Montreal Mirror Article
Finding deep throat
July 7, 2011
Dear Sasha, Iím a 32-year-old man whoís had my share of female sex partners, but Iíve yet to find a woman who can deep throat my eight-and-a-half-inch penis. Iíve had a bit of an obses*sion/fetish of seeing women deep throating in porn movies since my youth.
I dialled a few escort numbers that I found at the back of a paper to see what I could find, and I was turned down by a few who kindly admitted that they canít deep throat past six or seven inches. What shocked me was the reaction I got from other escorts who felt insulted. They told me they deserved more respect for their services and that they werenít just a piece of meat.
Iíve even tried online escorts and got the same reaction by two women, as well as honest responses from others who were nice by admitting that they canít perform the task. I respect all escorts in what they do for a living, but canít I get the same respect for being a paying customer whoís looking for a specific service?
How do I go about asking for what Iím looking for without offending some escorts if the ads donít mention what services they provide? I know that I sound very forward when asking, but Iím polite in telling them what Iím looking for. It would be a lot easier if the escorts would specify the services they provide. I just want to experience for myself what it feels like.
Any advice on how to approach the subject when contacting an escort without offending some of them? Why are they so offended when all they have to say is, no, so I may move on to the next one?
Dear Deep, Iím sorry that some escorts have been terse with you. Talking about specifics on the phone puts them in danger of breaking the law, so perhaps this is why they are responding so huffily. ďMore respect for her servicesĒ might be her way of saying, ďIím sorry, I will not discuss this with you because you may be an undercover copĒ or ďIím not here to get you turned on for free over the phone.Ē Wankers are an unfortunate inconvenience for all sex workers who have a publicly advertised telephone number.
I would suggest getting a membership at The Montreal Escort Review Board and chatting with sex workers in this forum. Many go on the message boards to drum up interest. You may also speak to other pundits in this forum, who are always happy to strut out the intimate details of their exchanges. Reviews of escorts are also available through this site. Itís all a little gross and dorky and proprietorial but it will give you a clearer idea of womenís services and skills.
So if we see a new MERB member by the name of "SwallowMe8Whole", we will know how he became a member.
When journalist do not know what to write, the write sensationalism to sell.
Actually, in this case, she writes about what she knows. Sasha is a former Montreal stripper, and currently a Toronto-based burlesque performer, sex worker rights advocate and sex advice columnist. It is difficult to write about sex worker issues without being controversial.
Originally Posted by Lord Brett Sinclair