I thought she would find it rude not saying her fake name but then again I go, “She never called me by mine”! She sees my name when i text!
You’re SP never calls you by you’re Name!
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What are you even talking about?
I hate to tell you, but she probably doesn’t even know your name she has you listed in her phone as some thing else that she might remember you by
Bingo! And it's still not really clear why he cares unless he is in love and in denial. Guys should not be involved as clients if their objective is to satisfy the need for romantic attention
interesting OP. I always use my real first name in this business, and i am a guy that repeats a lot. I know for a fact some of my regulars over the years knew my name very well, but they never verbalized it or even used it in texts...it has crossed my mind more than a few times that after a while it becomes a little strange to never use someone's name when you know it and see/text them regularly...But i always chalked it up to one of the 'quirks' of the business. In all my years, with all the repeats with girls that know me well and know my name, I never got a "Bonjour/hi (insert my name), how are you/comment ça va?'' 
I think it becomes too personal for them and they wanna avoid that can’t blame theminteresting OP. I always use my real first name in this business, and i am a guy that repeats a lot. I know for a fact some of my regulars over the years knew my name very well, but they never verbalized it or even used it in texts...it has crossed my mind more than a few times that after a while it becomes a little strange to never use someone's name when you know it and see/text them regularly...But i always chalked it up to one of the 'quirks' of the business. In all my years, with all the repeats with girls that know me well and know my name, I never got a "Bonjour/hi (insert my name), how are you/comment ça va?''
Look, I don’t know what to tell you.
Either she doesn’t know your name or she does and would rather not use it. In either case, you can resolve the issue by simply… talking to her. If you can discuss and agree on the weirdest kinks and fetishes prior to a session, I can’t imagine it’d be a problem to request being called by your name!
As far as texting with names… people would do well to remember that after all is said and done, this hobby is still a business. SPs have every reason to set clear boundaries. We’ve (sadly) all heard the stories. If they’d rather keep the tone courteous but strictly professional, take a hint and go with the flow.
Cheers!
Just texted her with hey! lol all settledLook, I don’t know what to tell you.
Either she doesn’t know your name or she does and would rather not use it. In either case, you can resolve the issue by simply… talking to her. If you can discuss and agree on the weirdest kinks and fetishes prior to a session, I can’t imagine it’d be a problem to request being called by your name!
As far as texting with names… people would do well to remember that after all is said and done, this hobby is still a business. SPs have every reason to set clear boundaries. We’ve (sadly) all heard the stories. If they’d rather keep the tone courteous but strictly professional, take a hint and go with the flow.
Cheers!
Exactly!interesting OP. I always use my real first name in this business, and i am a guy that repeats a lot. I know for a fact some of my regulars over the years knew my name very well, but they never verbalized it or even used it in texts...it has crossed my mind more than a few times that after a while it becomes a little strange to never use someone's name when you know it and see/text them regularly...But i always chalked it up to one of the 'quirks' of the business. In all my years, with all the repeats with girls that know me well and know my name, I never got a "Bonjour/hi (insert my name), how are you/comment ça va?''
As was already mentioned most girls assume we are using fake names and act accordingly.
I find it sexy, but to have a positive response there must be an agreement. Funny enought not only PSE and domination but also GFE can be sprinkled with some kinky between cuddle.
Well, at least its only if the SPs agree!
It's funny I noticed recently the agency SPs I see usually ask my name at the first meeting and then its never brought up again.
I'm pretty sure they know I'm not giving out my real first name anyway...
Some SPs introduce themselves (with their fake names) when they arrive and i just reply with my first real name, as it kinda feel weird calling myself "Mike". Even when we were doing GTs and peoples called me that, it always felt weird. The little story (in short) is that when i signed up here i used the first random thing that pass in my mind, as i had no idea what Merb truly was and was "shy" of using my usual internet moniker. Considering it was 2009 i guess i may had watched Rob Zombie's Halloween not long ago...
Beside that i rarely had SPs call me by name during the session because it usually never mean sense? You can say "Do you want a glass of water" without saying "Hey Mike, do you want a glass of water?". Even myself the only time i would use their names is if something is off in the bathroom and i need them to come so i will just say "Name, can you come here a minute?" But thats about it. Im not the guy to moan names during sex or whatever.
Personally im not a fan of "babe, Cherie" or any similar names either by text or during a session. It feel too much "business" and unnatural. Like strip club style. It won't be a deal breaker if they do but not a fan...
Beside that i rarely had SPs call me by name during the session because it usually never mean sense? You can say "Do you want a glass of water" without saying "Hey Mike, do you want a glass of water?". Even myself the only time i would use their names is if something is off in the bathroom and i need them to come so i will just say "Name, can you come here a minute?" But thats about it. Im not the guy to moan names during sex or whatever.
Personally im not a fan of "babe, Cherie" or any similar names either by text or during a session. It feel too much "business" and unnatural. Like strip club style. It won't be a deal breaker if they do but not a fan...
Lol... it isn't personal.
Even before getting into this line of work, I could go weeks or months not able to remember a friend's name. I just can't retain names. In most cases someone tells me their name, and 2 minutes later I have forgotten. Not that they aren't important or because they don't matter, they do. It just isn't how my brain works. The content of someone and who they are matters more to me. In school it was a win if by June I finally remembered everyone's name in a class of 30 people.
Even before getting into this line of work, I could go weeks or months not able to remember a friend's name. I just can't retain names. In most cases someone tells me their name, and 2 minutes later I have forgotten. Not that they aren't important or because they don't matter, they do. It just isn't how my brain works. The content of someone and who they are matters more to me. In school it was a win if by June I finally remembered everyone's name in a class of 30 people.
This.^^^^ I give people I see nicknames that remind me who they are. Some even get to know their nickname. And often approve of it, for those i am willing to share it with. They know me and understand that I can't retain names to save my life, and often are flattered when I feel close enough to them to let them see the name I give them. They get that for me my nicknames are more personal than having 10 David's, 20 Jason's, 25 Mohammed's, and the countless names I couldn't even pronounce if I tried. It personalizes them, as a single person, to me, often highlighting a positive thing about them or how i see them. Negative names are not repeated, it means I didn't like them.
And why not? Some men are looking for just that. Someone who can make them feel cared for when they are with them, as opposed to just carnal pleasures. The world is harsh and crule, and everyone likes a soft place to not have to be guarded for a change. My definition of GFE. Not a list of acronyms, but an atmosphere in personalities.
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