Do you support or object to the idea of having a platform for rating clients?

[Fradi]

What the point... its not because you spend money you have all the rights....

I'm not a fan of reviews

I am a fan of safety for both side

I always encourage my customer to book independent

But to keep a track of timewaster, creepy, bad hygienic, no show, last minute cancelation, push the boundaries, disease, try to have bbfs...

Yes I approve

Sorry no, you would only need to make a a couple of negative points in a ladies review and the retaliation would be swift and horrendous on yours.
It would be a never ending tit for tat worst idea ever.
I concur, when SP start paying us for sex they can review us they have their own network anyway so they know about us.
Does a restaurant or hotel review their customers ? Ridiculous idea it is the customer that gets to review to either warn or recommend good and bad service.
It is precisely because you spend money that review boards exist be it for SP, hotels restaurants businesses etc….. the tourist industry relies on it heavily. You want to spend your money where you get the right value for it.
They should have a special one for airlines, they all suck.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

Sorry no, you would only need to make a a couple of negative points in a ladies review and the retaliation would be swift and horrendous on yours.
It would be a never ending tit for tat worst idea ever.
I concur, when SP start paying us for sex they can review us they have their own network anyway so they know about us.
Does a restaurant or hotel review their customers ? Ridiculous idea it is the customer that gets to review to either warn or recommend good and bad service.
It is precisely because you spend money that review boards exist be it for SP, hotels restaurants businesses etc….. the tourist industry relies on it heavily. You want to spend your money where you get the right value for it.
They should have a special one for airlines, they all suck.

Your arguments were quite compelling, my friends. Irrespective of whether you are making a comparison between customers at restaurants and two individuals who are compensated for engaging in full sexual activity behind close doors. There are a multitude of disturbing tales involving clients and service providers, reflecting the madness of our world where certain clients behave in a savage manner when left alone with the providers. It is vital that these accounts are shared so as to prevent service providers from being subjected to any danger or disrespect.

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Sorry no, you would only need to make a a couple of negative points in a ladies review and the retaliation would be swift and horrendous on yours.
It would be a never ending tit for tat worst idea ever.
I concur, when SP start paying us for sex they can review us they have their own network anyway so they know about us.
Does a restaurant or hotel review their customers ? Ridiculous idea it is the customer that gets to review to either warn or recommend good and bad service.
It is precisely because you spend money that review boards exist be it for SP, hotels restaurants businesses etc….. the tourist industry relies on it heavily. You want to spend your money where you get the right value for it.
They should have a special one for airlines, they all suck.

If the person is mean, disrespectful, violent or bad hygiene ... do you thing I'm gonna do my best performance ever.. I'm not a doll ... I'm a dont like a scenario.. I do my job because I love humain not because I need sex .. you're comparison is wrong ... sex is expensive because it's so intimate.. you share your body and should.. and this work content risk...

 

[cpp433]

What the point... its not because you spend money you have all the rights....

I'm not a fan of reviews

I am a fan of safety for both side

I always encourage my customer to book independent

But to keep a track of timewaster, creepy, bad hygienic, no show, last minute cancelation, push the boundaries, disease, try to have bbfs...

Yes I approve

Nowhere did i even remotely insinuate that meant we have all the rights! Not sure how that could even be remotely taken from that?
What i said was that was the whole point of reviews is because we are paying for a service and want to know beforehand before making a choice with our dollars, just like in any service such as food or hospitality etc etc
As far as unsafe clients they are exposed throughout the agencies and indys amongst themselves to insure safety.

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Nowhere did i even remotely insinuate that meant we have all the rights! Not sure how that could even be remotely taken from that?
What i said was that was the whole point of reviews is because we are paying for a service and want to know beforehand before making a choice with our dollars, just like in any service such as food or hospitality etc etc
As far as unsafe clients they are exposed throughout the agencies and indys amongst themselves to insure safety.

It's a gamble... like when you go on tinder.. we cant never guarantee connection.... but you don't have to spend a lunch to the restaurant who gonna cost probably same

 

[Fradi]

If the person is mean, disrespectful, violent or bad hygiene ... do you thing I'm gonna do my best performance ever.. I'm not a doll ... I'm a dont have a scenario.. I do my job because I love humain not because I need sex .. you're comparison is wrong ... sex is expensive because it's so intimate.. you share your body and should.. and this work content risk...

