I think it's more about the visual sexual aesthetic of watching it.
Which pornstars do you wish were available as a SP?
- Thread starter Skym
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Exactly. I love watching attractive people fucking live. But attractiveness isn’t as important as long as the people involved aren’t unattractive or especially out of shape. A totally normal looking guy or girl in good shape is totally ok. But the people involved also have to be under 40 preferably. Watching two 50 or 60 year olds having sex doesn’t do it for me. But i’m sure there are exceptions as always. But like i mentioned that i enjoyed the voyeur part i’ve learned that i have also enjoyed putting on a show either in front of watchers or side by side next to another couple. Speaking for myself it was a hell of a rush! But others of course may have an entirely different view of it. I’ve also learned that i enjoyed it even more when it’s watching a girl i know well or that i have feelings for as opposed to a total stranger although this works also.
One time many years ago i had went out with a popular indy at the time that i must admit i had feelings for. I had known her for a few years & i had always felt that she felt the same way about me. After dinner & movies we went back to my place & we ended up making out. Then she asked “Let’s call ourselves an escort.” I was taken aback & was surprised to hear that she would be in the mood for a threesome instead of just going to bed…it was around 1am if I remember & i was quite tired. Her reply shocked me at the time: “She wouldn’t be for me but for you. I’ve always wanted to watch you having sex with another girl. I probably will just watch.” Now i was very surprised to hear this. I think i even joked that this would be a bit weird for me. Having sex while i’m being watched by one of my favorite girls? Then she said oh forget it. I don’t know what inwas thinking. I had too much to drink tonight. Lol. So we never ended up calling anyone, But years later once i was initiated to this type of stuff i totally got it! Amd boy did i really blow a great chance to experience something wild! Lol. Another time an sp i was kind of dating asked me to accompany her to a dinner held by her agency. She said there’d be other girls with dates there so i wouldn’t be the other guy. A few guys i knew would be there. So i said sure why not. I was curious which girls would also be there. Anyways during dinner i spent a good part of dinner chatting with the girl sitting on my other side. It was fun! Lots of laughs! Anyways after dinner my date & i went back to my room & sex was on the agenda. So while we’re in bed she goes ‘I should have invited ##### to join us!’ I was suprised since i knew that she wasn’t into other girls or even threesomes. Then she added “Not for me…for you…you & her seemed to have hit it off well.” So i asked “You wouldn’t mind watching me having sex with another girl? A colleague & friend of yours?” She chuckled “No of course not. I think i’d like that. Let me call her.” But by that time the other girl had already committed to another date with someone she met at dinner. I told my friend “That would have been kind of weird. I didn’t know you’d be into this plus i’m not attracted to to your friend at all.” She replied ‘But you’d do it for me, right? Plus i’d pay for her. It’d be my gift to you…as long as i get to watch!” Lol. I shook my head & said “Yeah sure…but i still find it kind of weird.” Today? I totally get it! It’s not weird at all! I blew another great opportunity! Lol.
