Customers should have their own like myself as the Japanese ones like this are perfect for me!
What's something you wish more SPs provided?
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Even the most basic of sex acts still requires consent. And anal isn't as basic as you're making it out to be but let's pretend it is for a second :
What about chefs/restaurants that dont serve breakfast? Eggs and bacon are pretty basic after all?
Artists that don't sell acrylic paintings? So much easier than many other mediums!
See how bizarre it sounds to expect service people to offer the exact same services?
Read reviews and if possible communicate with the sp or see what’s listed on the agency’s page of whom you desire to meet!
if you are supplying ultra premium condoms (and went through the trouble of acquiring them) i would pay double what you pay or more. But not all guys would like that approach as it might "detract" from their fantasy lol
Poor cucumber. Nobodies thinking about them
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S/o to all the submissive SPs putting in work for doms lol
S/o to all the submissive SPs putting in work for doms lol
I haven’t been with agencies much, but when reading this forum you’d think all do cim, usually as an extra. Only recently did they start including it on the profiles. Correct me if I’m wrong
First of all, wasn’t the etiquette for the provider to supply condoms for safety reasons and personal preference? After all she will be using them repeatedly and knows what she likes.
Now if the guy has a specific requirement, be it size, allergies or otherwise I could understand him having his own. But that needs to be accepted by the provider.
With regards to cost. It should be factored in to the fees. Even if it would cost, let’s say $10, that’s insignificant compared to fees in the hundreds or thousands
I wish the men that think anal is basic had to experience it to know what it's actually like. I've travelled a lot and Montreal definitely has clients with the highest expectations of anywhere in North America.
I need to say something because many of the comments are very disturbing and upsetting. First, we are not objects. We are humans with emotions, health conditions, preferences, family, other jobs etc. The double standard is crazy in escorting. Do you ask your mechanic/garagist to wash your car/do aesthetic things for free after an oil change because it's part of their job? Do you expect your maid or babysitter to cook the meals, do dishes, laundry, ironing because it's 'part of their job'? Saying that we should offer Anal because it's basic and we could try to offer variety and get used to it is so messed up. You're talking about our body here. Real body. Not a doll. My job doesn't include anal and will never be. I dont like it and it hurt. Ive been offer thousands $$$ over the years to do anal and Ive always refuse. Second, taking pictures and videos of us is not the same at all as taking pictures of your vacation. I never record/film myself naked, never did a home porn video even when in relationship. A lot of mens have shown me pictures and videos of others escorts (without me asking). They are proud to show that and Im sure the SP are not aware that their pictures were shown to a bunch of random people. I dont even have pictures of me drinking alcool or dress sexy on my social media because of my career. I can loose my job if I do. Third, for the COF, I dont mind if your my last client of the night. If your not, then I have too much respect for the others clients to meet them with my face cover with sperm and smelling like it. If you want to pay for the extra time that I need to remove my makeup and do my makeup again after, perfect (approximately 45min). Would you be ok with meeting a SP with her makeup all smudged and smelling like cum because the last client came on her face? Fourth, complaining about things that we dont do or should do without you asking the SP first is ironic. A lot of us are open to a lot of things. Dont assume we do or dont just because... You can just ask. It's easy and you can be surprise. Fifth, I buy Skin and Magnum condoms. These are the best quality and most expensive condoms at the drugstore. Skin are 15$ for 12 condoms, magnum 17$ for 10 condoms. It goes fast and the cost is all on me. Not to mention the others expenses: lubricant, nails, hair, makeup, lingerie, underwear, lashes, STD testing. Also, I drive myself so I pay for the gas, car wear and tear and parkings. I spend 20$ to 60$ on parkings every time I work (3-4 clients) And of course, I have to pay my booker and the agency owner. So, after all that, I make around 170-200$ a hour to sell my body. But some of you always want more. Do you want me to cook you breakfast also and clean your bathroom? Be decent humans being, we are humans just like you and not robots. Thankfully, most of my clients are not like this.
