when you see an escort is it important to make her cum
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Well she needs to come at your hotel or house !:lol:
Then well
Heaven for both :thumb:
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BookerL
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Lily from Montreal
Especially the first time you meet someone,it is not a given...I am not saying it doesn't happen it is not expected, like in real life with time you get to know each other ''button'' ...
Ladies insight are so valuble ,Hello Lily and all
Hummmmmm!
Do you show your "button" to make it easier ?:lol:
Or you prefer hiden treasure and search ?
What do you prefer ?
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BookerL
For me it depends how hard i have to work & how long. I mostly do 1-hour dates, so if i pay too much attention on getting a girl to cum, it'll take a good chunk out of my own 'cumming' time & i might risk losing my boner. Which is why one of my preferred positions is position #69. Ten minutes is usually the most i'll go, unless the pussy is extremely pussy & i'm having a heck of a feast!
I'm pretty much in the same boat, it's definitely a goal but I agree with Doc, there's limits. I probably do get more pleasure in the satisfaction of knowing I got a lady off, especially on first dates where it's less likely. I've left 2 sessions where I got her off but left nowhere near enough time for me to get off. At the moment I rang her bell I felt great, but no lasting memories since I didn't get my rocks off too. Funny, I was always pretty lame in the sack until I started hobbying, rarely getting partners off, amazing what some practice without being self-conscious can do!
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Lily from Montreal
It actually can be a problem,especially for short meeting, MY goal is that You come,once that is achieve I can relax so to speak but if you don't first I cannot be satisfied...
It a bit of a tug of war if we try to make each other come at the same time,by the way noodleman,that is so rare as to be illusion...you see that in movie...
better to concentrate on each other not at once longer meeting are better that way because I know that even if I am ''selfish'' and do come first thee is plenty of time for the main purpose of our meeting which is making you happy...
It a bit of a tug of war if we try to make each other come at the same time,by the way noodleman,that is so rare as to be illusion...you see that in movie...
better to concentrate on each other not at once longer meeting are better that way because I know that even if I am ''selfish'' and do come first thee is plenty of time for the main purpose of our meeting which is making you happy...
For me it is also important to make my partner cum, I love hearing and feeling it. I will usually return to an SP who has cum for me, and especially if she is interesting and smart. . . But it would be hard for SPs to fulfill this for every guy if they are seeing lots on the same day--I wonder how they do it.
Hornydogs,
Let's put it this way, how does a slightly cute but plainish, thin, pretty flat-chested young lady (although very athletically fit) become one of the most sought after escorts ever for a time? Because she got into it with an irrepressible sexual passion that earned her the name of the Energizer Bunny. Yeah, it's an incredible feeling, as I just said elsewhere, when the lady makes it seem like she can't get enough of the action with you, whether she just loves sex anyway or it's more because of you. The lady I'm referring to may of been one of the easiest to bring to orgasm, since she was as close to being a nympho as anyone, but no matter who it is it's a great compliment of satisfaction for the lady "cum" when she's with me, especially since no woman can act her way into a real orgasm.
Answer: it's the best compliment, and I love to see the ladies happy.
Cheers,
Merlot
Let's put it this way, how does a slightly cute but plainish, thin, pretty flat-chested young lady (although very athletically fit) become one of the most sought after escorts ever for a time? Because she got into it with an irrepressible sexual passion that earned her the name of the Energizer Bunny. Yeah, it's an incredible feeling, as I just said elsewhere, when the lady makes it seem like she can't get enough of the action with you, whether she just loves sex anyway or it's more because of you. The lady I'm referring to may of been one of the easiest to bring to orgasm, since she was as close to being a nympho as anyone, but no matter who it is it's a great compliment of satisfaction for the lady "cum" when she's with me, especially since no woman can act her way into a real orgasm.
Answer: it's the best compliment, and I love to see the ladies happy.
Cheers,
Merlot
There are two reasons to bring your A game to the sex.
1: To get more sex
2: Because you like the girl and want to make her happy.
