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    I'm a virgin

    Hi guys. I just turned 20 and like the title says, I still haven't gotten laid. I need your advice. Is it a bad idea for your first time to be with an escort? Please, I'm at whit's end here. Thanks

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    getting laid and getting some confidence is probably more important. so no - its not a bad idea.

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    No, it's not a bad idea. Why are you asking? What are your concerns? It's not like any girl you might end up with in the future has been saving it for you. It's not 1950. Girls don't do that anymore. She's probably getting drilled right now by some douchebag and has probably already done the equivalent of a hockey team. Go even the score so you don't feel like a total loser the first time you're with someone you actually like. Besides, the fact that she will have been with more people than you will most likely bother you and make you feel emasculated. Better to get the kinks out with an SP or two or ten and build your confidence. Women like confidence. Just don't ever admit to having been with SPs, otherwise you'll probably get the boot. Women just don't understand that free sex is a lot harder to come by for Average Joe than it is for Average Jane. You waited long enough, and it just didn't happen. Time for Plan B.

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    Hi Muncie .. Or muncus......
    It's great to speak to a virgin... I'm so used to talking with old pervs...
    First of all before you embark on this journey I'd like to leave you with a quote young dragon

    ' may you let your inner dragon.. Suck on the blood of chickens, until the egg is left without yolk'

    now for your question.....
    If you choose the right girl it could be better than any of your wildest , most perverted dreams..!
    If you make the wrong choice:...? Well let's just say you might lean towards men when the smoke clears...!!

    I might pm you a few names to check out...
    Don't be ashamed in telling the lady that it's your first time...
    Think hard about how you envision the moment..?
    Would you like something sensual, slow and more passionate..?
    Or do you want something more hard and intense.. Something you'd see in a movie perhaps..?

    Ultimately on this realm, with all due respect .. Your the boss.!
    You can get it any way you want it..and any style of girl to fit your desires..
    you just have to know who to see for what..
    "Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going"

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    Muncus, I'm glad you asked this question at the beginning stage of your adult life. There are 2 paths you can take to lose your virginity. One is to have a girlfirend either around your age or younger and lose it with her. Or two, hire an sp and easily lose it that way.

    There are pro's & con's to both paths.
    Girlfriend approach: PRO- you can get comfortable with her, she would understand it's your 1st time
    - you can continue having sex with your gf as many times as you want after
    - you'll always remember your first
    - costs you little or nothing, just your time and effort.
    - you will gain more experience when you get older with other encounters

    CON- she might not have a enough sexual experience that would make it amazing
    - you might not feel self confident about this first sexual experience with her

    SP approach: PRO- you can choose any hottie you desire to break the ice
    - The sp is more sexually experienced
    - she will try to make you comfortable, it's her profession
    - it will only cost a one time fee, depending on rate & time

    CON - "YOU MIGHT GET ADDICTED"
    - You might fall into a bad experience, which happens half the time, it's a HIT & MISS.
    - In the future when your friends ask you how you lost your virginity and you respond with a hooker, it might not be memorable.

    I could be wrong but this is my opinion, take it or leave it, If I could go back in the past, I would slap myself. I won't tell you why. You be the judge of your on destiny.

    Time out.
    Last edited by Kareem Justin Cider; 10-05-2010 at 08:31 PM. Reason: mistake
    The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Muncus View Post
    Hi guys. I just turned 20 and like the title says, I still haven't gotten laid. I need your advice. Is it a bad idea for your first time to be with an escort? Please, I'm at whit's end here. Thanks
    Sounds like me from the seventies

    I agree with red, Aeolus, and Ricky. Good advice from all of them. The only thing I might add is to just remember that seeing an SP is a Girl Friend Experience, she is only your girlfriend while she is with you. Go for it, Muncus, you are way overdue. Welcome to MERB.
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    No problem losing your virginity to an SP. I lost mine at 22 to an SP and back then there was no MERB it was just an ad out of the newspaper. Lucky for me it worked out fine and the girl was really sweet.