I don’t expect you to be a doll. Shantie I don’t think anybody does and basic human kindness is what everywoman or any person deserves without question along with proper hygiene.
This is not about rights , nobody has the right to disrespect or treat another human being poorly no matter how much money they are paying.
This is simply about the fact that the customer is the one that does the review to either recommend or warn whether or not the service is value for their money.

If however the SP is so smitten with the customer’s performance and kindness a small gift or tip is always appreciated but never expected.

 

[Fradi]

Your arguments were quite compelling, my friends. Irrespective of whether you are making a comparison between customers at restaurants and two individuals who are compensated for engaging in full sexual activity behind close doors. There are a multitude of disturbing tales involving clients and service providers, reflecting the madness of our world where certain clients behave in a savage manner when left alone with the providers. It is vital that these accounts are shared so as to prevent service providers from being subjected to any danger or disrespect.

There are multitude of disturbing tales being told of scams, rip offs, bait and switch, pimps beating up clients or holding them at gunpoint etc….
we can go on forever with this it can be dangerous for both sides.
I think we can all agree that nobody has the right to disrespect another human being and to treat them poorly no matter how much money they are paying them.
Reviews however are for the client not the service provider and that applies to any service industry.
Service providers have their own back channels and share information of bad and dangerous clients.

 

[Fradi]

but you don't have to spend a lunch to the restaurant who gonna cost probably same

Not many of us have $400 - $500 lunches on a regular basis lol.

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Not many of us have $400 - $500 lunches on a regular basis lol.

I know a lot for guy who don't have 400$ or dont want to spend it.. but book every week... one customer try to deal me because he saw me 3 time in the same week.. ask me deal.. byt after book my friend... so at the end he just trying to get deal...this hobby is a luxury .... with the time reputate provider we have a lot of regular .. that's so funny sometimes how I can have that much regular... and some say I'm not work it. Lol so reviews is annoying sometimes

 

[rando555]

So a "rate your clients" thread did exist more than a decade ago, to the best of my recollection, but the intention of the thread was more to entertain and satisfy curiosities.

Clients were rated on attractiveness, performance, etc. and I remember most were 3-6 out of 10.

I specifically remember a top rated sp commented that she was excited to meet a really handsome client but the guy did nothing but sit there while she did all the work in cg.

Maybe it was a different time back then but I don't remember anyone's feelings getting hurt and mostly people were just amused

 

[Shantie_mtl]

I'm dont agree about any reviews other than safety ...

 

[Fradi]

I know a lot for guy who don't have 400$ or dont want to spend it.. but book every week... one customer try to deal me because he saw me 3 time in the same week.. ask me deal.. byt after book my friend... so at the end he just trying to get deal...this hobby is a luxury .... with the time reputate provider we have a lot of regular .. that's so funny sometimes how I can have that much regular... and some say I'm not work it. Lol so reviews is annoying sometimes

Unfortunately there are a lot of people that don’t live within their means and there are just as many SP that spend it faster than they can make it.
Managing your finances is many times much more difficult than actually earning the money.
Yes this hobby is a luxury and all the more reason for a community like Merb which helps to not only keep people safe but allows you to spend your money on reputable SP.
As far as the reviews you need to take them with a grain of salt many are ridiculous and are a joke, a lot of guys are actually reviewing themselves with all the Os etc…
I don’t do many reviews simply because I see the same lady 90 % of the time and there is not much more that I can say about her, she is the most amazing person I could have possibly picked and I am grateful and lucky to have her in my life.

 

[Toto beefcake]

Object….
why would I want to know what ANYONE really thinks of me…especially not someone I am paying. Let me maintatin my fantasy as well hung, incredible lover and that she thinks my juice is all she needs to survive

Anyways if you check some of their twitters they already have an opinion lol.