1: Doesn't apply. I will only get the sex if I pay and no matter if I ring her bell or not that isn't going to change so why bother.
2: I don't know her. She wouldn't be spending any time with me if I were not paying her so she obviously isn't a friend or a lover. So beyond basic respect including limits and hygene why bother.
If it happens, fine. If I'm in the mood fine, and I've made the effort once, with fingers not the Y as it is less effort and more comfortable. Otherwise no.
I don't buy flowers and choclates for my doctor if he gives me a prostate exam, to me its a similar issue.
I am sure the doc is a nice guy and I respect his education but he is shoving his fingers up my ass because OHIP pays him to, not because he cares about me.
Also I half guess more escorts would prefer if you didn't bother. I hear things like it's personal, or it puts them in the position of having to fake them. Also the idea that they probably spend most of the session thinking "Jeez I can't wait for this to be over" while some old and or fat and or ugly dude is on top of them.
You won't often here this from an active escort from a marketing persepctive but I'd bet those attitudes reflect the truth more than the marketing copy we normally hear.
Also is it real or fake. No interest in bring in the A game only to have her fake it. I am a bit on Alan Harper's side on this one. I can't suspend the fantasy that much.
So I figure, I'll do her the favor of not putting her on the spot. Again unless the mood strikes.
1: To get more sex
2: Because you like the girl and want to make her happy.
1: Doesn't apply. I will only get the sex if I pay and no matter if I ring her bell or not that isn't going to change so why bother.
2: I don't know her. She wouldn't be spending any time with me if I were not paying her so she obviously isn't a friend or a lover. So beyond basic respect including limits and hygene why bother.
If it happens, fine. If I'm in the mood fine, and I've made the effort once, with fingers not the Y as it is less effort and more comfortable. Otherwise no.
I don't buy flowers and choclates for my doctor if he gives me a prostate exam, to me its a similar issue.
I am sure the doc is a nice guy and I respect his education but he is shoving his fingers up my ass because OHIP pays him to, not because he cares about me.
Also I half guess more escorts would prefer if you didn't bother. I hear things like it's personal, or it puts them in the position of having to fake them. Also the idea that they probably spend most of the session thinking "Jeez I can't wait for this to be over" while some old and or fat and or ugly dude is on top of them.
You won't often here this from an active escort from a marketing persepctive but I'd bet those attitudes reflect the truth more than the marketing copy we normally hear.
Also is it real or fake. No interest in bring in the A game only to have her fake it. I am a bit on Alan Harper's side on this one. I can't suspend the fantasy that much.
So I figure, I'll do her the favor of not putting her on the spot. Again unless the mood strikes.
I'd like to add to the post i made earlier that if i feel like getting the sp to cum may increase her chances of falling in love with me, then i'd definitely pay more attention to making her cum and it would actually become a priority.
I've been with many sps who've fallen madly in love with me over the years & i only realized a few months ago that i had made them all cum when in their company. So i put 2-and-2 together and figured they fell for me mostly because i made them cum.
So that's why from now on if i ever feel like a girl has the potential to fall in love with me, i will likely throw my own selfishness out the window & do my best to please her and make her cum. I'm a very loving guy and whenever true love can become part of a relationship with an sp, then i'm fall for love & give it all i have.
I've been with many sps who've fallen madly in love with me over the years & i only realized a few months ago that i had made them all cum when in their company. So i put 2-and-2 together and figured they fell for me mostly because i made them cum.
So that's why from now on if i ever feel like a girl has the potential to fall in love with me, i will likely throw my own selfishness out the window & do my best to please her and make her cum. I'm a very loving guy and whenever true love can become part of a relationship with an sp, then i'm fall for love & give it all i have.
i try to make her cum but if it doesnt hapen or my mouth or tongue get too tired or it seem to take too long, i stop.
with gfs, i will daty until they cum but with sp, since it is by hour, i dont want to spend large time like 30 minutes daty trying to make her cum.
with gfs, i will daty until they cum but with sp, since it is by hour, i dont want to spend large time like 30 minutes daty trying to make her cum.
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