I offered sexual services all week lol no social time. Am I bothered by it? Absolutely not. I'm grateful I have clients no matter what.
Am I changing or is the industry changing?
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i wouldnt be surprised if sometimes they put fully booked just to show fully booked. Could be wrong but wouldnt surprise me .
Spending time and energies on other hobbies etc actually brings genuine happiness and not temporary dopamine happiness . Huge difference .
I think you misunderstand what I'm saying. There is 95 percent of the time something sexual happening during bookings and I always make sure my clients leave satisfied. All I'm saying is there are clients who like to chat a bit and spend time before having sex, and some clients just want sex right away. Both of these are fine. And yes like Valentina said in the end there is always dick sucking no matter what
I don't know what you're imagining but I'm not arm candy for rich golfers. You are right most clients don't book social time and that's fine. Advertising this service doesn't mean we're forcing it on anyone.. we're not trying to brainwash anybody
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I think you read something extra into what I was saying. I wasn't discussing your personal tastes at all. I was making an observation about the male market as a whole, and general tastes, and not about provider tastes in particular. You just go right on sucking dick my dear. I absolutely applaud you for it!
I’m not talking about you Luna. I’m talking about the women that advertise their services and end up talking and doing nothing when they promised a service or the “arm candy” gals that wanna go out to diners and travel every day/ week as if it’s the main reason why men are here.
If you have a 1H of intimacy and you don’t give your client intimacy that equals to fraud / scamming a client and it ruins the industry for the rest of us because guess what? The guys that have this experience won’t wanna hobby anymore. That’s what you gals don’t seem to understand.
I was replying to your assertion that we "might not understand our clientele as well as we think we do".I think you read something extra into what I was saying. I wasn't discussing your personal tastes at all. I was making an observation about the male market as a whole, and general tastes, and not about provider tastes in particular. You just go right on sucking dick my dear. I absolutely applaud you for it!
I am not claiming that every clients wants social experiences and extended bookings. My claim is that a minority of them does and that the people who do offer these services are still real escorts and the majority of our appointments are for sexual services.
I understand my clientele I promise you.
You went on a different tangent again. Of course a lot of people want to chat with you and hang out with you a bit. That's just general social lubricant and human companionship. I wasn't talking aboiut that at all. I was talking about the subgroup of guys who want to take you to a couples retreat in Vermont, who want to go golfing with you, or who want to have you on their arm at their High School reunion. Are there guys like this? Of course there are. Are they really representative of the monger landscape? No they're not. I'm going back to the OP here, where the insinuation is that the industry is changing into a pay for companionship thing, when it's not, and you'd better like it bitches, becvause that's where the world's going, as opposed to a pay for sex thing, as Valentina said, which is what it is at the core for most guys.
There is nothing like a very sensual sp coming over and engaging in great topics and having her fulfill your fetishes!
I will try to be as diplomatic as I possibly can.
Primarily the way I understand Merb it is a sight for escort reviews and not a sight to worship escorts that post here ( mentioned to me by a very wise Merbite). It is a sight to make sure that men are not scammed and are not in danger and will get what they pay for as long as they are respectful and have good hygiene.
The main purpose of booking an escort is primarily sex for the majority.
Now personally I book 90 minute sessions not because I need or can have 90 minutes of non stop sex but because the ladies I see are not just escorts for me but friends and I enjoy having a bottle of wine some snacks and yes talking to them about just about anything.
I enjoy every part of the session but primarily it is about sex. I don’t do dinner dates simply because I find it ridiculous to pay for someone’s dinner and the time to eat it and if I am going to have dinner with someone I want them to be there because they want to be not because I am paying them.