Unfortunately there are a lot of people that don’t live within their means and there are just as many SP that spend it faster than they can make it.
Managing your finances is many times much more difficult than actually earning the money.
Yes this hobby is a luxury and all the more reason for a community like Merb which helps to not only keep people safe but allows you to spend your money on reputable SP.
As far as the reviews you need to take them with a grain of salt many are ridiculous and are a joke, a lot of guys are actually reviewing themselves with all the Os etc…
I don’t do many reviews simply because I see the same lady 90 % of the time and there is not much more that I can say about her, she is the most amazing person I could have possibly picked and I am grateful and lucky to have her in my life.

your replies are always top. But just for shits and giggles 90 percent of the time you mention you see the same lady haha. Just thought id bust your balls a bit there lol

 

[Fradi]

Anyways if you check some of their twitters they already have an opinion lol.

your replies are always top. But just for shits and giggles 90 percent of the time you mention you see the same lady haha. Just thought id bust your balls a bit there lol

I see some others also and so far I have yet to have a bad experience.
There is no magic to having a nice time with a companion, just be kind and respectful and clean and the rest will take care of itself.
These ladies have seen hundreds of dicks and different body types, I think they are much more impressed with someone who has a sense of humour can carry on a polite conversation perhaps brings a bottle of wine and some food treats and basically treats them as if they are on a special date with a gorgeous woman, which is exactly what it is.
Yes they occasionally might be impressed with a handsome guy who is totally fit, unfortunately I can’t dial back the clock 30 years so I use the other options available.

 

[Toto beefcake]

I see some others also and so far I have yet to have a bad experience.
There is no magic to having a nice time with a companion, just be kind and respectful and clean and the rest will take care of itself.
These ladies have seen hundreds of dicks and different body types, I think they are much more impressed with someone who has a sense of humour can carry on a polite conversation perhaps brings a bottle of wine and some food treats and basically treats them as if they are on a special date with a gorgeous woman, which is exactly what it is.
Yes they occasionally might be impressed with a handsome guy who is totally fit, unfortunately I can’t dial back the clock 30 years so I use the other options available.

No worries man you do you. As i said was just breaking your balls

 

[DouMan]

This is an amusing subject that is highly unlikely to occur in reality

Spoiler alert, it does exist. Just check out the websites of certain SPs associations.
In general it's a good thing to keep certain idiots in check.
Unfortunately it's not 100% foolproof especially with the ease of changing numbers.

 

[Mika xx]

Ymmv exist for guys too

One guy can be blacklisted for one girl and be the favourite client of another girl.

personal taste can vary so much. I don’t see the point of rating a client based on looks, performance and even personality.
I guess it can only apply for hygiene and behavior. If this reverse review actually exist, I think most of the girls just want to read “he was clean and respectful”.

another question would be how to identify the client? Will each client have their own thread? How to know if they are talking abt the same client without breaching his privacy?

Actually it does “kind of” exist. I can only speak for agencies. no comment is a great comment, which mean everything is fine and no one complained abt the client.

My conclusion is that I think the current system is fine. However, on this current board, it would be great if every member actually read the forum rules

https://merb.cc/xenforo/pages/forum-rules/

And pay attention to rules 2-3-11-13-16-21 before posting, as they were often broken.
Xoxo
Kimi

 

[GreyPilgrim]

I know for a fact that agencies do keep tabs on clients.
And I will gladly comply with the screening process of any independent.
I mean, it’s not rocket science: anything that helps the SP feel safer will improve the session for the client!

But a board or database to review johns? Nope. That’s where I draw the line. There’s just so many ways that plan can go horribly wrong, blindingly fast…

 

[minutemenX]

I agree with Shantie. The safety, politeness, respect, and cleanness are probably the only points that are of value to SPs. If you want the review of your personal experience than it is actually the sexual service and should be paid for. I am sure it will be glorious if you are generous enough

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I know for a fact that agencies do keep tabs on clients.
And I will gladly comply with the screening process of any independent.
I mean, it’s not rocket science: anything that helps the SP feel safer will improve the session for the client!

But a board or database to review johns? Nope. That’s where I draw the line. There’s just so many ways that plan can go horribly wrong, blindingly fast…

I concur with your viewpoint. Some service providers indicated to me in previous session that they evaluate clients based on their level of respectfulness and personal hygiene with the agency . These assessments are linked to the client's phone number and address, and are updated after each session, with an additional note if the client is affiliated with the Merb platform. Given these circumstances, it would be logical for the agency to store this information on their phone. However, the situation is quite delicate since anyone who is blacklisted by the agency could easily obtain a burner phone and call from a hotel. I am uncertain if this is sufficient to retain information regarding unfavorable customers.