I think your self assessment is prescient. This lifestyle is not for you.
Is it possible to befriend an escort?
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I have a handful of friends who used to escort and we remained friends, some got hitched and have kids, you know the whole real life thingie.
Friends outside the SP business? From my experience, I'll say no.
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How old R U &what U do in life. Yr chance is at the bottom of the ladder ,This is hobby not even a wish,just a leisure thing even less than finding a parking in centre Ville never mind other hustle bustle ,jostle of life !
No there is one that I know who is a total angel an actual Dream Princess, fairy tales don’t make them like her.
It is possible but it would require time and personalities would have to click. Having a friend with no ulterior motive is not always so simple. It is best to keep in mind that the SP is there to offer a service with expected compensation.
Your age says you’re only 22. If that’s accurate, I think the answer for you is no. I believe you should invest your time and energy trying to make friends organically outside paying for sex and companionship. Why do you want to be friends specifically with escorts you’re seeing? Do you already find it hollow to just have sex with a complete stranger?
Run.
Run for your life.
Seriously you could use you effort to find real love instead.
Run for your life.
Seriously you could use you effort to find real love instead.
It's the fact I've not been able to even formulate many friendships due to the ongoing conditions of my life. Mostly been introverted, not having been sure how the hell I can make new acquaintances when I never actively sought them; they just simply happened.
I don't know how to find friends with benefits, nor do I really know how to make friends in general. It just seems to be out of tangible control, and from the looks of it, the only people that seem more proficient in the sexual side are escorts. Or SPs, whichever the term.
Haven't found any so far, sadly. In terms of romantic experiences, mine have been rather bad, if nothing short of abusive and traumatic due to who I ended up with.
Perhaps not, maybe certainly not. But I wouldn't wish to pass it up without trying first.
Of course, it may also be doomed from the start if I try. I simply don't know.
If you're not attractive enough and dont have a big D then friendship is as far as you will get and even that is rare.
Spoken like a man, lol. Women generally care less about looks than personality and being treated right. Looks do matter but they aren't everything. And most of us really don't care about dick size as much as you guys do. The idea that you need a big D to charm a woman comes from other men. Many women prefer an average dick. Size queens exist but they are not the majority... And for an escort, it matters even less. A big D does not really impress us.
That being said, this thread is unhinged. Escorts are offering a service, this isn't a dating app. I do consider some of my clients like friends, but this would never happen with somebody like OP who makes it a goal from the beginning. No thanks.
If you can't make friends in the real world I'm not sure what makes you think an escort will befriend you - we aren't that different from other women. The only difference is we get paid for intimacy/companionship.
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That! That!
It seems, from reading the threads on merb, that a lot of johns(of course not all) are totally awkward and socially unfit, or deeply unconsciously misogynist. I regularly get flabbergasted and speechless when I read some comments expressed openly on the board, I find it scary.
Impossible? No. But very rare IMO.
It happened to me though. We even dated and are still friends today.
It happened to me though. We even dated and are still friends today.
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