What's your preference: Shaved pussy or not? Partly shaved or a full bush?

[Julia Sky]

My opinion stays the same. You don't need to name people to hurt them. If you think something is gross just don't indulge, no need to say "grosssss"... Imagine a girl saying "Fat men are grossssss" and try to get away saying "well I didn't name anyone" so what you didn't name anyone ? Fat men can still read this and be hurt.

There are a few things I find gross, and not once have I ever said "grossssss" about bodily features in my entire life because I'm aware that this could hurt people and it's unasked for. Saying "I personally dont find pubic hair attractive" is far more respectful, civilised and acceptable than "Girls with hair ? Grosssssss" IMHO. Even the word you used Sam, "a turn off", is far better than calling people's bodily features "gross" :/

 

[hungry101]

Oh here we go. The word police are out again. Let me tell you something Julia. Just because you spend half your life in the missionary position it doesn't make you a missionary. Now, this thread is about what men prefer and what we prefer is what we will pay for. We don't need your PC comments. Fat men are gross but we have a lot of money and the money flows one way: From me to the girls. I don't like a hairy bush. Yuck! And I remember choking on a hair from cunnilingus. It was an occupational hazard of the bygone era....I don't want to see it return!!!!

 

[themonk83]

BTW a good portion of other providers have a bush occasionally, but not always: Delilah Sansregret, Camille Haring and some other names are escaping me, but I'll find em!

hey Amber :wave:
I think it is safe to say that most of IC indies have a bush or something resembling a bush at times. I say wear them bush proud

 

[Julia Sky]

I didn't say fat men are gross. That's not my opinion. I'm allowed to think it sucks to call people gross. Just because you pay doesn't mean you get to be rude and hurt people... Plus if it's a big deal you can always ask girls before booking them so you dont have to call them gross afterwards.

You're entitled to your opinion as much as I am entitled to mine. IMO, it's not okay to call bodily features "gross" and the fact that you pay doesn't change my opinion nor does it keep me from having a right to say it. It's not like I flagged anyone, I just stated an opinion lol, you can keep calling people gross if you want, you do you

Oh and whats up with you telling me "Just because you spend half of your life in missionary position..." ?! First of all I love more than one position, second of all I don't spend half of my life having sex (really ! I have a life and do things besides being an escort ! Surprising)... third of all I'm just a person with an opinion, not a missionary, and no need to put a label on me because I have an opinion on people calling other people's bodies gross.

 

[fran444]

In order

1) trim
2) natural
3) totally shave

It`s just natural to see some hair !!! But i always take the lady like she is ... never ask if she is shave or not ... it`s not a reason why i will not have an encounter with her.

 

[hungry101]

Sam, I once attended a a mandatory business communication seminar. I think it was "Effective Meetings and Communications" or some crap like this. Anyways the instructor told us never to say to audience "That's a bad idea." She taught us to say "That's a delta." I asked the instructor "if we all know that 'Delta' means the same as 'Bad Idea' than what's the difference?" She stammered and didn't have a good answer. I don't like being patronized with euphemisms. Say what you mean.

Julia, I think you should spend more time in the advertising section or the selfie section than in the lounge. That is just my opinion.

 

[Julia Sky]

I spend time wherever I want to. Afterall, I'm paying to use this board

Got a booking from this thread. I guess some people share my opinion. Thank you, bye ! Xx

 

[Carmine Falcone]

I don't like a hairy bush. Yuck! And I remember choking on a hair from cunnilingus. It was an occupational hazard of the bygone era....I don't want to see it return!!!!

This was pretty funny. Yet for some reason, that Godfather quote "You can act like a man" springs to mind.

 

[Halloween Mike]

As a fat man myself i can say without any shame that i keep my shirt on because i find my body gross for others. When i see fat men at the beach topless i really think "damn... how can he go on like that and not be ashamed" because hell i am in that situation. I never undress at the beach and even if i go swim i keep my shirt on. Fat is not ok. I know some people take weight easier than others, and every human is different on how he burn calories. I know ill never be a skinny dude. Thats impossible. But i used to be "in shape". I had some fat but i was healthy, in shape, could do a 6 round fight withtout breaking a sweat and climb mountain. Now i walk 30 mins and my back hurt. I know im not in shape and its due to my lazyness and lack of will. Im working on it... slowly but surely ..

I hate when peoples say "fat is beautifull" cause its fucking not !! You may find it beautifull but its a niche thing. Its not a "standard". Its unhealthy for a start too.

Do i think escorts find my body beautifull? Lol obviously no. But its there job... There paid to see all kinds of men they would not be attracked to in "regualar life". Old, fat, ugly, or a mix of the 3... Now im just hoping every time i open the door that she won't find me too much unatractive...

So yes i will say it, when i look at myself in the mirror naked, i do think im gross looking... i wish i would be different. I prefer myself in cloaths. I need to put the effort to change it.


To get back on the hair and mannequin things... Honestly i dunno whats going in the latest years. Its funny because you show a 20 years old girl a picture of a dude with a mullet and big pornstach and she will say "oh yurk... this guy look like a pedophile" but in the 80s and maybe even early 90s it was "the thing".

Yet today it look terrible by society standard. But then i see the whole homeless beard being a thing these later years and girls liking that and iml like "why....? " lol . Its not good looking no matter how you want to put it. Metal Heads have been sporting that look for decades and they where considered marginals and such and now because "hipsters" do it its ok? huh....???

Half shave haircut for girls.. i never got that one... thanksfully it seem to be going away lately. its not as popular at least.

