She lost her temper. She said "I'm not your girlfriend I don't even know u, who are u to ask me about my life?". She rants for 2 minutes about how she hates being an SP but she needs to do it...

I don't even know what to say.

I just go shower and left the money on the counter.

When I came out she was just sitting on the floor with an empty stare. After a minute, She finally gets up, showers, and leaves.

I understand this job is hard and some SPs really need to get some mental health care..... Really seemed like she was struggling. I didn't wanna say that to her and get yelled at some more.

I feel bad for her...

This is probably top 3 encounters that made me feel bad about being a hobbyist

Sorry to hear this happened. I'm curious Envelopes...you never sensed the fact she hated her job as an escort? I thought you handled the situation fine btw. I would have felt sad for her too, but I personally wouldn't feel bad about being a hobbyist. You were simply in the wrong place at the wrong time, unfortunately. Could have happened to anyone of us

 

[envelopes]

Sorry to hear this happened. I'm curious Envelopes...you never sensed the fact she hated her job as an escort? I thought you handled the situation fine btw. I would have felt sad for her too, but I personally wouldn't feel bad about being a hobbyist. You were simply in the wrong place at the wrong time, unfortunately. Could have happened to anyone of us

Yes, she has mentioned it in the past that she was ok with the job, but wanted to be finished soon. Always sounded optimistic about saving $. She talks about it like most SPs do. I never imagined she would have a breakdown like this

 

[kstanb]

my worst was a few years ago, she was kind of a regular, but I guess that night she had taken drugs

long story short, not a great evening, and I never saw her again

 

[Numerati]

envelopes,

Well looks like this is the END with you and this ATF of yours. Don’t know if she has your contact info and can reach out to you. If she does strongly recommend you don’t respond and you need to ghost. You don’t owe her anything.

This is for your sanity and self preservation not to mention your hard earned money. Plus also time you can never get back.

 

[malboro_man]

I made a girl cum 8-10x with oral She passed out for 2-h after that. Wall clock time ran out and she had to go. I haven't cum yet though! She got the full donation nonetheless

 

[tishina]

My worst was a SP who kept taking breaks to check her phone, 'powder her nose' in front of me and got progressively more amped up but not in a sexy way, but in a coked-up, aggressive and complainy way.
It almost prevented my SOG. Almost. She powered through a lengthy BBBJ so I guess it served a purpose.

 

[Skym]

All time worst..for me, it was in Vegas.

At the hotel, the girl told me to take off my clothes, then she went to the bathroom for 5 minutes, then she came out and then took off with my money lol.

For worst experience in montreal, i went to the incall, took my shower, came out to see the girl. We talked for a bit, then she sucked me off for a bit but then for some reason, she just wanted to give me a handjob the whole time lol.

Plus, she acted like she was afraid of dick lol

 

[malboro_man]

She lost her temper. She said "I'm not your girlfriend I don't even know u, who are u to ask me about my life?". She rants for 2 minutes about how she hates being an SP but she needs to do it...

You did what any decent guy would do....Bravo to you....I think it was Emily (2006?) at Eleganza who told me that "she hated her f**king job" as she sucked me. She seemed quite angry. I believe she quit shortly later afterwards. She had good reviews and everything. Like one SP put it, this job is not for everyone and all jobs suck!

 

[DJ_Halfa]

Very interesting thread here that has come back to life. Luckily, the majority of my experiences have been great. This is one situation that did not go so well. I lost out on my deposit, which honestly does not concern me much. I consider my lost time more valuable.

This experience was with an Indy provider in Montreal. I had seen this girl once in the summer before the pandemic started. I really enjoyed the experience and wanted to see her again sometime. I’m from the US so Montreal was off limits for awhile during the pandemic. Once the border opened again last year I made an appointment to see her again in October. She had changed her name from my first meeting with her. I texted her the day before our meeting just to let her know I was in Montreal and looking forward to seeing her again. She replied back saying that is great and I will see you tomorrow. I texted again the next morning to get her incall address. She replied that she has an emergency and cannot make our meeting that day. I made another appointment with her for November. The morning of our meeting I again texted asking for her incall address. I got a reply back from someone saying she was her friend. Her friend told me that she was in the hospital with a medical emergency and had to cancel all her appointments that day. Again I made another appointment with her for March of this year. We messaged the day before and confirmed our meeting for the next day. I texted that morning and she gave me the address for her incall. I walked from my hotel to her location (maybe 15-20 minutes walk). She texted me three minutes before our meeting that she had an emergency and had to cancel our meeting. She told me she would send me a video explaining everything. At this point I was mad about being canceled three times now and the latest one just minutes before our meeting. If I was living in Montreal, perhaps I would be more understanding and we could just meet another day. I’m from out of town and my time is limited for these appointments. I could have scheduled time with another provider. I understand that sometimes life happens and things don’t always happen as planned, but at this point I was expecting Ashton Kutcher to come tell me I had been punked. She never did send me the video and I never bothered to reply back to her. I just cut my losses and decided to move on and avoid more frustration from cancellations.

 

[malboro_man]

She never did send me the video and I never bothered to reply back to her. I just cut my losses and decided to move on and avoid more frustration from cancellations.

sounds like that lady double booked or triple booked and cancelled on you when she had a better deal. It sounds like dating in the civilian world!

 

[Red Paul]

Worst was 10 years ago or so. I remember the girl's name but not the agency, which is no longer around.

Events were very, very simple. I got shitfaced, falling-down drunk and called an agency. The girl showed, I fell down, and later I woke up and the girl was gone and so was the money I had laid out.

Lesson: Don't be a big dummy and get shitfaced drunk before seeing an escort. Or doing any kind of business, I guess.

The girl was smiling when she saw how drunk I was. Nice smile but not worth the price.

 

[Doc Holliday]

You did what any decent guy would do....Bravo to you....I think it was Emily (2006?) at Eleganza who told me that "she hated her f**king job" as she sucked me. She seemed quite angry. I believe she quit shortly later afterwards. She had good reviews and everything. Like one SP put it, this job is not for everyone and all jobs suck!

Emely (or Emily) of Eleganza was one of my favourites back then. We had good chemistry from the first time we met. We saw one another several times & i still remember how happy she seemed whenever she’d walk into my room. I once told her that what i liked the most about our encounters was that each one differed from the previous ones & that strangely although the intimacy part was always good it seemed secondary to the overall experience.

Once (winter or spring 2006) after the deed was done we were holding onto one another in bed & she mentioned how good she felt & that she could spend the rest of the evening with me. Surprised to hear this i told her that she was free to stay as long as she wanted if she felt like calling it the night now. And to my surprise she grabbed the phone & called her booker (John) and told him she had decided to put an end to her evening. Then they got into an argument & she slammed the phone. I was stunned.

She then laid down again & said “fuck him i’m staying right here!” I didn’t really know how to react & for some reason i told her that she was still free to stay but that the clients that were already booked to see her would be extremely disappointed if she canceled on them. Eventually she calmed down & decided to finish her shift. I always regretted not minding my own business. Anyways before she left she asked me “why do you always see me for just an hour or so?” I asked her what she had in mind. She replied “we always have a great time together…i think…and we get along great…i think…so i’ve always wondered why you never book me for at least two hours?” So i promised her that from now on i’d book her for two hours. She seemed pleased and left.

Later that night i met a couple of well known hobbyists for a drink & told her about my strange ‘date’ earlier that night. They replied “You don’t know?” I didn’t. They said “she & John Eleganza are an item. They’re bf/gf. I thought you knew this.” I was surprised. But then their argument started to make sense. A short time later i learned that they were no longer an item.

A few weeks later i’m at a gt at Hotel de la Montagne. A hobbyist that i knew well came up to me and wanted my opinion about something. He mentioned that he had met Emely a week earlier. Things were moving on well until he mentioned that he had been to Vegas a few months earlier. And for whatever reason she asked him if he had went there with ‘Doc Holliday’. I guess i must have told her about my previous trip to Vegas. Anyways my friend was taken by surprise and told her that yes, i was part of the group who had made that trip to Vegas. He told me that she suddenly relaxed, smiled and that her whole demeanour suddenly changed. However although she seemed very comfortable with him he said she did everything to avoid doing the deed & eventually they ran out of time to do anything and she left without anything happening. He told me that he booked her again and she pulled the same stunt & again they ran out of time and didn’t do anything. So he gave up & never saw her again. He wanted my input on why her whole demeanour had changed the moment she found out we were friends. He then asked me if we were in a relationship. I laughed & told him “i wish!” but that it wasn’t so. Anyways at around that time i remember seeing reviews & getting feedback that she started pulling similar stunts to avoid doing the deed. It surprised me since for quite some time she had a very good reputation as a provider & was very well liked.

More to come….

 

[EagerBeaver]

I also saw Emely in around 2006 or so. I probably posted a review of it on MERB at the time. She was OK as a service provider for me. What I recall most of our meeting was she asked more questions of me than possibly any SP I ever met, including what I did for a living and why I saw SPs. She was very different than most SPs I saw in Montreal. Anglophone, smart, very inquisitive.

I had been told prior to the meeting that she was either fucking John Eleganza, his girlfriend or both. So I was cautious with her.