It is has nothing to do with money I couldn’t care less if a lady pics the most expensive place in Montreal and the priciest food
Would I book other type of session like social sessions, no, I am not a person who is lonely, I have an amazing family, children grandchildren that I see every week and still pretty active with friends that I have known for over 30 years golf pool, hockey games, soccer etc…
Primarily the way I understand Merb it is a sight for escort reviews and not a sight to worship escorts that post here ( mentioned to me by a very wise Merbite). It is a sight to make sure that men are not scammed and are not in danger and will get what they pay for as long as they are respectful and have good hygiene.
The main purpose of booking an escort is primarily sex for the majority.
Now personally I book 90 minute sessions not because I need or can have 90 minutes of non stop sex but because the ladies I see are not just escorts for me but friends and I enjoy having a bottle of wine some snacks and yes talking to them about just about anything.
I enjoy every part of the session but primarily it is about sex. I don’t do dinner dates simply because I find it ridiculous to pay for someone’s dinner and the time to eat it and if I am going to have dinner with someone I want them to be there because they want to be not because I am paying them.
It is has nothing to do with money I couldn’t care less if a lady pics the most expensive place in Montreal and the priciest food
Would I book other type of session like social sessions, no, I am not a person who is lonely, I have an amazing family, children grandchildren that I see every week and still pretty active with friends that I have known for over 30 years golf pool, hockey games, soccer etc…
sigh. Julia, again I wasn't referring to you, but as I can see the landscape is there for a bunch of these mini-feuds when I was just trying to be diplomatic I will tell you that I was commenting more towards the OP than anything that anyone else said. I suspect that every single one of the providers here understands their own clientele perfectly well, because by design they have attracted exactly those people. Those clients may not be a reflection or the larger whole though, and that's again what I was referring to. I'm not sure if I can be any clearer about it than that, but again none of that was directed at you personally.
What are you taking about.. I've never been taken to a couple's retreat? I never said this is turning into an only companionship thing and I have no idea if OP meant this. I said that some guys like to book 2 or 3 hours and chat before having sex and they like the connection. I'm well aware I'm getting paid for sex.
People tend to forget that this is an escort review/ ad site. Not a site where SPs can try to convince clients that they can do less for more money because “times have changed or they might’ve changed?”
Again, stop trying to fix what ain’t broken and stop telling men they’re gonna have to get used to paying escorts for longer dates, dinner and a movie and FMTY. If you can get that experience from a gent that’s MARVELOUS and very good for you - it’s just not the actual reality 95% of the time - you will be booked for sexual intercourse. You will not be a fake girlfriend for most of the days - since they will do all that cutesy stuff back home with their wives.
Be for fucking real and stop living in LalaLand.
Again, stop trying to fix what ain’t broken and stop telling men they’re gonna have to get used to paying escorts for longer dates, dinner and a movie and FMTY. If you can get that experience from a gent that’s MARVELOUS and very good for you - it’s just not the actual reality 95% of the time - you will be booked for sexual intercourse. You will not be a fake girlfriend for most of the days - since they will do all that cutesy stuff back home with their wives.
Be for fucking real and stop living in LalaLand.
It's true that we know who we attract and what type of men we cater to. I don't know if they are average or not. If the message is that I'm not welcome here by the majority, I'm taking it lovingly and I will remove myself from posting comments.
Valentina, I can't speak for OP but I'm not trying to convince anyone to book me for social dates here.. you are right dinner dates etc are rare and I'm not complaining about it. We all know this. I'm grateful I have respectful clients and that's it.. I don't want a fmty.. I'm not trying to fix anything... I'm not a high end escort and I'm not aspiring to be..
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Are escorts "escort enough", wtf...
What is that weird debate about.
What is that weird debate about.
I'm gonna regret writing this as this is a bulldozer thread... Can we consider us lucky to have a review board that covers the general needs of a community, and how lucky we are to have SPs participating in it?
FWIW, I liked the OP's comments. It is great to have humanity in an SP world.
All options are out there. This what this forum is about. Some want a quick fuck, some others want a bit more... Having the luxury to have SPs express their preferences... knowing that they already have their set of costs... why not???
