Why posting the experience we have..???

[panthere]

i was thinking about that subject when one other member post that he did find the one....and didn't want too tell us...

i was at first judge too tell=(sorry dont find your thread)...why are you posting about it...keep it too yourself etc....

it took me time too clear my head and saying...Why should i post that i found the one..the sp who make me feel awesome and give amazing service too me etc...

ok i did find her via publicity etc.....but i did went too see her for myself...i did the encounter....etc...but i would like too keep it for MYSELF...not because i dont like too share...but in a strange way i dont .....it is veryyy weird feeling i have right now..

i know a couple of you don't post all the encounter that they do.....and if they find treasure they keep it too them....i am not that kind of a men...i like probably too much too give.....i am and always been like this....i am not rich..damn i would love too be cause i would give too the real person in need...the real one...

the bottom lines of my thread is

i don't know and i do know a little bite ...is whyyyyyyyyy should i post my comment too all of you...when almost nobody sometimes doesnt take the minute too say...good post...good story...good detail....thanks for sharing the info.....it is like...i am probably stupid too always give and give and give...and dont receive a hand shake...a good compliment....

i also know the NATURE OF GIVING...it is neverrrrrrrrrrrr to wait for receiving...but sometimes it is good too just be knowlegde....anyway...at least i gonna receive someday good KARMA...i hope...lolll...


so why should we post...why??

 

[lovelegs]

Would be weird if after a review we gonna read 20 posts with ty for your review, good job etc...

When i write a review i don't expect any compliment. And i hate when a thread is full of comments like that.

LL

 

[panthere]

i agreee lollll.. i am just thinking that i am wondering why posting....if a lot of you dont....but also pm exist for good review..etc......but in a way,...i am still wondering why...

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

It is better to post the experience you have with a SP compared to post on how great you think you are. Hard to be humble.

 

[panthere]

I believe the whole idea of merb is about posting our own encounters and experiences to help others get what they are looking for and avoid bad sp.

yes i have too say i agree with that..and for sure it is true...but when you do find one that is the top for now..do you post...or you dont..?

The better the reviews the better the cash flow ..

yes for sure...but i dont think all merb member are carefully reading all the review off the girls..but still good too know a bite of what the sp is like in the encounter..or i feel like a pimp lolllll or what..

Do you prefer that she sees no one but you and be touched by you and only you?

that is call a girlfriend...totally different story....lol

& remember every sp is a human being after all,

true..some of them have real feeling for sure...but still it is a business that i am wondering why posting....i think it is better too see the bad review or worst...then too publish them...i dont know anymore...i am in a dilemma lolll

 

[panthere]

I can understand your dilemma, it's part of our human nature, we tend to keep the best for ourselves... I would not blame you!!

yes i have too say...it is always still a dilemma....but it is not when i am not happy...but i still i remain correct in my post...but people who read me knows that something was wrong when i post about someone...and i didnt like...but still gave some..just some good points...

 

[panthere]

It is better to post the experience you have with a SP compared to post on how great you think you are. Hard to be humble.

how great i think i am....i think i gonna show it by not response too that comment....cause if i do...i would be ban for sure....

 

[Jaxan]

Without reviews, there is no MERB. Without MERB, there would be more B&S (maybe same amount, but they'd be more profitable...)

I also think that MERB, and similar review boards, have helped raise the standard on services provided. GFE, BBBJ, etc were less common, but are almost expected now.

Reviews are also beneficial to providers who are good at what they do, and helps raise awareness of their quality (or vice versa).

Obviously there are some who contribute more than others, but the hope is that there are enough willing to share their experiences. MERB and the reviews provided within, is just part of the ecosystem that has helped the Montreal SP scene flourish.

 

[BookerL]

Hi all and hi Panthere
Having myself been involve in the adult entertainment industry for many years I had the opportunity to view it from the inside witch way different from the outside !
The ladies that becomes SP might have different reason why they finally decided to make the big jump but there is one common denominator the money they make witch sometimes simply unbelievable I am not talking in hundreds of dollars a night but in thousands to achieve those numbers the ladies must be committed in offering a wide selections of services and to performed them as s..x.. goddess !
If they play the game right they notoriety increases more customers extra hours call backs good reviews and more its all about money .
Unfortunately the only thing that we can be sure of , that is real in this industry is the money !
It is call adult entertainment for obvious reasons ! Adults should make the difference between reality and phantasm,seduction from emotions ,excellent customer service from true friendship !!!The list goes on but you catch drift !!!
Keeping our emotions in neutral is vital to be able to continue hobbying or we risk emotional scars !
To post after a great encounter permits me to keep my emotions in check because I know that if I right a review of the skills of the young provider another hobbyist will be interested in her that is the reality of this business !!!!
Escort agencies are not dating agencies
Having heard many and many girls conversations immediately after they left a call I certainly understand the risk .
To say that no SP never gets attach to there customer isn't true but certainly risky !!!
To each there own choices
You are over Eighteen Panthere you know the risk only you can decide what is best for you
Best Regards

 

[panthere]

first thanks too all of you except one who response too this thread....
Jaxan i sooo much agree with you..and also i do understand very well bookerL your point of view and agree also..and yes sniff i am way past eighteen lolll...

 

[hungry101]

I like to post post about my encounter. I love to chronicle the events especially for some of the really unbelievable encounters I have had. I love to post on ISG when I can post about a hobby trip in one or two posts. I like to go back and read them once in awhile too. This keeps me from blabbing to friends or people at work and other non-hobbyists etc. I tell my friends on MERB or ISG and that is it.

I like to read other reviews and make mental notes of whom I would like to see next. Therefore, I think it is only fair that I leave some notes for others on how to go about this hobby and which girls to see and others to avoid.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I always post a review because of many reasons

1) I want to help her business, after all this is why she does it. And if she give me great services i think its only fair i return a little favor. Especially new girl, you have no idea how after 2 or 3 great review her business explode ... it helps a lot.

2) I want to give back to the community as well. I know these later years i have used mostly GG and im pretty sure to have a good experience there, but before GG there was a time when i checked up reviews, a lot, it was a huge part of my decision to see one specific girl

I think reviews are helpfull for both the SP and the customer and it would be a shame if too much people would be selective in giving them. I mean a bad SP encounter deserve a warning to avoid that girl, but a true grEAT SP deserve the little time it takes me to give her a good reviews. Some girl don't care about them, but some really check them and even try to improve on stuff members said...

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I would not believe a girl who says she does not care about her review...

Personally I am always surprise when I read mine, happy but surprise that someone would take the time to write a review,I am happy when they do but do not mind if they don't...

What I do mind is when someone goes so far at tell me he will not write a review because :'' I would then be too busy(!)...and he wants to keep me to himself...''..hum? No?

Jealousy is not endearing...I told that particular friend that green was not is color...

 

[panthere]

I so much agree with you halloween Mike....make good sense ...and Lily i love you'r comment but i am sad you don't like mister HULK in green lolll..btw i am happy that some of you sp ... like that we post and deserve it

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I guess Hulk would be the exception to my color green aversion loll

 

[tiannas]

Such a small percentage of clients actually post reviews, I've never asked them why they don't, I guess they have their reasons. I wish more would though...getting reviews is fun and exciting. I love to hear that I have made someone happy, to get positive feedback, and the additional publicity is really a great bonus.
As an indy, I think reviews can be even more important as I don't have a booker to recommend me, etc., all I have is my reputation, so having good reviews can be critical.

 

[panthere]

but also i have to say that no review is also good in a way..cause no complaint.:thumb:....but cool..cool...i am happy that you love it to....it give us reason to stilll post...thank you..huggs