Would you ever bring your GF to a threesome with a SP?
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I was told by some friends that as long as you(the only male in this threesome) give your nut butter to your girlfriend when you finish(finish with her) and not the other way around.
I did once & it went quite well. It helped that we had an open relationship & she knew about my life in the hobby. She was bi & was the one who brought up the idea. We had our threesome with an sp i had already met a couple of times. We set up a dinner beforehand & my girl liked her so she gave me the thumbs up. We broke up a few months later but it had nothing to do with the threesome.
A few years earlier another ex-gf & I had a threesome with a non-sp & things didn’t go as well. That’s why i had been apprehensive about repeating the experience. Why it went wrong? Jealousy maybe but more likely insecurity on the part of my gf. She thought i was giving too much attention to the other girl. She said it looked like i was having way too much fun. It was a mistake that we had a few drinks beforehand. Anyways it broke up her friendship with the other girl & the fault was my gf’s 100%. When we broke up a year later I ended up dating the other girl for a few weeks. We discussed having another threesome but it never happened because we couldn’t find the right partner.
As for a threesome with another man (2m1f) it came close with my regular sp at the time. I put some online ads saying my wife & I were looking for a straight male partner for a threesome. My email inbox was flooded with guys saying they were interested & most sent nude pics. My sp friend/regular & I made our decision & replied to three guys. The day of the threesome the first guy was a no-show. The next day we set it up with the next guy & he was also a no- show. A couple of days later we set it up with the third guy & he came up with some lame excuse at the last minute & cancelled. All three likely got cold feet which wasn’t surprising. The next day i had to leave town & when i returned a month later the sp in question had retired for good & had moved on with her life.
A few years earlier another ex-gf & I had a threesome with a non-sp & things didn’t go as well. That’s why i had been apprehensive about repeating the experience. Why it went wrong? Jealousy maybe but more likely insecurity on the part of my gf. She thought i was giving too much attention to the other girl. She said it looked like i was having way too much fun. It was a mistake that we had a few drinks beforehand. Anyways it broke up her friendship with the other girl & the fault was my gf’s 100%. When we broke up a year later I ended up dating the other girl for a few weeks. We discussed having another threesome but it never happened because we couldn’t find the right partner.
As for a threesome with another man (2m1f) it came close with my regular sp at the time. I put some online ads saying my wife & I were looking for a straight male partner for a threesome. My email inbox was flooded with guys saying they were interested & most sent nude pics. My sp friend/regular & I made our decision & replied to three guys. The day of the threesome the first guy was a no-show. The next day we set it up with the next guy & he was also a no- show. A couple of days later we set it up with the third guy & he came up with some lame excuse at the last minute & cancelled. All three likely got cold feet which wasn’t surprising. The next day i had to leave town & when i returned a month later the sp in question had retired for good & had moved on with her life.
Wouldn’t bother me as long as i get to approve who the other guy is or if it’s two other guys i must be allowed to watch. Being a voyeur gets me off as much & if it’s with a girl i know even better!
I have never done it but I would, with sex clubs and dating apps, Ive never felt the need to bring a casual encouter or gf to a SP
It would be a interesting experience to do it though, I would def want the role play of me and the SP to treat my date as the center of attention and all pleasure on them
It would be a interesting experience to do it though, I would def want the role play of me and the SP to treat my date as the center of attention and all pleasure on them
No If I am in a serious relationship then I don’t see anyone else and I don’t expect her to either.
I don’t cheat and I don’t share and I expect the same in return.
If I want a duo I will book 2 SP which I have done and ask the one I know to invite someone she would like to be with.
I don’t mix real and serious relationships with escorts and fantasies.
I don’t cheat and I don’t share and I expect the same in return.
If I want a duo I will book 2 SP which I have done and ask the one I know to invite someone she would like to be with.
I don’t mix real and serious relationships with escorts and fantasies.
Did it twice with a GF a few years back, her idea and with the same SP (my choosing, and still see her today) each time. Was one of the most memorable experiences of my life.
My GF at the time was bi-curious and although she dove right in (pun intended) she came out of it those experiences with a clear preference for men.
Hats off to the SP who was amazing with both her attentiveness and patience with my GF.
Was VERY hot watching the SP telling my GF how to do cunnilingus ( I learned something too ) and then watch them switch.
My GF at the time was bi-curious and although she dove right in (pun intended) she came out of it those experiences with a clear preference for men.
Hats off to the SP who was amazing with both her attentiveness and patience with my GF.
Was VERY hot watching the SP telling my GF how to do cunnilingus ( I learned something too ) and then watch them switch.
