I don’t think I’ve ever written a bad review after experiencing a lousy session . I know it’s not very beneficial to the rest of the board but I have my own ways of doing things and dealing with such matters . In those few instances where I was convinced without a doubt ( judgment call ) that I wasn’t the problem I reported it to the booker and gave them my honest feedback and side of the story etc ... I did it not expecting an apology or to gain anything other than maybe it would be internally addressed , and in them doing so it would benefit some poor schmuck down the road ... Albeit it’s very rare for me to shift all the blame on the girl/agency ,,, I hold myself accountable in these misadventures as it takes two to tango and not everyone meshes well together , I also know I’m not always the easiest to deal with so yeah that too ...
I’d say that in this hobby sooner or later we all encounter SP’s that are not really meant to be in this line of work and are a bit clueless at what they do . Some of those SP’s are solely
encouraged out of financial desperation ( don’t stay long in the Biz ) ,,,when I see those ones I immediately recognize them as such and I sympathize with them , however I would prefer I wasn’t the one knocking at their door . Then you got the ones that feel entitled ,they’re in it solely for the money they don’t care if the give a good service and it shows . They will give you the bare minimum , if at all haha . They are not worth the donation or our time IMHO and are the reason these boards exist in the first place ... how can I put it ... there is HONEST hustling and then there is hustling , they are the latter ... Also occasionally one might happen to have a subpar session with a really great girl which might be overworked/tired ... in civi life folks are forced to overwork because they are under paid ... in this industry obviously that’s not the case . Working long hours is mentally and physically draining/exhausting and in this line of work that takes away from the experience ...in the end I think the more time one has spent in this hobby the more jaded he becomes and doesn’t feel as satisfied or happy as he once felt , one might complain about something that would have never been an issue when he first started seeing SP’s for example , I could be wrong though
Anyhow most here can relate with the ones feeling duped/cheated & let down because we have all been there one time or another . It can be frustrating leaving unsatisfied and giving away money that you worked hard for , but it’s part of this pastime and it’s something that will most likely happen again and therefore one needs to learn to brush these experiences aside . If anything these unfortunate encounters make one appreciate the good sessions and the great SP’s even more down the road ...
I’d say from experience that the Bookers in our city are on the friendly side , they are accessible and agreeable even if they don’t really agree with you lol ... as long as it’s not a bad time ( rush hour of some sort ) and you don’t sound obnoxious or unreasonable they will take the time to listen to you ... if your a loyal and valued/repeat customer then I’m pretty sure they will try to keep you coming back ... In -any -case most of the times folks aren’t really asking for anything in particular , just LETTING OUT STEAM etc , as that helps too ( to answer the original Q on this thread ) ... the only time I think that Bookers become unpleasant and unreachable is when the SP has recently “blacklisted” you just after a session and you are a new client and therefore your version of events do not matter/count , in the end it’s all about CREDIBILITY and if your new in the scene that’s how you get graded ... at least that’s what I’ve noticed reading up on the boards , most of the times it’s the newcomers complaining that they aren’t being heard etc... in yhat case no need complaining or addressing something to the Bookers as words that fall upon deaf ears are much better left unsaid ... Cheers
