I just asking you guys out there what are the pitfalls besides geting caught by your wife or girlfreind after its made clear what the ground rules are for both.This is something I have been thinking about for awhile.
naughtylady said:Think fatal attraction.
A favorite escort is less dangerous (she wont try to contact your wife) and you can still develop a relationship over time...
Ronnie,
Naughtylady
maximus said:I just asking you guys out there what are the pitfalls besides geting caught by your wife or girlfreind after its made clear what the ground rules are for both.This is something I have been thinking about for awhile.
Roland said:This is seriously perplexing to me .
There comes a point that we need "real" romance and affection... along with the sexual passion and we are willing to risk it all. (Short term "fantasy" romance is fine too with one of our fine fine SP's right here... as long as we don't have unrealistic expectations.)
It may be worth it if we finally connect with someone special.
I guess that this comes after many years of "hanging in there" for the sake of the family and our own stability.