Ok Hi just want to get some advice here if anyone can give me some serious take on this.
I went to a birthday party last Saturday and it was for my sister , people in her office put the party on.The three main people to put this party of 30 persons were my girlfriend ,and the other 2 girls in the office.
I got along very well with one of the girls that works with my sister and girlfriend in the office.We clicked automatically friend wise and she made place for me next to my girlfriend and her(lets call her Nat).She is very friendly and we both were comfortable talking to each other.
She is a comfort to the eyes, later on in the night I told her out of no disrespect for our partners(she is with a guy 3 years now ,me 17 years) that she is very pretty, she looked surprised i told her this but also said thanks and was shy,embarrassed I said it.
I told her I loved brunettes and she had a thumbs up on this since there were 5 blondes at the next table.
Anyways I might seem like an ass , since my girlfriend was there but I can't seem to get her out of my head since.
She has been with her present boyfriend 3 years like I said but also has 2 kids with another guy whom she was with 6 years .She was treated like shit by him after the 2nd kid so she left.
I feel like sending her an e-mail but my sister and girlfriend work in same office as her.
Should I leave things alone or write her to at least tell her I'd like to be good friends with her?
Any help appreciated.Thks