why do we hobby?

[metoo4]

I didn't know that part. Then, any way to ban him from seeing SP? Too bad, can't be done...

i can't believe there's such guys around, but I know there are. If he's really like this, either he have a death wish or he's infected and want to spread it.

 

[Love big tits]

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There are certain SPs whom I've seen more than once - and one enchantress five times. I can't deny that I like some more than others - some young women, I really like and look forward to seeing them again. I can't, however, say that I've ever felt anything remotely approaching a deep emotional attachment with any SP. Why do I hobby? Because it's fun. Fun hasn't been outlawed yet, has it?

I am thriving to arrive at your wisdom DoingittoDeath. I must admit that it is sometimes hard not to get attached to some SP that I have seen. But it has turned out every single time to my detriment of course as you start to expect from them more than they are willing to give. I am learning and I find myself not repeating as much as I use to with the ones that I liked, or at least not with the involvement I use to put in.

I am that way probably due to the fact that I am unattached now (cancer took her) and not willing to commit to anyone anymore but probably still expecting to find the level of closeness that I had.

Anyway on a much happier note I do hobby too because it is fun, it feels sooo good and the fantasy of having the undivided attention of so many beautiful girls all to myself is a dream come through

 

[jackyo8193]

Meeting and being with SPs is uncomplicated and it gets to the point without having to deal with her hangups and neuroses.

I had an argument with a chick yesterday who said that honesty was essential part of a relationship. I took that to mean she wanted to hear what I had to say.. so I told her exactly what I thought.

It turns out she didn't really want to hear what I had to say. She got mad as she considered it to be too critical of her. Now she doesn't want to hear from me ever again.

There is no way you can win an argument like this.

Relationships with SPs avoid these complications.

 

[jackyo8193]

Right on!

Well, clearly for fun...again, who wouldn't want to have sex with many beautiful women without having to think about the complicated and unpredictable game of seduction?

I think that it's not entirely a bad thing for dating either, the feeling I am getting is that this really will allow me to focus, on a real date, much more on whether I ACTUALLY want to be with the girl or not. Men (maybe it's just me) have trouble being honest with themselves about why they dig a girl. If you really want to sleep with her, it's hard not start to think you want her in other ways, you stop being rational. I actually think that seeing SPs will help me break that pattern because, well, I KNOW I will be having sex with a hot girl next week anyway. It means you can be far more indifferent to a prospective girlfriend's hotness...bonus, girls seem more attracted to guys who seem relaxed and somewhat indifferent to them.

I don't know how I it will be as I get older but, right now, I can date girls in the same age range as the SPs (well more 25ish than 20ish) so I don't know if it sets up unrealistic expectations of who I could date.

This hits the nail right on the head!

I probably do come across as being relaxed and indifferent to normal chicks because whether I do get it or not get it from them, I'm going to get it from a pro somewhere somehow.

I know that my physical needs will be satisfied eventually.

I don't go into a relationship with the expectation that it will necessary be with the particular chick I'm with at the time.

It throws them off when one is not always in a hot pursuit mode. Keeps them guessing all of the time.