As for fully tatooed... i dunno, guess its another craze that have started in the early 2010s or such... And it does not only touch 20 y.o girls , but you see ladies in the 30s and even late 30s to early 40s partaking and getting fully tatooed. Its funny in a way cause i remember reading Janine Lindemulder got fully tatooed to not be hired in porn anymore or something like that, but in the end looks like she was just 15 years too soon...

I agree that its your body and you can do whatever you want with it... Its just as a porn consumer i can't help but feel "concern" by those trends. Obviously because the look of the performers impact my consumation of that product... So the bush thing enter this category. Nothing ruin more a scene for me than to see the girl have a lot of hair downstairs. At leats with tatoos i know when its done its done... it won't go away. Does it bother me to see a favourite of mine get what i consider "a dumb tatoo"? Yes obviously, but once its there, its there... Bushes tough i know its just a little clipper slash away... lol so i guess thats why it bothers me more. To me it looks like a bad make up in a porn scene. You know when you watch quality porn like Jules Jordan stuff with professional make up artist and girls look fantastic, then you watch a cheap porn scene and her make up looks like "lazy day make up day" and she look not nearly as hot as in the previous scenes. Bushes are like that to me. Im like "ahhhh could you not have take 5 mins to shave??" And im sorry but i don't buy this whole "i want to look like a woman and not a like a 12 y.o". Im not attracked to kids, AT ALL, but i enjoy fully shaved. I don't consider myself even 0.000001% pedo because i like a 20 something grown woman with her pubes shave...

So far thanksfully shaved pubes seem to still be a trend in the escort world. I hope it stays that way. Honestly i don't want to have to ask when doing bookings "is she shaved downstairs" ... it seem like such an odd question... :/

 

[jalimon]

I hate when peoples say "fat is beautifull" cause its fucking not !! You may find it beautifull but its a niche thing. Its not a "standard". Its unhealthy for a start too.

My god I like the humility and honesty of your post HM! Fat is costing about 30 billion yearly to the Americans. Healthcare cost related to over weigth is sky rocketing in the states and Mexico.

Do i think escorts find my body beautifull? Lol obviously no. But its there job... There paid to see all kinds of men they would not be attracked to in "regualar life". Old, fat, ugly, or a mix of the 3...

I do not fully agree with you here. Women are geared differently then men (thank god!!). They do not automatically categorized us as old or fat and certainly not ugly. They will if your attitude is bad. But when your attitude is positive, when you are humorous and respectful, they will like you. Hence that's why you have good sessions HM

And it does not only touch 20 y.o girls , but you see ladies in the 30s and even late 30s to early 40s partaking and getting fully tatooed.

Just go at any all inclusive resort down south in Cuba or mexico and you will see tattoo was definately popular as long as 40 to 50 years ago

So far thanksfully shaved pubes seem to still be a trend in the escort world.

Definitely not only in the escort world.

Cheers,

 

[Philip J. Fry]

I have no particular preference as long as it is not out of control.

 

[smuler]

I know im not in shape and its due to my lazyness and lack of will. Im working on it... slowly but surely ..

Get yourself a bicycle
Get out and enjoy the fresh air..
Go one mile one day, 2 miles the next day, etc..

Best Regards
Smuler

 

[Halloween Mike]

I do not fully agree with you here. Women are geared differently then men (thank god!!). They do not automatically categorized us as old or fat and certainly not ugly. They will if your attitude is bad. But when your attitude is positive, when you are humorous and respectful, they will like you. Hence that's why you have good sessions HM

Its part of there job to "go over" the look pretty much. I am not saying all clients are either of the 3 above, some are young successfull men as well, good looking etc. Others may be middle age men who does look good too. Im just saying there used to have clients who are not attractive to them. If they refused every clients they don't find attractive, they wouldn't have much of a business. After that obviously every person is different, some providers may just not "care" much for physical look and have just as much fun with any clients they get chemistry with. Other times looks can be one of those "chemistry" problems.

Get yourself a bicycle

My problem is more when it comes to food and drink. I reduced greatly my soft drink consumtion lately, and i hope to be able to remove it totally soon. Also i removed sugar food/candy etc by 75%. They say its 80% food 20% exercise when it comes to loosing weight.

 

[laid_back_alex]

My problem is more when it comes to food and drink. I reduced greatly my soft drink consumtion lately, and i hope to be able to remove it totally soon. Also i removed sugar food/candy etc by 75%. They say its 80% food 20% exercise when it comes to loosing weight.

Absolutely. Of course exercise helps. We should all be exercising for health reasons (stronger immune system, looking nicer, better heart, etc etc). However if you want to look at it solely from a weight loss perspective, just eat properly and you will fucking melt man. If you add exercise too, you will melt even faster. But just exercise and eating garbage won't do a thing weight wise.

I'm aware that we're going off topic. Just wanted to confirm your statement.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Water, drink plenty of water all day, keeps the appetite down and breaks the food down much faster. Does wonders for your skin also which makes a bald pussy look better..... my attempt at keeping on topic..

 

[jalimon]

Water, drink plenty of water all day, keeps the appetite down and breaks the food down much faster. Does wonders for your skin also which makes a bald pussy look better..... my attempt at keeping on topic..

And does also wonder for our bald or shortly trimmed men's genitals, for those interested...

 

[loverboy]

I prefer nicely shaved ,it looks more appetizing.

However there is one advantage to going down on a full bush, you get to floss at the same time. :smile: