is it for sex? is for love? is it for escape from real life? tell reason why you do it. Personally i think i did it because i was having problems in my personal life and it was nice to have sex with a really hot girl.
why do we hobby?
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is it for sex? is for love? is it for escape from real life? tell reason why you do it. Personally i think i did it because i was having problems in my personal life and it was nice to have sex with a really hot girl.robertpal said:
lol..if anyone hobbies for this reason then I suggest the nut house
but for me it isnt mostly problems in personal life but more of not meeting women by being too busy and not able to go out and just getting fed up and taking the sure route i guess lol
i agree anyone who did it for love would have serious problems. But honestly for me it is very relaxing, like massage or long run but 100 fold better.
This thread has been done so many times ...
and there hasn't been an answer yet everyone agrees with. To each their own.
and there hasn't been an answer yet everyone agrees with. To each their own.
daydreamer41 said:
.....because we want instant light without effort, meaning we only get an intensive flash, burning fast, leaving often an empty mind behind....
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Robertpal said:
I find your question interesting because I am in a situation where I should normally not hobby
. But I feel the need sometimes to meet with a lady with whom there's no attach at all, just having fun and forget about it later on. I used to rely on fckfriends for that, but most of the times, they ended up being possessive and always managed to crush the fun. I find that so magic to meet with a lady that's appealing to me, have fun with her for a short term, and continue my life as if nothing happened
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I haven't done it yet, but if you're doing it on a regular basis could it be because you have no other means of getting ass?
Without this devolving into a two-man show between me and Robertpal, I can say that yes, dating can definitely be quite lame if you count on it for consistent and dependable pussy. Seeing SPs is definitely a hell of a card in your back pocket. I can't imagine the number of times a woman pulled one of her love me or leave me tests early in the game, and I just said, "OK, I'll see you when you're ready to have fun" and high tailed out of there. My walking away never put the relationship in jeopardy. In fact, it upped their interest.
Because there is nothing better on TV...
Because it saves me the 3 hour dinner and the "oh that seems so complex and interesting" when I reall y don't give a s*** conversation...
Because it saves me the earache from all the loud noise in bars...
Because the SP will never want a baby from me...
Seriously: it's consumerism to its best: instant gratification, at almost any time of the day/ week with usually great cost/benefit value. And parallel to what Monk pointed out, when done with respect, it can be a lot of fun and a moment during which all your troubles stay at home --while you're at the hotel!!
Because it saves me the 3 hour dinner and the "oh that seems so complex and interesting" when I reall y don't give a s*** conversation...
Because it saves me the earache from all the loud noise in bars...
Because the SP will never want a baby from me...
Seriously: it's consumerism to its best: instant gratification, at almost any time of the day/ week with usually great cost/benefit value. And parallel to what Monk pointed out, when done with respect, it can be a lot of fun and a moment during which all your troubles stay at home --while you're at the hotel!!
Je suis exactement sur la meme ligne que toi là dessus. Mais j'ai vraiment été surpris d'entendre de la part de certains potes qu'ils cherchaient l'ame soeur en faisant ca. Je respecte leur opinion, mais il me semble qu'ils sont pas au bon endroit pour ca: l'ame soeur ca serait plutot l'apanage d'1 agence de rencontre. Bref, y'aura toujours de tout pour faire 1 monde.mazingerz said:
hard to manage but necessary!
I am allowed go to the carnal pleasure with an escort approximately one or two time a month. I feel sometime anxious, because I am married (9 years). I love my wife but... I know very well that she would know this she never forgive me (NEVER) and if she it the same thing I would become crazy too. I know that we are some in this situation, but I would like to know how you manage this? The idea that she know haunt me more and more but these moments helps me to relax and to be more productive in my everyday life, this switch is necessary for me.
I am allowed go to the carnal pleasure with an escort approximately one or two time a month. I feel sometime anxious, because I am married (9 years). I love my wife but... I know very well that she would know this she never forgive me (NEVER) and if she it the same thing I would become crazy too. I know that we are some in this situation, but I would like to know how you manage this? The idea that she know haunt me more and more but these moments helps me to relax and to be more productive in my everyday life, this switch is necessary for me.
Did i miss something? Isn't there an expression "back with a vengeance" that's often used to say "I'm back, alive and kicking"? Nothing bad until the acts prove a vengeance?
Just with what's here in this thread, at 12:21 EDT on Sunday, I don't see anything bad?
Feels like something we don't know is going on... It's some pretty stiff action for the original offenses and now, getting stiffer for what?
I don't know RobertPal outside the board, doesn't always agree with him but, I don't see why Mods are so harsh.
Just with what's here in this thread, at 12:21 EDT on Sunday, I don't see anything bad?
Feels like something we don't know is going on... It's some pretty stiff action for the original offenses and now, getting stiffer for what?
I don't know RobertPal outside the board, doesn't always agree with him but, I don't see why Mods are so harsh.
Robertpal is a guy with an unhealthy fascination about bareback sex. He seems to have an uncontrollable desire to offer a SP just about anything to achieve his goal. His being banned for 7 days is nothing. I feel this guy should be turfed off the boards permanently. If you take a look around the other community you will see what I mean.
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