Ooooookkkkayyyyyyy very long post here I feel like typing but I have things to do today and a life to live (lol)...so I will just give one flat out example of what I mean in the title....those who enjoy second degrees humour and irony will find it quite funny and interesting...the others won't...but I might not like the others as well so I will still share my little observation lol
As far as I can remember, I never got the point of calling it GFE/PSE and complaining when the girl is not Professional enough...isn't a GF supposed to act like a pro???
Recently, I have read on the board guys complaining about indies referring to talking with their receptionnists in order to book something with them....I might bug some of you...but I am sure the majority favorise this over seeing his Partner of the moment being on her cell phone because she has to earn her life...don't you think so?
I am aware I did create some hard feelings is some of you due of my lack of responses....and I gave my apologies in my thread ( as I explained with more détails to those I have seen)....most of you forgave me right away since you haven't thought I had many priorities above the board...but very few didn't...the funniest part is those few ones are the same who complained about talking to a receptionnist....
Last week, in my PMs flooding (lol...I am referring to my inbox...), I did read a pm that start without manners...but as raw as:
"Maybe if you gave us contact informations, you would look moe reliable..,,,and your rates would avoid you to hide you are pricey etc" and it goes on and on and on and on for about 30 lines....to basically say I do not look like a poifessional!"
My answer looked like:"Hell'ooo [handle],
Well, thank you for your clever advices....but save yourself your time and energy for those who ask for opinions... My Alyssa's account says I am on merb since 2012, but I started to be on the board with another handle as far as 2005.... And I still have my reviews thread when I was stripping back in 2009...and a new thread that just started as a courtesan.... so I think I am quite reliable...
But please, tell me where have you read me pretending of being Professional and/or complaining about not "working" enough that gave you the need of helping me to make more money?? Because this is definitly NOT the image I want to give as it is far from the reality and I can assure you I would not be bragging about being a pro...BUT if you do read my ads:
"Just a friendly reminder: I am not a typical SP as I am not earning my life from it, so I don't have to see few lovers daily to live a comfortable life: I would definitely describe myself as a Fantasy fulfilling Minx (as mentionned Under my handle) over "a courtesan" since I consider MERB more of an hobby than a job!! I just think being Alyssa one more time is an amazing way of combining business with pleasure!
Many of you got this point...but some missed the part where I can take a while before responding to our few first messages... It doesn't mean my lovers need to look like Brad Pitt and/or I will have to see their personal incomes/pedigree, give them 4 personality tests they will have to fill out before scheduling anything intimate or that I am disrespectful towards them (it is even the opposite as I really take time to read and to give the best answer that will be as honest as possible).... I just have many responsabilities that just can't be merged with this uncommon hobby of mine..
... So I gues I am, perhaps, definitely NOT the type of companion to contact in order to see me within few hours or for a 15-30 minutes date!
What I just wrote also means I have a carreer in the psychology field and this, by itself, is the main reason of all the blurred information towards my pictures contacts informations/website. [...]"
So, I am sorry if I overestimated my English here...french is my first language, but since I just reread this part as I copy/paste it here..I can't see where I could have muskead readers by giving the impression of being easy to book and not taking long to respond...especially since my goal is not to see one client per day (maybe one on 2-3-4 days...depends on my weekly Schedule), I will favorise longer dates...and if I am with someone for few hours, I won't start to read my messages, so many of men who wrote me might wait few days....because I am way too respectful to the person I accepted to spend intimate moments with and even more when it comes to my children or family...Sex should be done by pleasure only, not by needs...so I can't see the reason of being rushed other than a possible tourist who wants to see me before the end of his trip....but my lifestyle doesn't allow spontaneous things so what else can I tell you.........
And finally, I won't ever pay a receptionnist to book my intimacy, this is my accountabilities...but... It is quite of an utopian view of thinking I can asnwer my mails AND share encounters with men....
So far he hasn't replied me.....but as the least Professional advertising here (and proud of it! lol since I never described myself as an escort...because I do know and assume I am more of an edgy Minx who like uncommon fun and who is just too busy to let a man get in my life right now so I get my fun on the board... "If you are good at something, do not do it for free.." the Joker said... lol...I can tell you there are many contrasictions between what men are requesting from a SP...and what they are complaining about.... Maybe you will tell me we aren't any better on our side...I am more than interested of knowing your perceptions of this and our femaleness contradictions (if I might say)... so go ahead, I am all jhear...