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Sometimes I read things on here and they definitely want more for less $$
They do. I saw the evolution over the past 10 years. We use to charge extra for everything. Only GFE was included. All of those were extra: CIM,COB,COF,ANAL,using toys,rimming,domination,2 services/hour etc. Over time, clients became more demanding and difficult so the SP slowly stop charging extras for those. For example, I've always done CIM from the start. At that time, clients were always asked me how much I charged for it. They naturally knew it was an extra, even if it wasn't mentioned anywhere. And I rarely had complaints about it. I dont charge extras for CIM anymore (it's been years since I did). I didnt really have a choice. They gonna tell me they gonna find a other girl who do it for free.
Working in Montreal isn’t easy and I know a lot of Montreal born SPs that refuse to work here and that would even describing it as a boot camp.
“If you can work in Montreal, you can work anywhere”
They start here and quickly move or only tour other cities and come back to live here
“If you can work in Montreal, you can work anywhere”
They start here and quickly move or only tour other cities and come back to live here
When I was with Maria @ Socia she told me that she offers this service
I completely understand why this isn’t offered but I wish to meet a woman that would like to have intimate relationship in a quiet park with no one else around in front of a river on a park bench. I can imagine her in a long summer dress riding me slowly. Passionately kissing each other. We can dream?
I've been reading this thread attentively and the one about what clients wish we had at our incalls because I want to improve my services, but it leaves me feeling a bit discouraged lol I don't have a mini bar, a wide screen TV or anything fancy like this at my incall. However it made me decide to offer more types of non alcoholic beverages and perhaps light snacks.
My services tho.. I think I'm good for now. As someone mentioned on another thread, even if I don't agree with that person on other things, if you keep offering things you don't like, you will burn yourself out in this industry. If I don't offer a certain service, it means I don't like it and I'm not comfortable with it.Cimsw, cob, cof, toys and msog are included in my service, I sometimes cater to certain kinks as well, I'm glad they are and I'm not going to take them off the menu anytime soon.. (I'm in the process of learning domination as well) but I didn't offer some of them before. being on this forum and seeing ''she doesn't even do xyz, what a worthless experience'' made me really self conscious, all the demands for anal, face fucking, submission, roleplay made me want to compensate somewhere else, even if none of this is supposed to be offered in GFE. I often get told ''oh other GFE providers offer xyz'' and it leaves me puzzled a bit.
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I offered anal the first months of being a SP because I felt like I had to since at the time I didn't offer bbbj at the time, but it hurt so much that I was in pain all day after even just a 30 min appointment, and sometimes clients would just shove it in there without asking because they didn't understand we needed preparation, I realized after a booking that one guy even took off the condom while he was at it probably because he didn't think he could catch a STI that way, so I stopped offering it.
Also, being a submissive during a session with a client is not the same thing as being with a boyfriend. Some SP's offer it and there's nothing wrong with it, but it makes sense for most of us to refuse doing that, because it can actually be traumatic and it can be dangerous to do that with someone you don't know yet. Domination also requires certain skills, a lot of consent and aftercare.. Are ''domme clients'' willing to provide aftercare, use safe words etc? Do they know how to do certain things without physically harming the person? That's part of BDSM. When I first started as a SP I had another name and somebody said I was submissive because I was shy and that awkwardness was interpreted as submission, and the clients I had back then didn't understand that these dynamics require consent and care.
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I think a lot of people are influenced by what they seen in porn, which doesn't represent reality. Anal is only basic if you think what you see in porn is an average sexual experience with a SP or civilian woman. An escort is not a porn actress or someone who is supposed to offer the most extreme sexual experience possible. I don't want to shame clients, or anyone, for having certain sexual fantasies or desires, but people need to understand that not everyone is going to be willing to fulfill those.. Also fantasy vs reality when it comes to these experiences aren't the same.
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I think if there was a way to make this happen safely I may offer it lol but it would have to be with a regular client I trust.
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I'd love to cook for a client during a long booking, a cheaper alternative to going out to eat or ordering takeout!
Yes and that's why we dont provide YOUR choice of premium luxury 80$ a box condom. The point was that if you want expensive specific condoms instead of the ones provided then you can pay for it. No one is claiming that the client should always pay for the condom. Reading is fundamental.
Escorts typically carry multiple sizes and latex free condoms, but you can't expect every escort to include high end expensive condoms in her selection.
What a dream! Having someone to cook with, make a meal with, at least for me, is such an amazing/fun thing to do.
