Hi guys and gals
Reading a recent review of Annabelle of SD/Montreal's secret, it reminded me of something:
After seeing a few SP in the last while, I only met 1 who could tell me how she liked to be touched by men. In years of SC, only met 1 dancer who could do so.
True, these ladies are seeing us for our pleasure and the money we give them but, no matter what, I can't resolve myself to consider them as a commodity only there to please me so, I like to do whatever possible to make her enjoy our meeting.
Of course, they often see multiple guys in a short time frame and can't orgasm every time (for most) but, I feel I still need to make her feel good.
That lady who could communicate turned a cold start (shy girl) into a real firework. No need for fireworks everytime but knowing the lady is somewhat enjoying herself is good, without the fake moans as soon as you get within 2 feets of her!
So guys, generally, do you prefer to have a lady who can guide you towards her "buttons" or you prefer to have your fun and don't care. Do you prefer the chase and learn the "buttons" yourself? Do you get turn-off when a lady tell you what to do to please her?
Personally, I'm a firm believer in giving first, trusting my turn will come if I please the lady. I love being told what she likes and don't hesitate telling her what I like but when asked, some ladies say "your doing good, keep going" but what you read in their attitude is "whatever, (yawn) are we done?" I know some of what I'm doing is good but no 2 ladies are alike so, a bit of guidance is good!