...and this just reminded me of replying my PMs...at least few of them...and hopefully get the all responses done by tonight..
:angel:
As far as I can remember, I never got the point of calling it GFE/PSE and complaining when the girl is not Professional enough...isn't a GF supposed to act like a pro???
Recently, I have read on the board guys complaining about indies referring to talking with their receptionnists in order to book something with them....I might bug some of you...but I am sure the majority favorise this over seeing his Partner of the moment being on her cell phone because she has to earn her life...don't you think so?
I am aware I did create some hard feelings is some of you due of my lack of responses....and I gave my apologies in my thread ( as I explained with more détails to those I have seen)....most of you forgave me right away since you haven't thought I had many priorities above the board...but very few didn't...the funniest part is those few ones are the same who complained about talking to a receptionnist....
Last week, in my PMs flooding (lol...I am referring to my inbox...), I did read a pm that start without manners...but as raw as:
"Maybe if you gave us contact informations, you would look moe reliable..,,,and your rates would avoid you to hide you are pricey etc" and it goes on and on and on and on for about 30 lines....to basically say I do not look like a poifessional!"
My answer looked like:"Hell'ooo [handle],
Well, thank you for your clever advices....but save yourself your time and energy for those who ask for opinions... My Alyssa's account says I am on merb since 2012, but I started to be on the board with another handle as far as 2005.... And I still have my reviews thread when I was stripping back in 2009...and a new thread that just started as a courtesan.... so I think I am quite reliable...
But please, tell me where have you read me pretending of being Professional and/or complaining about not "working" enough that gave you the need of helping me to make more money?? Because this is definitly NOT the image I want to give as it is far from the reality and I can assure you I would not be bragging about being a pro...BUT if you do read my ads:
"Just a friendly reminder: I am not a typical SP as I am not earning my life from it, so I don't have to see few lovers daily to live a comfortable life: I would definitely describe myself as a Fantasy fulfilling Minx (as mentionned Under my handle) over "a courtesan" since I consider MERB more of an hobby than a job!! I just think being Alyssa one more time is an amazing way of combining business with pleasure!
Many of you got this point...but some missed the part where I can take a while before responding to our few first messages... It doesn't mean my lovers need to look like Brad Pitt and/or I will have to see their personal incomes/pedigree, give them 4 personality tests they will have to fill out before scheduling anything intimate or that I am disrespectful towards them (it is even the opposite as I really take time to read and to give the best answer that will be as honest as possible).... I just have many responsabilities that just can't be merged with this uncommon hobby of mine..
... So I gues I am, perhaps, definitely NOT the type of companion to contact in order to see me within few hours or for a 15-30 minutes date!What I just wrote also means I have a carreer in the psychology field and this, by itself, is the main reason of all the blurred information towards my pictures contacts informations/website. [...]"
So, I am sorry if I overestimated my English here...french is my first language, but since I just reread this part as I copy/paste it here..I can't see where I could have muskead readers by giving the impression of being easy to book and not taking long to respond...especially since my goal is not to see one client per day (maybe one on 2-3-4 days...depends on my weekly Schedule), I will favorise longer dates...and if I am with someone for few hours, I won't start to read my messages, so many of men who wrote me might wait few days....because I am way too respectful to the person I accepted to spend intimate moments with and even more when it comes to my children or family...Sex should be done by pleasure only, not by needs...so I can't see the reason of being rushed other than a possible tourist who wants to see me before the end of his trip....but my lifestyle doesn't allow spontaneous things so what else can I tell you.........
And finally, I won't ever pay a receptionnist to book my intimacy, this is my accountabilities...but... It is quite of an utopian view of thinking I can asnwer my mails AND share encounters with men....
So far he hasn't replied me.....but as the least Professional advertising here (and proud of it! lol since I never described myself as an escort...because I do know and assume I am more of an edgy Minx who like uncommon fun and who is just too busy to let a man get in my life right now so I get my fun on the board... "If you are good at something, do not do it for free.." the Joker said... lol...I can tell you there are many contrasictions between what men are requesting from a SP...and what they are complaining about.... Maybe you will tell me we aren't any better on our side...I am more than interested of knowing your perceptions of this and our femaleness contradictions (if I might say)... so go ahead, I am all jhear...
...and this just reminded me of replying my PMs...at least few of them...and hopefully get the all responses done by tonight..
:angel:
