It's always interesting for me when reading the various reports here on Merb about guys doing the DATY thing with the SPs. If DATY is say the equivalent of a BJ for women, then aren't us guys really paying $ for pleasuring the SPs (rather than our own pleasure)? That's the way I see it at least but I'm sure that some of you guys get a real kick out of performing DATY which is fine. So what's everyone's comments on this?