    I agree with everything mentioned above. But beware that once you get your hands in the cookie jar for one cookie you'll want them all!
    "Just When I Thought I Was Out.....They Pull Me Back In!!!"

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    i was also wondering if it's a good idea to lose your virginity to an escort. i'm 21 and im also a virgin. Well i have a fleslight lol thats it. i'm a nice guy and all but i'm too busy to have a girl friend and i'm pretty shy. I'm open for suggestions, i need someone slow, passionate and very sensuel. Not someone intense.

    thanks alot guys.

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    For my French friends

    Salut Muncie .. Ou muncus ...... C'est génial de parler d'une vierge ... Je suis tellement habitué à parler avec pervs vieille ... Tout d'abord avant de vous lancer sur ce chemin, je voudrais vous laisser avec un dragon cite jeunes peuvent vous laissez votre dragon intérieure .. Sucer le sang des poulets, jusqu'à ce que l'œuf est laissé sans jaune 'maintenant à votre question ..... Si vous choisissez la bonne fille ça pourrait être mieux que n'importe lequel de vos plus folles, les rêves les plus pervers ..! Si vous faites le mauvais choix :...? Eh bien, laissez-moi vous dire que vous seriez peut se pencher vers les hommes, quand la fumée se dissipe ...!! Je pourrais vous h quelques noms pour vérifier ... N'ayez pas honte de dire à la dame que c'est votre première fois ... Réfléchissez sur la façon dont vous envisagez l'.. moment? Souhaitez-vous quelque chose de sensuel, lent et plus passionné ..? Ou voulez-vous quelque chose de plus dur et intense .. Quelque chose que vous verriez dans un film peut-être ..? En fin de compte sur ce domaine, avec tout le respect .. Votre patron.! Vous pouvez obtenir n'importe quelle manière que vous le voulez .. et tout style de fille pour répondre à vos désirs .. il vous suffit de savoir à qui s'adresser pour ce ..
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    Here is my thinking on the Matter. No it is not a bad idea to have your first experience with a pro. Get the other guys to help you out to find a gentle SP for sex or a masseuse to have you first massage and HJ experience. Tell the lady that it is your first time and you want to learn from the experience, just lay back and let her do all the work. Anything else you need to learn will be in future lessons.

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    Exclamation The difference between a girlfriend and an SP !!!

    After a few years of looking around strip clubs and escorts I finally decided to start with SP last January.
    I probably saw 6 or 7 different ones so far.
    I don't know if I am not lucky or what but each time I find a SP that I found attractive she's rarely at work, she is not available when I call (sick, leave early, ect...), and she does stop working not too long after one or two months.
    So I end up with another girl that the agency (places like QOS or Chloe's playground) have available that night
    From my experiences none of them were my type and most of them didn't enjoy sex like they are advertising (cut the mood, extras, teaching, talking too much, ect…)

    Remember one thing… Sex with SP’s will never be the same as being with your girlfriend.
    The difference…
    With a girl you like you can have sex and being in the mood for 2 or 3 hrs none stop
    With an SP her goal is to make you cum once or twice… no mood

    Now it's your choice
    Last edited by Steve.; 10-06-2010 at 01:46 PM.

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    Tell us what you want to know before you try some practical experience.

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    I'm sorry to hear about that Steve dot...
    But thAt's not the way it's supposed to happen...
    I have a good friend that's in the same boat.... Always getting ripped off , taken advantage of etc..
    I think it has to do with his character around girls...hes soft.
    Maybe he's seen as an easy mark..? A quick buck.?
    ....
    "Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going"

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    I understand it's rare to really connect with a sex provider,..*
    It doesn't happen to everyone..maybe it's due to looks, hygiene, age*
    Or ones ability to charm a lady..?
    ... But it does happen..
    "Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going"

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    Remember one thing… Sex with SP’s will never be the same as being with your girlfriend.
    And sex with a SP will never be the same as sex with yourself.

    If this guy had an obvious choice (GF v. SP), he wouldn't be posting here. His choice seems to be jerking off or SP.

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