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Thread: "MERB vs MERC vs MM" and "Vote To Ban All Reference To The Blueboard. "

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    Question "MERB vs MERC vs MM" and "Vote To Ban All Reference To The Blueboard. "

    How do most MERB members feel about the never-ending public disputes between MERB and MERC, and sometimes MM?

    I am curious about how most MERB members feel about the never-ending public disputes between MERB and MERC, and sometimes MM?

    Here is my position:

    I am a member of all three boards. I joined all three for the same reasons:

    1. To read reviews of SPs and MPs, so as to maximize my hobbying experience. I have tried to contribute as much as posssible to each board, recognizing that the the value of any review board depends on the contribution of it's membership.

    2. To gain access to the viewpoint of SPs and MPs and to interact online with SPs and MPs. I believe that one thing that the Montreal boards have in common, compared with escort boards in Ontario, elsewhere in Canada, and in the US, is the lack of participation of SPs and MPs. Despite this fact, incredibly, one of the three boards has in fact taken actions to stiffle the participation of providers! (not MERB BTW).

    3. To share experiences and advice with fellow hobbyists. Escort review boards are one of the few places where hobbyists can share their successes and failures with each other, and provide much needed advice and assistance.

    To me, each of the three boards have their own strengths and weaknesses, with regards to: respect of fellow members, friendliness, overall tone, respect and empathy towards SPs and MPs, opportunity to interact with SPs and MPs, flexiblity and responsiveness of Mods, particpation levels,frequency of reviews, etc. I could rate each of the three boards on these varous attributes, and overall. However, this is not my intention. To me, membership and affliation in one board does not exclude the other two. To me, it is not a Canadiens-Nordiques, ferderalist-independentist type divide. Therefore, the disputes between MERB/MERB/MM often seem pettty and silly to me.

    I would therefore be interested in how other MERB members feel with respect to this issue.

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    I share pretty much your general feelings Robin, though I am not a member of the other forums, because I just read them very occasionnaly.
    I agrre also that with reading lots of posts, you learn to read between the lines and know the tone of the posters.. you know what to take with a grain of salt or seriously.
    I just avoid reading these threads on one vs the other and who said what on the other board. I also laugh at the posters who take time to express their disbelief at whatever is posted "there" (there being not on the board where the discussion is taking place).

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    I have been ignoring the petty and silly disputes for months... until yesterday, when somone revealed someone else's identity (while some mods just stood by)

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    What is MM?

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    Quote Originally Posted by RobinX View Post
    How do most MERB members feel about the never-ending public disputes between MERB and MERC, and sometimes MM?

    I am curious about how most MERB members feel about the never-ending public disputes between MERB and MERC, and sometimes MM?

    .
    I read all boards, use to write my rare reviews here.
    why?
    because this is the place where i can get information, and it's the only thing i look for. Quality encounters.
    I appreciate some posters here (thanks to those in the massage scene who gave me great advices, pm or public), and want to give back to those who helped me.

    concerning all this drama, i can't help but find it dollsome. Everyone speaks about "legal issues" , privacy, reputation dammages, when clearly 98% of those claims don't make any sense, be it in a civil court or criminal allegations. Some people should look elswhere than Claude Poirier or wikipedia for legal counsel.

    I don't participate on the blue board, simply cause there's no credible information for me.
    MM, like the board, but don't think about it often.
    This board ? to be honest, i log in less and less, for a few reasons.
    -I think the moderation changed in a few years (my humble opinion, don't wanna start a debate and respect the current rules, even if i don't agree with some current rules or way they are enforced now.)
    -i don't read the blue board cause of all the drama and bullshit. guess what i see here now?

    so to sum up.....i contributed my rare reviews here. don't know what i will do in the future. but one thing is sure, i won't go post it on the other board...
    so please....let's settle this, and have fun with women, shall we?

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    Hello likeit,

    I would like to address just one point in your post regarding moderation and board rules. Yes moderation has changed over the years as it has had to adapt to the ever changing nature of the board in general. The same applies to making new rules or enforcing them. We are always open to listen to any member's ideas or criticism of both these things.