 

[malboro_man]

Later that night i met a couple of well known hobbyists for a drink & told her about my strange ‘date’ earlier that night. They replied “You don’t know?” I didn’t. They said “she & John Eleganza are an item. They’re bf/gf. I thought you knew this.” I was surprised. But then their argument started to make sense. A short time later i learned that they were no longer an item.

Thanks for the war story....it looks like you got a better deal for 1-h than I did for 2-h! I looked at my notes...it's "Emely"...I just found my notes said I only got 1 SOG...she has big tits and tight pussy but hated her job and hated the johns. Well, John Eleganza banged any of the girls who would bang him. It's the perk of being the boss. He would post his potential girls in the members only area. One time, he found a 19 y.o. babe in Ontario but decided to keep her for himself rather than letting all of Montreal bang her LOL.

I didn't know Emely was one of the many girlfriends under John's rotation.

She had good review before she turned to the dark side.

 

[malboro_man]

I had been told prior to the meeting that she was either fucking John Eleganza, his girlfriend or both. So I was cautious with her.

I am sure every john who saw her got sloppy seconds from John Eleganza including myself

 

[The Bear]

I recently replied by text to an ad on this site by an indy who advertises here very regularly. As requested in the ad I provided the name of a reference, and an appointment was made for the following week. The approximate location in Griffintown (not close to where I live or work) was given, with more exact information to be provided shortly before the appointment. So far, so good, everything proceeding as with dozens of previous fine companions.
The day before the appointment, I sent a confirmation text, without reply. Same thing about 90 minutes before the appointment. Still having received no confirmation, I made my way to Griffintown and sent another text at the appointment time saying I was nearby. Still nothing. The next day, I sent another text enquiring as to what went wrong. These texts were all very politely worded and contained nothing the least bit pointed, I was really curious as to what happened. Anyway, I never did hear from the person at all. A bizarre ghosting the likes of which I have never otherwise experienced. (I saw my reference a couple of weeks later and she said the girl had contacted her, and she was as puzzled as me by my account)

 

[Numerati]

I am sure every john who saw her got sloppy seconds from John Eleganza including myself

Scarface "Don't Get High On Your Own Supply" - YouTube

I was not so entrenched into the Eleganza gossip but had access to the private forum/"membership" area in 2007 when I met Angelic. There were a few times John posted an up and comer and next thing you know he goes "She is off the market! I am keeping her for myself!"

Not surprised that what was spoken above about Emely. Too damn of a mess.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Thanks for the war story....it looks like you got a better deal for 1-h than I did for 2-h! I looked at my notes...it's "Emely"...I just found my notes said I only got 1 SOG...she has big tits and tight pussy but hated her job and hated the johns.

I now believe that we’re referring to two entirely different Emelys. The one i was referring to was the first Emely who had been with the agency pretty much since day 1. She absolutely did not have ‘big tits’. She had a b-cup at best. But after she retired to move to the States in the fall of 2006 she was replaced with a different Emely who had huge tits. I mean…huge! I never got to see her since she wasn’t around for very long or wasn’t available when i’d happen to be in town. I recall not believing my eyes when i first saw her pictures & although i had never been a boobs man she definitely was one to be seen for her boobs alone. She must have ended up with a chronic sore back having to always carry those!

He would post his potential girls in the members only area.

I remember that private site. I was under the impression that the girls were aware of it & had given their permission to post their pics showing their faces in it. But no! I remember seeing one of his girls one night & she was telling me that she had found out about it from a client. And she was steaming! And when i told her that i was also quite aware of that private members site also & confirmed that she hadn’t heard wrong from the other client holy shit! I thought she was about to have a stroke! By the way i also thought it was incredibly wrong of him to post pictures…especially facial pictures…without their consent. If i’d be in their shoes i’d be extremely pissed off also! So I didn’t mind when she & other girls confronted him about it & put an end to the ‘members’ site. No wonder so many of the girls hated him so much. Sure there is that girl from Ontario that he had hired who wouldn’t stop raving & talking about him…i always suspected that there was more to just a business relationship between the two which was later confirmed…but it became rarer & rarer…especially at the end…to hear a girl say anything nice about him. When he first went off the grid (i had heard for legal reasons) which eventually led to the end of this great agency one of his girls that i saw (i think some guy named Joe was by then helping him out with the agency) told me that they hadn’t heard from him for weeks & that if he never reappeared it would be fine by her & shocked me when she added “i hope they find this fucker wrapped up in a sleeping bag at the bottom of the St-Lawrence!” I just looked at her and said “wow, that’s a bit severe, don’t you think?” She replied “sorry but i hate that fucker so much!” lol