    To give just a couple of examples of how we listen to our members:

    The No Review Policy. The NRP originally was available to any provider who requested it. Members complained that it could be used to hide from bad reviews or by agencies using bait and switch tactics. Due to these concerns, we modified the policy and it is now only available to SPs who are leaving the business or who can prove personal safety concerns. No actively advertising SP may be granted a NRP now. Members spoke and we listened to their concerns and made the necessary changes.

    We also instituted a 2 day suspension for members who post information requests that include a link to non-advertising providers. This was done after concerns expressed by advertisers that such posts were commonly being made by new members for the sole purpose of getting free advertising for the provider in the link being posted. This was unfair to all the advertisers who pay to advertise and support this board and make this community possible.

    These are just two of the more visible adaptations that have been instituted due to member concerns. Like any community, MERB is always in flux. We are always ready to listen to members' concerns regarding our rules and moderation. All anyone need do is use the PM function and let us know your ideas or concerns. There is also the MERB Suggestion thread which we read every time there is a new post. Mods are not psychic and the only way we can know what members want is if they tell us.

    Mod 8

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    Quote Originally Posted by daydreamer41 View Post
    What is MM?
    I have no clue myself. Never heard of MM. Anyone?
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    Typical Yankee fan in the Merb Sports Section!! Bwwaahh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 10-4Roger View Post
    Knowing that on internet the "value" of a site is based on the "loyalty" of those visiting the site, any and all discussion about other boards should not be allowed.
    It is a question of respect. If someone shops at Walmart and has bad experience I do not see the point to go at Sears and complaint about Walmart.
    I agree fully here. I find it amusing that Mods here kicked out a binch of people for starting flaming wars withing MERB... but now there seems to be a flaming war going on 'cross boards!! So ... doesn't it defeat the intial purpose? No comprendo...

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    Thank you for starting this thread RobinX, much appreciated.

    Been a member of both boards for quite some time now, as with RobinX, my main motivation
    for consulting review boards is to gain info and insight into lady companion’s disposition and
    appreciation (reviews) of other contributors. This to maximize my chances of having a good
    and satisfying encounter, the rest is just noise to me. Its crystal clear that one of the 2 boards
    as not much pertinent info to offer, being ruled by overbearing chatters with many issues that
    uses the boards to vent and/or create a “readership” as one puts it (too funny and pathetic –
    this is said without PREJUDICE, ROFLOL) contributing no usable pertinent info, but its sometime
    mildly entertaining. (by the way what’s MM, any pertinent reviews ?)

    Couldn’t care less about the current feud or any other for that matter, obviously if one can make
    a case that privilege or personal information was broadcasted over the Net potentially damaging
    ones character and reputation then they should take it to the authorities. I would imagine
    that adding fuel to the perceived fire by the ones affected will potentially lessen your chances
    to prevail in a court of Law.

    But who cares, I don’t need to read this endless chatter, its way passed entertaining.

    Ban advertisers because you don’t like what others are saying on a competing board, really!
    MSC/SD is regarded by this board membership as are one of the top agencies in Montreal.

    https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread...highlight=poll

    I’ve called on their services on many occasions pre and post of this “boycott” why ?
    Not because they advertise on the Evil empire board, it’s a free society you know, they can
    spend their advertising dollars where they see fit. Because they’re easy & pleasant to do
    business with, their team is composed of lady companions that meet my likings and provide
    a great experience. That’s it!

    Should there be more than these reasons?
    Don’t believe so

    Did MSC/SD do something illegal according to Canada’s and Quebec laws?
    No

    Take your feud to court already! And stop polluting the boards with yours endless & useless
    chatter/rants.

    It’s counterproductive to the mission of the boards, which is, if some of you guys actually
    forgot, to review/share with others members your appreciations of lady companion’s services
    we’ve met, so we can all benefit.

    FYI, if you must know, I will call on MSC/SD again, maybe even more so with the announcement
    of boycott v2.0 (LOL) promoted by a VERY LIMITED disgruntled members.

    Definitively need to figure out how the ignore list works.
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    i have visited all three boards regularly. overall, merb provides the largest collection of useful information and i have generally found the posters to be reliable. montreal massage (mm) provides good information regarding the massage scence, especially for some select mps not covered by merb. the amount of useful information at merc has continually declined to the point that i visit it less frequently.

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    Yeah ok, but where and when does it Stop?!

    Quote Originally Posted by Mod 8 View Post

    I would like to address just one point in your post regarding moderation and board rules. Yes moderation has changed over the years as it has had to adapt to the ever changing nature of the board in general. The same applies to making new rules or enforcing them. We are always open to listen to any member's ideas or criticism of both these things.

    Mod 8
    I understand that you as Mod most adapt the board according to changes foereseen by members, usually for the better. But changes in nature, I don't get it.

    The first time I've found and appreciated the boards was in 2004. Blue came out first, but a couple of months of research later, green appeared. Which one of the two was more appealing? Green of course, due to simplicity, completeness and more reviews and advertisers. The seriousness of the reviews or discussions as well as moderation then was in fact way better on green than on blue. Don't get me wrong though, I didn't despise Blue then, I've just found that Green was a couple of notch better.

    Nonetheless, more members joined Green, quality of reviews dropped, and here we are with a drama, war, rains of insults and accusation of all sorts. It's worst then a pissing contest. And with that, you are trying to pull innocent people with you in this non-sense. Even the Moderators don't moderate. Well, they do. But not as it should be expected. Worst of all, they get personnal (one, more then the other).

    It's sad to see. Really sad. And like Shijack and others have said before, it's only a few that are stirring this shit and keeping this agressivity ongoing. When will it stop? Do we need a fistfight? Do we need one dead body? Don't get me wrong here, reading what you've all said makes me wonder how far will you go. It's too intense to say otherwise.

    It's also sad to notice that most of are beyong your 40s, and still fighting like kids in public. He said this he did that. Pathetic. You should be better than that.

    The nature then was calm and respectful, why change that? Why suddenly shall we mimic the imperfection of the blue. Can't you fight your own problems without using the mass? Being a hobbyist to me is all about being civilized and respectful. Maybe it's the innocent part in me, and maybe I don't get the whole pictures. It is still non-sense to me to carry this over here and to drag people down for difference of opinion.

    Can we bring back peace in this board? Moderators? Can you "lead" by example?

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    Quote Originally Posted by McFly View Post
    The first time I've found and appreciated the boards was in 2004. Blue came out first, but a couple of months of research later, green appeared. Which one of the two was more appealing? Green of course, due to simplicity, completeness and more reviews and advertisers.
    I joined this board in 2003, under a different handle. Blue didn't exist at that time; Tom saw merbs success and tried to copy cat.

    As far as our mods leading by example, they are doing just that. There is no moderation at all on the blue board.
    The mounties always get their man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rumpleforeskiin View Post
    I joined this board in 2003, under a different handle. Blue didn't exist at that time; Tom saw merbs success and tried to copy cat.

    As far as our mods leading by example, they are doing just that. There is no moderation at all on the blue board.
    Blue came out first, as being the first one I've found out.

    As far as moderation goes, it could be better and put a stop to this crazyness. At the moment, it's obvious that you (general form here) can all say what you (general form here again) want as long as it targets Blue. It comes a time when you say enough is enough. I come to think that there is a majority that think likewise. But it's just my opinion.

    McFly

    Since Mods appreciate suggestions on rules, here is an interesting twist to an updated rule. Extend the ban rule to any flaming issues regarding/toward other boards. It's worthless and gives them unnecessary credits.
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    """"" When will it stop? Do we need a fistfight? Do we need one dead body? Don't get me wrong here, reading what you've all said makes me wonder how far will you go. """"""

    Quote from mcfly..


    I really doubt some of these older guys going back and forth on the web will go any further?
    On the other board.. You have a guy saying he misses the day that real men go out back, and shoot the fair one.?
    The same guy mentions calling the police.
    And then once again claims he was visited by a goon who told him "ok, ok Relax" when he rolled up his sleeves.
    i wish the issues of these few individuals would be taken care of in private in whatever manner they see fit.. Of Course Excluding violence.
    But a dead body we need not fear.. These guys could cross each other drunk at a bar, and still never throw a punch.

    Whats worse is i thought this was a general beef between the boards, and now the two sides are revealing info that it might just be all because of a personal matter involvong a few men.
    Last edited by Ricky bonds; 05-15-2011 at 02:32 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by McFly View Post
    Blue came out first, as being the first one I've found out.
    Let me see if I've got this right. Merb didn't exist because you didn't know about it? That's a very interesting way of looking at the world. Does the sun also rotate around you?
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